Funjosh:





Abeg tell me more about the home biz you are doing I mean the working at home biz you are doing before you get your well paid job biko

Dyt:

You like money ehhh

seizethaBae:
Thanks so much for this; @bolded; i would love it both ways i.e the kind of person that i have feelings for and also have feelings for me. Honestly stories like that of your aunt scares me every single day, and if i said i shld go with someone i dont love now hoping love will grow with time,wat if it doesnt?. The ex of mine i talkd about,i dated him for good 3yrs! wishing/praying to God for me to like him,it dint just happen.

Funjosh:





Ewo.............. i no like money o when e no be woman



But i like Dollars, Pounds, Yen, Yuan, Euro, Naira, Cepha, Rand and their other brothers.


Did you got my reply on Telegram.

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

seizethaBae:
I don't even know where to start or how to explain what my problem is, hopefully i get lucky for the 'problem' to be 'diagnosed'. I'm a 27yrs old lady, finished university very very early and i've been extremely lucky with almost everything in life, but to get a suitor and settle down na palava. Friends/family members keep saying I'm too choosy or not serious.

Honestly, I AM NOT choosy. When the one thing i fast/pray for is for God to link me with the bone of my bone very soon, I even gave up my travelling plans in order to increase my chances of finding a future patner (i know you can meet ur patner anywhere, but na just to shut up people wey don tink say i no dey serious), a close friend even suggested i pend my 'work-from-home business', look for job so i can be leaving the house, and i got lucky within a month or two of dusting my CV i got a fantastic high paid job with no connection (honestly i've always been so lucky when i ask God for anything but i have no idea why he is delaying this). I just dont know how to explain it, the ones i like doesnt like me and the ones i dont have single feelings for will do anything to wife me. I'm not desperate or something, i just want to reach out if I'm the only one having this problem.

There was even a time i made up my mind to accept an ex proposal even tho i have no single feeling for him, i kept hoping/fasting/praying for a miracle to happen so i can at least like him (even if its 20%) bcus hes just too PERFECT, but it didn't just happen. My type of man doesnt need to be extremely rich, tall, handsome like most ladies dream man. He should just be neat, God fearing and have something upstairs biko (i love intelligent guys). Back to the main reason why i created this post; Married women/mature lady out there, has this ever happen to you? I really envy people that love their partners and they are loved back equally. Married women, please, I'm waiting to hear from you.

And for most people that will think I'm looking for a rich guy, believe me i once met a guy that was willing to sponsor my M.Sc in UK if i can be his Mrs, but i will never engage in anything that will bring curse on my head. So my problem is not even money. I'm so sick and tired

seizethaBae:
if u guys no d level of my seriousness walah iu wont take it as a joke. shams040 im not here to look for patner/husband but to find experience pple to diagnose what could be wrong with me or if it happens to most ladies before they settle down. Experience pple pls respond plsssss

judaboom:


Frankly, I would not say it's a thing to worry about much. That's how you get married by not worrying about if he would marry you. Obviously you've spent too much time in relationships hoping it leads to marriage and dreaming of that perfect wedding.
What you should avoid is building castles in the air. Be with a man because you want to know him, you don't have to even date him. You like him befriend him. Talk to him when you get a chance find out if he's got a gf very important. Don't build any notions when he starts noticing you more, he just sees you as one more vagina in a world of different kinds of vaginas, it's like seeing ripe mangoes in the market or queuing around junctions to buy corn. It's every where with different flavors. Yours isn't special.
If after three months he hasn't stopped trying to sleep with you and just accept your friendship move on.
If he has then you broaden the scope of your friendship. Talk about work, invite him over on weekends for free food but make sure he's out of your house before 7:00.
If you still like the dude after the 6th month I'd say gradually faze into the romance, he must be used to coming over by then, telling you about work, maybe even gossiping with you, he might tell you about all your other competitors giving you first hand information required to discourage any other babe.
Don't nag him, but scold him when he does things you don't approve of so he knows how you feel about it. If he does it again ignore him. Let his conscience be the judge, see if he doesn't apologise.
Don't starve him of food because you're angry. And don't insult him in public. And when his blindness finally clears. Tell him what you are ready to tolerate in a relationship before you even begin. Let him decide if you are his jackpot or not. If you are then you shouldn't spend more than a year getting him to see you as that golden ticket he wouldn't like to lose.
I'm a dude though you are older and in already in love with someone and I've been learning about her for the past two years and some and this is how she got me thinking of marriage. Though I'm yet to propose. Still you wanted advice and I was seriously bored and decided to oblige you. Hope you read this sha.

seizethaBae:
i had no idea my post made Fp until few mins ago. i've been reading pple's comment,still on page 6 tho.lol. i wont forgive myself if i forget to reply ur comment after reading everyone's comment(hopefully before d end of today). Thanks. God bless you for ds comment bro.

