Rakash:
You deserve much more bae, its gonna be difficult but learn to move on.

Dotwillis1:
he hasn't fvckd yhu enough nd he wants you back to satisfy that. Flee

ItsQuinn:
I would advice you to move on....he hurt you really bad and now he wants to come back? If you let him in, he's going to hurt you again, even worse. So save yourself from heartbreak in the future and move on.....don't worry you will find someone way better than him someday.

He had a chance and he ruined that chance, bad luck for him

At least with this experience, he's going to learn to never fvck with a lady like that again

Talk2Bella:


His Loss

queencalipso:
He hurt you badly and you are considering taking him back simply bcz he said he's sorry.

My dear this, is another of his lies. If you take him back, you will experience the worst deception ever known to man. Walk away fast and don't even try to look back.

A cheat/lier will always be so unless with Gods intervention.

Here's how you can stop your self from taking him back, let your memory of him be the pain and tears he made you go through, block your mind to the good times you had together Cz am very certain the bad ones out weighs them. Remember the sleepless and hungry nights you went through Cz of him and allow d picture of his bad attitude which you choose to ignore play constantly in you head.


Love is not blind, it chooses to ignore. You can walk away if you so wish.

Cutehector:
lol what if it were a girl who cheated, and she was beggin her guy to giv her a second chance, would u have advised same?

queencalipso:


Well it depends on the nature of the cheating. From the write up, the person in question seems like a philanderer, a chronic cheat. In such situation I will advice same.

Cutehector:
this issue of cheating sef... do u wanaa knw d real reason why people cheat?

queencalipso:


To your question, yes.

But for me, I feel cheating is a choice. In your subconscious mind, one must have thought of it, nurtured it and wait for the opportunity to show up.

If you don't want to cheat, you won't. It's like making a decision and standing by it.

Cutehector:
cuz human wants are insatiable.

queencalipso:


Being insatiable in romance is simply becz they don't want to find the satisfaction in who they have.

They programmed their mind not to be satisfied with one person hence they jump from one person to another.

queencalipso:
He hurt you badly and you are considering taking him back simply bcz he said he's sorry.

My dear this, is another of his lies. If you take him back, you will experience the worst deception ever known to man. Walk away fast and don't even try to look back.

A cheat/lier will always be so unless with Gods intervention.

Here's how you can stop your self from taking him back, let your memory of him be the pain and tears he made you go through, block your mind to the good times you had together Cz am very certain the bad ones out weighs them. Remember the sleepless and hungry nights you went through Cz of him and allow d picture of his bad attitude which you choose to ignore play constantly in you head.


Love is not blind, it chooses to ignore. You can walk away if you so wish.

STENON:
Move on with your life and the best revenge is to be more successful that when you'r with him.

Cutehector:
people think it's not possible to love just one person forever.. male and female alike.


Have you loved just one person (intimately) from the onset?

Talk2Bella:


"Love is not blind, it chooses to ignore" I love that quote

queencalipso:


May be no, but I've never dated more than one person at a time. Not because I can't, but because I choose not to.

That should atleast count for something.

Cutehector:
I belong to the school of thought that believes it's possible to love just one person (intimately) without breaking up

Talk2Bella:
Hi Bella I need some advice.

We didn’t really date for long before I found out he’s a cheat and a liar but I was already in love and decided to turn a blind eye until he started acting real funny, ignoring my calls, won’t send me messages for days, always snapped at me and so on.

I was really patient and all but when I saw where the whole thing was leading to I decided to take a walk and save myself some shame, after all I did see the signs and I decided to ignore it.

Recently we started talking again and he tells me how much he misses me and all, how he made a mistake and should never have let me go, that he was facing some issues then and needed the space, now he wants us to work things over, another chance to get to know him.

I am scared, he hurt me more than I let on here, I was devastated for weeks, would cry myself to sleep always till I was able to get over him and now he’s back and I can’t stop myself from not giving him a chance, do you think this would be like before?



