JUSTbuchi:
thank God you understand now!

And for the other part, would pass!!

doveda:
It is disrespect to help out with chores...I get

JUSTbuchi:
my brain needs lubricant..... I get

Ifakiland:

Ure still not making sense bro...its simple, d youngest in d house is d one dat always washes d plate. It has notin to do with real woman or aba made woman. If ur wife can take it no problem....but for me, no way, my kid bro will do d washing as long as he's in my house. Simple. But if d wife is younger Dan my kid bro, den she will do it. Its disrespectful for an older person to wash plate for a younger person.

doveda:
There is not feminine about wishing plates. If you an eat, you can s well wash the fvcking plates. If you can use the bathroom D ilet, you n as well wash till they are sparkiling clean of you can eat clothes, you can as well wash them. If you an et, you can as well keengow to cook your meals


If you care about being manly, you would move in with him when moves out so that he won't have to do those feminine chores. If you have a male kid, get him a maid when he moves out or go to uni. Don't teach your female children to be self sufficient, teach them to sleep in the dark if there is no one round to fix their lightning because it is a manly job.

mamachizzy:
like I said its a personal feeling. stop getting headache over it

doveda:
I am Yoruba so fvck that particular tradition, it is for losers who need to have their ego boosted.

You help out in the home whether or not the wife is pregnant.

daryoor:

thats if by help out u mean changing car tyres and light bulbs not sweeping washing plates. my brothers wife should now say daryoor "come and wash plate " she dey mad.

doveda:
Obviously you are the mad one for insinuating that you can't see or wash plates. You are living with people and you think you can s you like. Won't you sweep your own too or wish your own plates. Is she a slave or a subhuman for washing plates?

Sweeping and washing plates are house chores that are some everyday and basically they are more demanding, that means you will do them.whether you like it or not. She doesn't need you to fix any stvpid tyre or light bulbs. If you are so interested in feeling manly, get six packs, meet some hoes and show them what you have got. If you can't do that, show that your masculinity and get your own flat.


If you cannot wash plates for her, you can as well forget about eating the food she cooks. Who you be? Abi your shit no dey smell?. Your gender is as useless as P in psychology. You will do as you are bloody well told if you lack the initiative to drag your lazy bum and help out without being told.

daryoor:


u said im mad . i know already tell me something i dont know. i never said i wont wash the plate i used to eat.

what i need you to understand is this. can she tell me to change her baby's daipers? or will she tell me to wash her baby's clothes? or will she be healthy and ask me to cook we will eat?

does she dare send her brother in law such errands when her mother in law is present?

if you dont understand yoruba culture, ask.
if you think its arrogance, its not
if you dont know how to demand respect where u deserve it, learn.

doveda:
Are you trying to say we don't have some stvpid cultures? If you were, that would be a very daf.t thing to say.



What will your mum do? If she were a good person, she would be the one to ask you to get your lazy bum off the bed and work like a slave. Brother in law doesn't mean shi.t. I can't figure out how your position changes the fact that you eat and sleep in someone else's house. Get your own damn house, if you don't want to be sent on such errands.

If you haven't heard, respect comes in two forms, respect for oneself and for others. Basically when you depend on others, you are bound to lose respect. And if you depend on others, it is simple logic you respect yourself and act coy.


And if you don't know that respect is helping out in a home where you enjoy free accommodation and free food, you will never go far in life. Because it is even beyond respect, it is common sense. If you don't learn it now, you are doomed for life. So if your in-law ever happen to ask you to wash the toilet with your tongue, you scream ‘yes ma' and get working

daryoor:

ok i get u.

doveda does not respect anybody with out money
if u live under dovedas roof u deserve no respect and u must slave
that should also mean if doveda gives u free lift u must wash the car, because its common sense and because when u depend on doveda you must lose respect.

one more thing you cant go far in life if you dont slave in return for favour from doveda.

doveda:
If I give you lift day in day out, I expect you to offer money for fuel on some days. If you live under my roof, with or without money, you must be willing to do house chores.

Common sense does not make you a slave but for those like you who lack it, you will never go far in life. Basically, you will always be a slave.

daryoor:


since thats how u want to play it
1. your father lacks common sense
2. that made u a slave
3. this will eventually leas to your children not goin far in life .

Acheron:


You expect a grown man to wash plates used by his brother, wife and kid(s)?

How unreasonable can some people be?