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Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Terror666(m): 6:26pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
picture of the condom or............ |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by handysuzy(f): 6:26pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by AkinPhysicist: 6:26pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
It seems you have a choice to make: A. Stay married to a man who obviously has no respect or even love for you. B. Divorce him and hope you get someone who will love and respect you OR at least have peace of mind as a single mother. If your choice is B then you need to act fast - get a lawyer and protect the interest of your child. However, if you chose option A then you should prepare yourself for this life. Go and talk to his mother, to find out how she was able to cope with your father-in-laws philandering ways. Your mother-in-law will be the best resource if you choose to stay with this good for nothing man. 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by deavicky(m): 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Common dear, don't be kidding. Condom is used for so many things. So it's not what u are thinking. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by ALAYORMII: 6:27pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
You should be happy he's playing safe The Lord is Ur strength 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by don4real18(m): 6:28pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
He's using it so that he won't get infected with STD or impregnate someone else and give to you. By the way, this is your own side of the story, let us know his side... 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by fikfaknuel(f): 6:28pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Cheating is the default mode in some men. So for him to use protection, means he loves you enough to sacrifice skin-to-skin pleasure. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Pedagogue: 6:28pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
@forlahkhe, First, Op, please don't be misled. There are many infantile 'suggestions' here. Well, that should be expected on a Semi- anonymous forum like NL. So, pls read every comment with the mindset that teenagers and people that have no idea about the institution called 'marriage' are always the first to jump on threads like this. That said, I understand your worries and I empathise with you. But you see, the fact that your marriage is just about 2 years is enough reason for you to calm down. I'm not making sense, right? I know! From experience, the first 2 years of marriage are the most critical. Most marriages go through one form of challenge or the other. So, whatever you are passing through is not unprecedented. It's a phase. I used the words 'calm down' deliberately. By 'calm down', I suggest that you should be as patient as you have never been. Show love (and respect) to him even when he doesn't deserve it. You'll be surprised @ how your story will change. Further, stop the habit of complaining to his parents, and try as much as possible to be gainfully employed. You will command little or no respect from him if you depend on him to get your basic needs. Lastly, you have two wonderful choices. 1. Quit the marriage because of the new generation mentality of 'not taking bullshit from a man' or 2. Be patient, change your strategy, and make your marriage work. The ball is firmly in your court. 14 Likes |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by faitheverest(f): 6:28pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Advice don finish here na, nne choose any of them and do what you are supposed to do.. . But as you behave well, may God strengthen you more and more 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by jamb20s: 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
overlook it abeg, it's only for protection against accidents, suicide bombers, plane crash nd most importantly spray bullets 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by back2sender: 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
forlahkhe:So naa only wallet and you dey para? Condom full all corners of my house and it has not caused any issue with my wife. I advise all men to have it in the house |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by odogwu2007(m): 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Madam at this poinnt na God sure pass ooh take it to God in prayer. He still in the business of answering prayers |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by CSTR13: 6:29pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Your husband is a yoruba man. Then his behaviour and the response of his family is not surprising. Good-luck. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Nobody: 6:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
adviseseeker: She needs to sit up . But, what is your attitude with her at home? Some times, women respond sexually according to how happy they are in their marriages. Same with men too. So, how do you guys treat each other when not having sex? 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by steppin: 6:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
@op, You knew all these and yet, you married him? I guess you were hoping he would change abi? 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by olanrewaju99(m): 6:30pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
This is really serious, my advice for you is to start your work back this days a man can not take the responsibility of family alone. By that you won't be depending on him. Try to check what makes him angry with you and correct it and put stop to arguments. Lastly prayer should be paramount. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by abbahlovethchi: 6:32pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
two yr marriage. am afraid he may break yr heart or marry.overlook or quit.endure till when?HIV.u are still young to this nonsense. no love.ur decision though |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by McEwen(m): 6:33pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
forlahkhe:You need me,send me a pm 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by handysuzy(f): 6:33pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
adviseseeker: And she doesnt give you enough sex? Something is wrong. If we are always at home together 90 percent of the time ama fvck your brains out mehn....How long have you been married? |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by bigtt76(f): 6:33pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Overlook it and also look inwards to figure out what you're not doing right in his eyes but hey looks like you're married to a #YorubaDeamon? forlahkhe: |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Longman6(m): 6:34pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Those saying you saw the signs and still went into it have forgotten that humans can't be predicted although ladies this day's fall for cheap things and neglect the core values that would make a relationship work. Op ask God for direction, stop reporting him to anyone, it's bad..be submissive if you were not, and be strong. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Rushtec(m): 6:35pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Use gun on him |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by joelegacy(m): 6:36pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
madam please poison the man he Is an he goat. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by sanpipita(m): 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
You are lucky he is even using condoms, best you can do now is seek a divorce or accept his lifestyle simple, you can even try have a more open 'marriage' which will always you two keep more partners but make sure you still take care of your family responsibilities |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by ednut1(m): 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
just overlook it or divorce. i still dont understand y pple r desperate to get married |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by ajasbaba(m): 6:37pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
hmmmmm, just throw way face and carry stick waka. men are all the same, only 0.5 percent are clean |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Lumpyy(f): 6:38pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Wow...cant imagine how you feeling,my advice?pray for him and be patient if you can,may God help you |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by delishpot: 6:38pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
Its wa O. Abeg, both of you need counseling. Why are peoe acting line they are slow brained? If she and her husband use condoms when being I timate, would she be here wondering g who he is using it for? Abeg make una use small brain add two and two together sometimes Na. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by adviseseeker: 6:38pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
handysuzy:1 year plus See my thread to understand better. https://www.nairaland.com/3371723/need-matured-advise-married-nairalanders |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by krissconnect(m): 6:38pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
How many kids u got? U have any agreement with ur husband about family planning? These question shud be enof to guide u on what u shud do? If no,den what on earth is ur husby doing with condom,and prior to his statements about other chicks. May God guide u |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by gbengaoa(m): 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
forlahkhe: please madame try and look inwards, there must be something you are not doing right. if you guys didnt start like this, something must have pushed him out. |
Re: I Just Saw CONDOM In My Husband's Wallet, Am I Suppose To Just Overlook It? by Goshgurl: 6:39pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
@CuteMorriz - Just to draw your attention from the ''Why you should never marry a child raised by single parents'' thread. I believe the poster's husband is a child of regular parenting and his parents encourage his lifestyle. Peace Out |
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