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Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 9:26am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Swizdom:see how person type like gentleman and even though he didn't fully agree with me on my own perspectives he still did it with class and grace. Thank you jare for the complements.omo luabi. YOUr mother train you well.she will reap from you in Jesus name 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 9:44am On Sep 30, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Thanks maam... God bless you abundantly. Keep doing your good work. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 10:03am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Swizdom:amen o |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 11:17am On Sep 30, 2016 |
Kkposky: God bless you brother. My exact thoughts. Start small and work your way up the ladder. I've never seen any small and humble beginning that goes down easily. I'm not saying that those that get a fat salary won't go far either. All I'm saying is starting small teaches one to become more prudent and a good manager of his finances. If you get the big bucks rolling in, good for you. I'll always be on the side that if your aim is to get married and you have the means, start early. I'm pushing my younger brother to get married next year. I don't mind supporting him. He's earning a little but with the pillars of the family by his side, he will surely thrive. Part of the problem we have in the Nigerian ecosystem is we all believe "my money is my money". We always forget that our families prayed for us too. Our younger ones or older ones supported us one way or the other. Let's cast our minds back. I can't say much. The movie Godfather 1, 2, 3 really shaped my thinking as a young man. I took the positives out of it. Family support is key for an early start. If the families don't demand much during pre and post wedding, then the OP is good to go. 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 11:32am On Sep 30, 2016 |
nuelyoyo: Bravò, hombre. Nice words. Make brain wella. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 5:19pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
dfrost: My man, you actually said enough on this thread. Each of your comments comes with it wisdom upon wisdom. I tap into it. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
dfrost:holla hombre. I was banned in that section. I'm back now. Como pasaste la manana |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 6:34pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Iamhatey: Ha? Who banned my español señora? Anyway, welcome back. Muy bien. Como es ta? Buenas noches, mujèr. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 6:37pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
dfrost:gracias Buenas noches hombre See you in that thread |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 7:17pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Iamhatey: Sí, señora. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 7:36pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Swizdom: My brother the wisdom is God's. Life can really teach you if you truly want to learn. Hope your day went well? Tú habla español, señor? 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Skoopy(m): 8:21pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Iamhatey: gracias tambien mi amigo espanol. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 8:26pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Skoopy(m): 8:36pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Iamhatey: solo aprendiendo |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by DaGeneral(m): 8:37pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
My guy, it's not about the the pay rather it's about the person(s).i have seen single guys earning over 200k monthly and on monthly basis borrow money from married with kids guys earning 70k. I have read through the different comments both for and against. Personally 70k can start a family but I will advice you work for atleast a year, to study 1. Job nature/security and salary pattern. 2. Other available sources of income.( madam's income is not another source of income ooo.. She is someone's daughter/sister b4 becoming your wife, she has people she needs to support just like you thus her's should be to support you cos na you jejely go waka go tell her papa sey you want take responsibility from him, so brace up). 3. Family demands as becoming an income earner. With this informations you will know how to sustain and maintain your proposed family. I might no be taking my family at the moment to Dubai for vacation but if them wan chop fried rice with chicken them go get am, my daughter may not be in greenville schools for now but hey I don't fail or borrow to pay her fees,i don't even live for now in the mainland talk more of the island but I sleep at night peacefully in the inland knowing I will not wake up to crazy rent increments. I can go on and on.. Bottom line is, so long as you can provide the basic family amenities bros take the plunge..“we nor go fear darkness com piss on top bed na".Life as I see am na every mallam to his kettle. Caveat Emptor:All the above will be a nightmare if you marry the wrong partner o |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 8:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Skoopy: Sí, beuno. Join us at the thread for those learning espanol. Adiós, hombre. Buenas noches. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 8:57pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
DaGeneral: This your phrase do scatter my brain. One bottle of, of, of.... Eva water for you. My type of homie that hits it on the head. I for say make we hang out one day but make we dey yarn for NL small small. If you dey make correct comment, I go follow you for back. Lemme have a peek at your past comments/posts. I avoid some monikers on NL like tomorrow no dey. Some too dey carry matter for head like gala. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Skoopy(m): 11:17pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dfrost: buena noche también querida |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by DaGeneral(m): 3:32pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
Bros you harsh o.. Even Bible say take a little wine for the stomach sake...loll Nothing do you bros,i hardly comment unless where my personal experience n encounters can help.. dfrost: |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 4:40pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
DaGeneral: No worry. From water, we will migrate to wine. . On your last comment, same with me. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by DaGeneral(m): 9:31pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
dfrost:Base on say na from clap dem dey enter dance.. No lele mk the Eva water big size then.. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 10:07pm On Oct 02, 2016 |
DaGeneral: Your head dey there my gee. Salute! |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 7:14am On Oct 03, 2016 |
dfrost:well said. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 11:09am On Oct 03, 2016 |
DaGeneral: I've gone through your posts, almost all make sense. Which shows that you must either be Gen X or early Gen Y. I'm following you now. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 11:10am On Oct 03, 2016 |
VikingsOO7: Thanks brotherly. Good morning. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by minibus(m): 8:43am On Oct 22, 2016 |
Handsomecole: Even at that, is it every month they Will finish a bag of rice?? |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by minibus(m): 8:51am On Oct 22, 2016 |
zubby55: Motivated bro |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by shugasofttouch: 10:20am On Jan 03, 2017 |
pamelga:. Hmmm lucky you. Me I'm praying to God for my man to earn as lil as 40k so we can settle sown cos we've waited 4 too long. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Olumyyde(m): 2:27pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Hmmm lucky you. Me I'm praying to God for my man to earn as lil as 40k so we can settle sown cos we've waited 4 too long. GOD in HIS infinite mercy will show u favor and surpass ur expectation, in JESUS name, amen. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by ThinkSmarter: 8:23pm On Jan 03, 2017 |
Planning matters alot . Never! never! be pushed to live to impress people and feel bitter inside like for e.g Sending ur kids to a school that will drain ur income bc Mr Mike's kids re there while there re modest ones where ur kids can be well taught. Or going to spend a huge sum of ur money to rent flats in high profile environment just to show off while u re dying inside. Learn to live within ur limits. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by diva90: 8:46am On Jan 04, 2017 |
No you can't! Unless you live in a very remote area where expenditure is minimal. If you live in an urban city like lagos, no you can't! You earn roughly 840k per annum. By the time you pay house rent, take care of your personal needs, transport and feed yourself, you will have barely 100k or nothing left talkless of when you have to carter to yourself, spouse and probably a new baby, also do factor in recession and how things have changed, price of everything has gone up. How would u even fund a wedding with 70k salary? The only way you will be able to cope is if you marry a woman who has a job and makes some money for herself, someone who can help support you. Other than that, I would say, take some time out to establish yourself some more |
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