JeffreyJamez:


Guy!!...... The babe na Asset o! .....send PM shaperly... I ready to design your wedding IV for free! .......no wait!... Not free... But 50% off!

chronique:
Brother in the Lord,I see what you're doing. . However,it won't be nice to move in now. PMs go don plenty and confusion will certainly set in. From experience,we should never allow lighting strike twice in the same place.

JeffreyJamez:


Guy!!...... The babe na Asset o! .....send PM shaperly... I ready to design your wedding IV for free! .......no wait!... Not free... But 50% off!

AlPeter:
who are you? Like I am very serious. You just describe me to a t. This is truly amazing. But you must understand if the OP is like me LOVE would be a veeeerrrrry big ISSUE. Someone of the same freqquency is her best bet. Trust me if she marries a guy she doesn't love and she later comes across the one she does love, it can became a very big issue. I am not always choosy but once I found something I like I hardly let go.

afroluxpaint:


you must be too good at what you do missjo. this is me you talking about
at late 30s stil having problem in my choice of woman. im following your advice straight away though ive always had at the back of my mind, i dont need love to marry eventhough there are things i would never compromise.

deathcomestoall:
I love your comment

cescky:


I made sure to quote you so that hopefully you will see my message.

Please google and download this book

"Power Of Your Subconcious Mind"
By Joseph Murphy .

If u can't find it alert me I'll send a copy to you.
....this may sound vague but if ur really serious about finding YOUR man. Please just get the book or download it, it's free if u don't get it., I'll help u out . When ur through with this book you will bless me always.

blazer234:


You shouldnt congratulate her yet. All I see ahead of her is confusion. She will have many guys showing interest in her on nairaland and she will get confused on which to choose among them.

missjo:

Finding someone who will be on her exact same frequency may be a stretch,which is why I asked her to marry someone she can tolerate basically.

You're right though.

AlPeter:
I have known about the frequency/wavelength stuff since I was about 8 and have always referred to it has part of the personalty vibrations or the persons air. I have always enjoy studying peoples air and have found must to be simply put annoying or irritating. Though there is a recent cause that has been bordering me since 2 days ago. There's this lady in my area that I just couldn't place her vibrations so have hardly have a conversation with her, don't even greet her. 2 days ago I saw someone walking towards me and the person was BLANK. No vibrations, no personalty, no air, nothing! She got close and I realised it was this Lady and that was the reason I have not been able to place her frequency. She had zero, sorry but this has been disturbing me and its kinda scary. Have aany Idea what it means.

missjo:

Finding someone who will be on her exact same frequency may be a stretch,which is why I asked her to marry someone she can tolerate basically.

You're right though.

toby2:
bros/sis, can u pls send me the pdf version of this book, I'll like to read it, or maybe the link, I won't mind. Thanks in advance

chronique:
Witch!!! You almost perfectly described me. Only thing wrong is that,I find it hard to have sex with people I'm not emotionally attached to.

seizethaBae:
i had no idea my post made Fp until few mins ago. i've been reading pple's comment,still on page 6 tho.lol. i wont forgive myself if i forget to reply ur comment after reading everyone's comment(hopefully before d end of today). Thanks. God bless you for ds comment bro.

Lagazine:
Op, u need to get more closer to your God.

Let's start from here; did u really follow your Pastor's advice? if not, I will implore u to do that... leave all your wealth somewhere and rent a small spinster's room, then u bring urself so low for a real man to see u.

Some guys who suppose to propose for you may not have the courage to do that if they sees that u are richer than they are and those who may come around you may ask u out because of your wealth (Gold diggers). pls, be wise n wait for God's intervention as well, then u will be surprised for good.

afroluxpaint:


when i was quite younger i felt same way, there were many girls i decline their sex overtures then . but as igrow older i feels indifferent about this sex aspect. i believe if she were a male shes would act same way