its not totally broken yet, its like she has a big stone and she's just about aiming for my heart. So i want to be properly prepared. As my siggy says, i got to be prepared.lol

Make i edit my comments b4______ i can't shout.

whitelexi:

I'm still waiting to hear who did this, is the person on Nairaland? if so, wetin be the name nowwwwww??

Is this a man? or one of those BIG SISSYMAN we all hear about? why would a real man want to engage in women gossip? what value would the identity of her lover got to do with his business? be careful of these SHEMALES. HOMOS hiding amongst us.
i only comment because this guy strike me as extremely[b] feminine [/b] in his ways. Everyone posted a comment. he was the only one who ask for more than the lady was willing to share. i again ask. what kind of man engage in women's gossip

@ wale
i think knowing the name of the guy is not really necessary

@ jammin
u know most guys love stories.

@ harvey

how u dey jare.

@Wale
_{I might just go to a DJ Abbas party but definately not xmas eve, Xmas
Im taking a break for now till boxing day and the new year}

Christiana
Dont worry he dont love you, get a real man in real life

@christiana, let me quickly correct something, it was @whitelexi that asked about the name of the person not me. i think Jammin's comment is a little too direct and misguided but its not my business because its not directed at me.

@loverbwoy, i just came from south (Deptford) now and according to popular opinion ,it seems that the Chrismas eve party ain't gone fly. But watchout for the "Nigerian Premiership players" bash on the 29th at the same venue, Gatta be there. Check Ben Tv for more info.

walelead. i am alway direct. never played the hypocrite. thats jus me.
i dont think i was misguided to state an opinion.

jammin:

walelead. i am alway direct. never played the hypocrite. thats jus me.
i don't think i was misguided to state an opinion.

Good for you. What else can i say than keep being yourself.

sorry o at christian take heart eh 

Wale
those guys at BEN tv too dey run mouth esp jordan johnson and femi "you kno what yea" amusan , the only players they "really" have on their cards are Ade Akinbiyi, one of the Sodje brothers and this guy that plays in with a conference club

I'd like to go out for the 29th just thinking of doing a non-nigerian thingy for a chnage too much hype 

wheres the bash man i might be there afterall  not too far from me

LoverBwoy:

I'd like to go out for the 29th just thinking of doing a non-nigerian thingy for a chnage too much hype 

wheres the bash man i might be there afterall  not too far from me

Ive been doing the non-nigerian thingy myself for a while now. Thats why i didnt go to the Ntghill carnival afterparty and Nigerian independence day but i think its time to return home.
The party is at Club N-tyce, Wellington street, Woolwich.

N-tyce is about 20minutes from my house and i still havent been there since it opened.
I hope this event is good, just need to convince the guys to land here, leave the girls at home

am sure the guy have his reasons!!!!!!!! why dont u confront and ask wat the problem really his or are u too big for tat

@Lbwoy, abeg bring the girls oh.

N-Tyce is quite nice u know. I was there late 2005 for some Dj Abbas/ Dbanj Shoobz. its probably more spacious and tech than most clubs i've been to (same style as Stratford Rex). Its far from me sha (Come to think about it, everything is far from me) but im going to be there.

hhhmmmmm

ThoniaSlim:

hhhmmmmm

do u want to come?

no thank you.

siddon for house, it's meant for some people not all the people

wale no guarantees man, remember fresh meat tastes better

_{just check your profile}

Actually V.I.P invitations for you Thoniaslim
only if you were in town though

@Lbwoy, so ure not sure of coming then? And whats with this raw meat thingy?

Love life in N/L, interesting
There isn't anything much to do with a broken heart just like a broken rib,(it will heal up by itself with time )you can't put it in plaster cast.
Just use some painkillers to reduce the hurt you feel. I'll prescribe getting yourself much more occupied, busy. . . you won't even have the time to think about him.
next beware of heart breakers tho.

LoverBwoy:

<sub>Wale i meant im not sure of coming with babes, you know Nigerian babes and their popsy problems
with the raw meat, hmm It's better to meet new babes that know how to have fun not the one you force just to come and party

naija babes are stiff usually</sub>

@lbwoy, tell me about it, ive heard all that popsy shizzle before and it just sucks. And even when they come,its just as boring and unsocial as can be. Hence my preference for west end

really u guys are funny.

why do you think he called you that?
and do you think he still think that way? it was a couple days ago so maybe he has changed his mind.

@ pheonixman

he might any way, i dunno u know guys most of them are green snake under the green grass they are cameleon u can never know their mind.

CHISTIANA! CHISTIANA!!, CHISTIANA!!! We in this forum CHALLENGE you to name the nairalander who did this dastardly act to you so that we can SHAME him and PREVENT the single female nairalanders from becoming victims and ofcourse from destroying the good name we male nairalanders have earned.

"We shall leave no stone unturned in unravelling the culprit who perpetrated this dastardly act and ensure that he is brought to book" (very necessary quote from the Nigerian Police Force)

GUYS & GIRLS are you with me on this?

Olulayomi:
E yah, sorry my dear.  Life atimes can be so hard.  Especially for ladies that fall in love easily and stupidly like us.  Though you've not explain what really happened between you guys but my dear just forget about him jare and continue your life.  It may not be easy, honestly because I've had my own fair share of falling in love with a Nairalander recently, everything was going gay-gay until the guy discovered I had a child and he backed out.  It was  very painful but wetin I go do.  The only thing is just to look very very well before you leap next time.  That does not mean, there are no other reasonable members in Nairaland but next time, I may not reply anybody that mail me from Nairaland for reasons best known to me, I no wan wahala.

My dear, just take solace in the fact that he does not belong to you - pronto, God will bring a better person to you at the right time.  Just pretend he's dead and gone. Do other things to make yourself busy and pray to God to blow you better breeze and let you forget about him.   

Enjoy yourself and put on your better self.  E no go dey easy o, cause, I'm still having headache and hearteach over this matter once in a while when I remember the situation, but I am getting over it. 

Take Care.



         

I ussualy dont pity ladies but your story is very touching,that guy didnt loved you for real,thats why he behaved that way,pls move on and focus on your child,sorry

chistiana:
@Olulayomi and the rest,

i was so surprise my self, i could fall in love with some one very far from me, like a cyber love,
but this guy took me for granted, that i ve to abondon and dump other guys because of him, we both talked about our lifes and our relationship every day. just this morning he told me i wanted to scam him, cause i gave him a fake address, i was dump founded, cause i keep wondering how can i give u a fake address, he cant tell me what he doesnt know, so i was just telling him, how can he love some one he never trusted, and asking my self how stupid i am, to make my self a cheap giril to be fooled. i cant just beleive my self wen i cried cause he tld me he wasnt interested any more.
@ wole

U got it, u still got to appologise cause u ve offended me.

you "abandoned and dumped" other guys but you are here complaining cos someone did same to you,dont u know that what goes around comes around?
Not all that glitters are gold,the guy don chop tire and was looking for an excuse to dump ur useless pusy,so just move on or you can go back to ex you abandoned and dumped...bitchhh!