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Re: The Desperation To Get Married by alizma: 9:20pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
mysticgal:any man that knows wat he is doing and care to raise his kids to a reasonable stage before heavenly call come knocking will certainly become desperate at certain age. even though I had planned to settle down at age btw 27-30, I didn't know how I got to be single at 35 and d desperation became something else but glory be to God my wedding comes up in less than a month from now. 9 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:21pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22: Abeg jst leav dat ur bro to jaye wella and tak his time to choose. I hav an elder bro who got married at the age of 50 and another at the age of 24. Wit d way tins are now; I envy d former to d later...For it is berra to be single and alone than to live under the same roof wit a contentious... u complete it. no b my mouth u go hear am say na Buhari be Nija President. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by honeygirl17: 9:22pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey:You are 38 years old now according to the story, you copied someone's thread just to make FP. The hustle for frontpage is real |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by decasey(m): 9:22pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
My brother na d same level me n u day oo, I tot I was d only one passing tru dis kind of situation, though a girl broke my heart long time ago, dis was a girl I date 4 six years den I was in school. Well am praying 2 GOD 2 bring my missing rip. Me I day desperate now. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Cutehector(m): 9:22pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
chronique:amen brother.. I can't afford to be unmarried wen i'm 31. I'm pretty much tryn so hard to combine business and making new female friends. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by DoctorAlien(m): 9:23pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
oglalasioux: Satan is speaking... 8 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Anietie1: 9:25pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
It's been a long long time people responded with mature and insightful comments. So much to learn from all contributions given. We all are growing. 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by honeygirl17: 9:26pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
VikingsOO7:The op copied everything from that thread. It was on FP and the mods pushed this to FP again. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:28pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
My brother just chill and read ur bible. For it is better to marry late than to marry the wrong woman early. But just make sur u don't exceed 45yrs. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by TAXMASTER: 9:30pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
ammyluv2002:BAR MAN!!!! THREE BOTTLES OF WHICHEVER LIQUOR THIS MY GUY TAKES. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by lozanni(m): 9:30pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
cindybaby22: Am sure your brother is a 'Nwanna'.Your brother could just be putting up a facade as ,deep down, he might be troubled that most friends are already married, except him. The reasons why he might be behaving that way could be: 1. financial constraint ( no money for traditional wedding, white church wedding, no money to pay expensive rent, might still be living with mom and Dad, no good Job or business). 2. Social circle: his contact with females might be limited to family members at home and at the office, especially if he drives to work, has a desk bound job, lives in an exclusive estate and does not belong to any singles fellowship or group in church. He might also not belong to any secular club or organisation. 3. Hardluck. Lack of luck with women through serial disappointments The financial aspects can be overcome if we keep it short and simple (kiss). There might be no need for expensive church wedding and reception as that money can be used to get a good apartment to live after a court wedding, coupled with church blessing. From personal experience, I and my wife, later on, rued the fact that we spent so much money on white wedding as that money could have been more judiciously spent. The social aspect can be solved by reaching out and joining single groups, clubs and match-making introduction to good ladies. Concerning hardluck, serious prayers, coupled with spiritual guidance and counselling could help. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Cutehector(m): 9:30pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
jnrbayano:lol my brother chronique just made me realise that. Buh hey, it's not applicable to everyone |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Toluensdollars(m): 9:32pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Take heart heart bruh, ur post is directly for me. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by mysticgal(f): 9:32pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
alizma:Aww, congrats dear... Wish you all the best life and marriage can offer 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by lucia34(f): 9:32pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
I pray u find your soul mate soon |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:33pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey:I meet quite a good number of hot girls on 2go AND I send random messages to Nairaland hotties. Why not be like me ? |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by jnrbayano(m): 9:33pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Cutehector: True. but marriage isn't just a task that needs a deadline. Hey, what do I even know sef? |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
DoctorAlien:The dude is So on point. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Cutehector(m): 9:36pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
jnrbayano:lol I totally agree with words of wisdom. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by jnrbayano(m): 9:38pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by stinkmainer: 9:39pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Bro the solution is simple, look the only time you should get married is when you actually can do without it, desperation was, is and will always result in poor decisions, and honestly am finding it had to believe that a guy can't find a girl, i mean without being materialistic here, what is in your bank account, is your bank alart kpekem or should we ask p square? how comfortable are you? because women like men that can take care of their needs #Life, if you got that covered then the math is simple you should have at least two ladies wanting you to put a ring on it, you can ask Beyonce she should know, but then again you might be ugly without the right words or worst broke. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Nobody: 9:42pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Cutehector:how old are you now. so I can help you calculate dates 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by whitebeard(m): 9:42pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
How difficult can it be to recover form an heart break oh..! It took me two years to recover from mine..this is karma here people u break someone's heart someone break yours |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by gidjah(m): 9:44pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Melsan:Thanks sister,bawo nio?eku ojo meta ati abo,we ise nlo dede ? |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Cutehector(m): 9:44pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
WinningSun:at a point I felt it's only immature people that would correlate comments with one's age. |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Cutehector(m): 9:46pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
stinkmainer:chronique is this applicable in ur situation? |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by KKKWHITE(m): 9:47pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
For me I have a big problem I am dating 2 ladies and I love both of them but the one that I love most is just too harsh and she is dark in complexion and I love ebony ladies . The Other lady is very fair in complexion, very rich and she has her own house and she wants me to get married to her by November by all means and start having kids but inside me ,the one I want to get married to is the other dark lady but she nags too much and we quarrel almost every week but I love her so much. Am so confused |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Dyt(f): 9:48pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
shaybebaby: Rotflmao |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Vikky014(f): 9:49pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
proddey:haba op. runs girls?... assumption is very bad..change ur mindset swthrt |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by lmbnicegirl(f): 9:54pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Ask, seek and knock and it shall be given to thee so says the Holy book. and @ the divine encounter in Abuja by Daddy G.O, he says all of us who are lonely and ripe for marriage the right partner will locate us this year. if you believe type Amen 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by Vikky014(f): 9:54pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
whitebeard:Hello..hw can it take u two good yrs to recover frm a broken relationship hmmmmm u need Jesus abegi.. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation To Get Married by DjAduba(m): 9:54pm On Sep 22, 2016 |
Wow! This is serious, I tot i was alone in this condition, am jus 31 but still in a diverstating desperation for marriage even though I have just one month to drive the screw I still feel like its not gonna come soon. lolz. |
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