I just keep wondering how love could be so painful, stupid and irritating, I love this guy so much. pull out my whole heart to him.
at the end of the day, he payed me back by calling me a scammer, i wonder what he know by that name.
wen he told me i should be on my own, he look aceive the whole word was falling on me.

Pls can any one tell me what to do,

Am already in Love with this bastard, i tried as much to get him out of my mind, but to no avail.

i always wish i have never step my foot on this forum, here i am heart broken.

awww, i'm really sorry to hear this. next time sleep with one of your eyes open.
u can get over the guy by making sure are not alone and when u are alone find something that really requires a lot of concentration to do. cry your eyes out also, it clears your head. exercise a strong head control not mind,  because your mind is in a mess right now . i wish u luck

Its not the best.

But the easiest and practical way to get rid of him from ur heart, is to get another person immediately.

u may be hurt again though, thats why i said its not the best way but the easiest way.

first of all you have not explained what actually pushed him to call you a scammer,you have not told us the whole story

you have not told us what happened and what does this forum have to do with any of it??Maybe he discovered your identity on nairaland and was disappointed with your postings is that itdo tell wat d problem is

chistiana:

I just keep wondering how love could be so painful, stupid and irritating, I love this guy so much. pull out my whole heart to him.
at the end of the day, he payed me back by calling me a scammer, i wonder what he know by that name.
when he told me i should be on my own, he look aceive the whole word was falling on me.

Please can any one tell me what to do,

Am already in Love with this bastard, i tried as much to get him out of my mind, but to no avail.

i always wish i have never step my foot on this forum, here i am heart broken.

E yah, sorry my dear.  Life atimes can be so hard.  Especially for ladies that fall in love easily and stupidly like us.  Though you've not explain what really happened between you guys but my dear just forget about him jare and continue your life.  It may not be easy, honestly because I've had my own fair share of falling in love with a Nairalander recently, everything was going gay-gay until the guy discovered I had a child and he backed out.  It was  very painful but wetin I go do.  The only thing is just to look very very well before you leap next time.  That does not mean, there are no other reasonable members in Nairaland but next time, I may not reply anybody that mail me from Nairaland for reasons best known to me, I no wan wahala.

My dear, just take solace in the fact that he does not belong to you - pronto, God will bring a better person to you at the right time.  Just pretend he's dead and gone. Do other things to make yourself busy and pray to God to blow you better breeze and let you forget about him.   

Enjoy yourself and put on your better self.  E no go dey easy o, cause, I'm still having headache and hearteach over this matter once in a while when I remember the situation, but I am getting over it. 

Take Care.

@topic

The deal or your ordeal has not been explained for our perusal.

You wouldn't want any one to start giving advice without the nitty-gritty of the whole show.

Im sure he wouldn't had called u that name with an action from u. We are all humans with same blood running through our veins (no matter how different we may be in character).

If u dont mind u can lets us into what exactly transpired.

Your reply to this post wuld determine to the fullest if actually u really love this guy or u re just pretending.

thanks

@Olulayomi and the rest,

i was so surprise my self, i could fall in love with some one very far from me, like a cyber love,
but this guy took me for granted, that i ve to abondon and dump other guys because of him, we both talked about our lifes and our relationship every day. just this morning he told me i wanted to scam him, cause i gave him a fake address, i was dump founded, cause i keep wondering how can i give u a fake address, he cant tell me what he doesnt know, so i was just telling him, how can he love some one he never trusted, and asking my self how stupid i am, to make my self a cheap giril to be fooled. i cant just beleive my self wen i cried cause he tld me he wasnt interested any more.
@ wole

U got it, u still got to appologise cause u ve offended me.

_{Hey, appologise for wat, do u knw me}



I hv alwaz said something, cyber love are for those that re matured emotionally and ready to bear the consequences of their actions.

From the way im seeing u, u must be a very young and aspiring girl. Your re oo young for any cyber love _{if u were to be my sister i would hav spank u on the arse till u cry}

Mus u fall in love on eth net? dont u hv any handsome and responsible guy around u? Are u after any selfish interest form this person in question?

Dont say such to me next time, unless i will break ur skull

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

u of cause, wole prof

let me just forgive u wit my church mind.

@chistiana

na u?na this wole guy do u thins kind thing?

@ Harvey

no be wole, wole just dey throw mouth

chistiana:

@Olulayomi and the rest,

i was so surprise my self, i could fall in love with some one very far from me, like a cyber love,
but this guy took me for granted, that i ve to abondon and dump other guys because of him, we both talked about our lifes and our relationship every day. just this morning he told me i wanted to scam him, cause i gave him a fake address, i was dump founded, cause i keep wondering how can i give u a fake address, he can't tell me what he doesnt know, so i was just telling him, how can he love some one he never trusted, and asking my self how stupid i am, to make my self a cheap giril to be fooled. i can't just beleive my self when i cried cause he tld me he wasnt interested any more.


@ wole

U got it, u still got to appologise cause u ve offended me.

OKAY UVE EXPLAINED IT BETTER,BUT FORGIVE ME CAUSE I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING,CAUSE THE SITUATION SORROUNDING EVERYTHING IS SO FUNNY,LMAO

Not really funny, u know, actually its kinda funny, but all d same its hurt

hey,am not mocking you but its just funny.

its ok girl.no mind all this over sabi house wife.them thinks say becos them dey jand or yanky where eever them fit dey do any how.if dem do anyhow,them go see anyhow.give them their size.i dey with u.

@HARVEY

WAS THAT ACTUALLY REFERED TO ME OR CHRISTIANA?

@ThoniaSlim
wats the sweat all about.it goes out to whoever feels guilty about the post.so if u are then,its all good.

and what makes you think i am actually bothered?any way i think its quite a waste of time answering some peeps on this forum.

@chistiana

how is it going girl?are u getting any better.its aight.u'll get over it soon.

Funny to note now that people are hooking up via nairaland let alone hearts getting broken. I thought they said it is a taboo in the Nigerian context to meet someone via the internet. I almost got skinned alive for daring to make a post requesting for a true and intelligent sista.

Anyway my dear Chistiana, sorry for the incident. I always advice friends mostly my female friends to always espect heartbreaks. This is because, there's never been an instrument made to measure a guy's or lady's intentions when in a relationship order than what you are being told. Also, wisdom has it that, there is little you can tell about tomorrow when it concerns relationships. The saying that "There's a thin line between love and hate is not a paranoia".

I'm still waiting to hear who did this, is the person on NL? if so, wetin be the name nowwwwww??

hmm

Wale abi na you broke this heart

Funny to note now that people are hooking up via nairaland let alone hearts getting broken

seems like ive been missing alot oh, i must have been visiting the wrong threads hmm

LoverBwoy:

hmm

Wale abi na you broke this heart
seems like ive been missing alot oh, i must have been visiting the wrong threads hmm

Loverbwoy, Na jeje i dey for my endz oh, i no break @ christiana heart. Except she get another username sha.

Anyway, whats happening for xmas eve? Dj Abbasss @ club Ntyce, u going?

@iice, can u give us a link please, i need to get over a heartbreak myself.

@iice, be nice to me. I just suffered a heartbreak. lol