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Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by oaroloye(m): 9:52pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
SHALOM! pamelga: Answers are meaningless without details of WHERE ARE YOU LIVING? |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by VaginaTerrorist(m): 10:02pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
eghuan1:GodBlessYouMan... |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 10:02pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Skoopy:holla Gracias. Tú hablo éspanol |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by VaginaTerrorist(m): 10:02pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
eghuan1:GodBlessYouMan... |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by dfrost: 10:07pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Iamhatey: De nada Iamhatey. Adiós. Beunas noches. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by maasoap(m): 10:17pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Me4sure:I hope you are not referring to me, lol. My journey is similar to this. My marriage really pushed me to think outside the box, now I love business more than anything even my present salary job is going to be for a while. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SC31(f): 10:59pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
Miladi:he doesn't have to go so far to get a land there are places around Lagos were lands are cheap with low cost of transportation(ogun st to be precise),that way he'll be rest assured that rent is covered.that has been the saving grace of many families that earn lesser than he does |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
No you cant |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 11:59pm On Sep 27, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: please where can you get a flat of 200k in lagos? |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by TheProfe: 12:05am On Sep 28, 2016 |
pamelga: Yes, you should be able to raise a small family with 70k provided certain conditions are in place: 1. You don't have extended family members to cater for. 2. Your transportation cost is fair, say 10% of your entire salary. 3. Your wife is able to support the family financially. But above all, there's a place called HIGHER. As a result, believe God for great open doors. He's a God that can change your story for good just within days before or after the wedding. All the best Bro. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 12:19am On Sep 28, 2016 |
my brother, you can start your family.proper planning is d key.As you go on things would get better and u will b happy you will grow old with your kids |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 12:50am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Op you can but it's a trap. You will certainly struggle financially except God intervenes. If your still in your twenties pls kindly save and investment the money. If you can buy a plot of land and start building a bungalow anyhow just try. You can survive very well with your 70k if you evade house rent. If not you will struggle to save 1k at the end of the month that if your not indebted. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by tomdon(m): 3:55am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Olumyyde: Amen But if you're banking on your wife's salary and 70k then you need a rethink because that's a good recipe for struggles. Anyway that's why I said you get liver, 70k is infinitesimally small, wait for a little raise to maybe at least 150k |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by kennethology(m): 4:45am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Guy please that money is too small o! Just wait till you are promoted.atleast earn 350,000 to start with |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Kkposky: 5:49am On Sep 28, 2016 |
pamelga: 70k is enough to start up a family, my brother. Don't mind what people are saying..how many Nigerians are earning more than that.. Most of people saying it is not enough are jobless and dreaming of get a job of 200k.. "may their dreams come true " 2 Likes |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by viazi: 6:10am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Flee from "the war to come" |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by angelroz: 9:25am On Sep 28, 2016 |
pamelga: dont even think about it. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by angelroz: 9:26am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Kkposky: Dont even advice him wrongly, times are hard. 70k? when the price of everything has gone up. Na God name i take beg you. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 10:02am On Sep 28, 2016 |
Are you an estate agent? Call me abeg. I need a house in Festac, Lagos SAMBARRY: |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 12:37pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Skinluxe:I'm not But let me give you a piece of advice Lagos is congested so is ibadan.these big cities are experincing massive population explosion. The infrastructural facilities cannot cater for the millions of lagosians trooping into Lagos every day so why don't you try places like ijebu ode or abeokuta |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 12:42pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
eyinjuege:who is doing gender battle with this one?I'm telling you the truth and you're talking about gender battles.don't worry na.enu e lowayen.when your children starts gbagauing in the house and learning crass words you didn't teach him at home you will know what's up Public schools are wonderful my foot.make una continue deluding yourselves it's allowed this is nl.don't work hard so that your family can live a comfortable life.go and marry and start children in an environment of poverty |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Hammefeez: 12:54pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Iamhatey: alright. You can follow back now your dp tho |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by eyinjuege: 1:11pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Good for you. Worry about your own children and the African magic you expose them to. There are pupils in the public schools, which were created for a reason. For free education, especially for those who cannot afford it. Your child going to the most expensive school doesn't mean he/she will be more intelligent than those going to public schools. You will still see some of your children's classmates in university that went to public pry and secondary schools. A parent plays the major role in raising children, and provided you don't leave it all to the teachers, those going to public schools will be fine. Crass words can be picked equally in posh schools, since being rich doesn't necessarily determine your values. They say all sorts like fu¢k, s#it etc which their parents also use. Those are not polite words, and are picked from home a lot of times. Talking about being comfortable, that's relative. Not everyone will be rich, not everyone will be able to afford expensive schools, not everyone will be able to afford a car to take your children around, not everyone will be able to afford expensive hospitals. Its just life 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SAMBARRY: 1:18pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
eyinjuege:see self consolation Private university never finish na |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by SSpeter(m): 1:25pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
Zaronxpanol:But my money is our money?....lol... |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 1:42pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: I know you mean well SAMBARRY, but most of your advice comes up as generalization. It is just like seeing a depressed man weeping and you say to him, " you will be fine." Of course he knows but wants to be taken through the thought process to be fine. The way you hammer on "work hard" like it is a prerequisite for success. It is not. Just the same way love alone isn't the prerequisite for a happy home. There people who work extremely hard but what they get the next day is their sack letter. There are people who have worked hard in their business and what they see the next day is fire consuming the whole thing. I like your advice per se but others here hit the nail more on the head than yours (no offense). I respect you a lot not even on this thread. Life is full of ups and downs. It is a risk but with God it is vert, very easy no matter the circumstance. No wonder King Solomon said everything is about time and chance. I have come to realize that what he meant was that the chance should be taken by us and not wait till it comes. Nice day ahead! |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Swizdom(m): 1:49pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
I was opportune to hear the success story of a wealthy man. His story is simply what anyone calls , " From zero to Hero". I will only tell one segment of his entire story. There was a time , according to him, he went for a contract while he was starting up gradually. The man to award him the Million contract has written down the details of the whole thing and it was only for the hustling guy to sign. At just that moment he was about to sign, The wealthy man asked him if he was married, and he said "No". The wealthy man retrieved the Contract back and told him it's over. The poor guy wept and vowed to marry the love of his life few months after. He said, in his own words, " the open doors I began to have as soon as I married was really something else." Se fini |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by nuelyoyo(m): 1:56pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
I think it depends on the Op's age, if he is in his mid or late 20s, he can still work for years and hopefully move up the salary ladder before thinking of marriage. Buh if he is in his mid 30s, then I can understand if he is contemplating marriage with 70k. Truth is, there is never a perfect time to marry, it all depends on the mindset of the would be couple. My advice to the Op is that the woman he is considering marriage with must have something doing, if she has gone to school with no job, he should sponsor her to acquire a skill. Her income will help augment his, with proper planning, smart work (coz hardwork o jawo mo) and God's favour, the sky is their limit. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
OK. Thanks for the info. SAMBARRY: 1 Like |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by shugasofttouch: 9:21pm On Sep 28, 2016 |
pamelga:NO. Smh nonsense when some people r looking for just 40k n wld start up a family u r complaining. Smh pls giv my fiance job n pay den see how we'll start a family wif it. |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by Gwazah(m): 2:21pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
shugaboy6102:Haha |
Re: Can I Start A Family With 70k? by tonero230(m): 5:54pm On Sep 29, 2016 |
Handsomecole: Is he buying the bag of rice every month? |
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