Talk2Bella.



Thanks for opening up.

You see, Dating and being in a Love bound relationship are two different things and most times, people wrongly interchange them and feel they are the same, but truthfully, they are not and I can point out u skipped the part where you were supposed to get to know each other and went to fall in love blindly due to reasons best known to you. Love doesn't happen overnight, it takes a lot of effort and actions, not feelings, for it to be established correctly.


Due to the course of you two dating, you observed that he was a cheat and a liar, that alone should have made you to understand he isn't the right man for you. Someone who cheats is more likely than not to cheat a second time, and a third, and a fourth, irrespective of how sorry they are during their cry for another chance.

I advise you ask yourself what you really want in a relationship. From what I gathered in your post, it seems you like the attention from your partner and where that Is lacking, would really bring friction in your relationship so I suggest you find someone else who shares same passion and reasoning with you and pitch your tent there.

Please don't allow feelings to cloud your sense of judgment rather, stay on top of your game and be in charge of your happiness.


I believe other viewers would have some comments to pitch in which will go a long way in strengthening you to make the right decision.

Reply By CuteHector

Talk2Bella Team

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/we-broke-up-after-he-cheated-but-he.html

Talk2Bella:
Hi Bella I need some advice.

We didn’t really date for long before I found out he’s a cheat and a liar but I was already in love and decided to turn a blind eye until he started acting real funny, ignoring my calls, won’t send me messages for days, always snapped at me and so on.

I was really patient and all but when I saw where the whole thing was leading to I decided to take a walk and save myself some shame, after all I did see the signs and I decided to ignore it.

Recently we started talking again and he tells me how much he misses me and all, how he made a mistake and should never have let me go, that he was facing some issues then and needed the space, now he wants us to work things over, another chance to get to know him.

I am scared, he hurt me more than I let on here, I was devastated for weeks, would cry myself to sleep always till I was able to get over him and now he’s back and I can’t stop myself from not giving him a chance, do you think this would be like before?



Talk2Bella.



Thanks for opening up.

You see, Dating and being in a Love bound relationship are two different things and most times, people wrongly interchange them and feel they are the same, but truthfully, they are not and I can point out u skipped the part where you were supposed to get to know each other and went to fall in love blindly due to reasons best known to you. Love doesn't happen overnight, it takes a lot of effort and actions, not feelings, for it to be established correctly.


Due to the course of you two dating, you observed that he was a cheat and a liar, that alone should have made you to understand he isn't the right man for you. Someone who cheats is more likely than not to cheat a second time, and a third, and a fourth, irrespective of how sorry they are during their cry for another chance.

I advise you ask yourself what you really want in a relationship. From what I gathered in your post, it seems you like the attention from your partner and where that Is lacking, would really bring friction in your relationship so I suggest you find someone else who shares same passion and reasoning with you and pitch your tent there.

Please don't allow feelings to cloud your sense of judgment rather, stay on top of your game and be in charge of your happiness.


I believe other viewers would have some comments to pitch in which will go a long way in strengthening you to make the right decision.

Reply By CuteHector

Talk2Bella Team
All I Hav 2 say is just Dat U should Neva Be Down 4 Dey Cause Buh U can Be Down 4 dey Count. Nd _
Situations reveal the true nature of humans. No one can pretend for ever so Don't giv up Cos Dere ar Many fishes in Dey River ........
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#Rencelw_Cares

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/we-broke-up-after-he-cheated-but-he.html

DeeTus:
Gurl, in a simple sentence, your bf deserves another chance.

Tinalex:
ATTENTION!ATTENTION!!ATTENTION!!! STOP KEEPING TABS ON YOUR EXES...GET A LIFE!!!. People don't just get it, most relationships and marriages crash today because we refuse to move on but still keeping tab on our exes of which we always justify this foolishness by saying "its no big deal in so far as you guys parted on a good note" that is a big fat lie but an avenue to flirt! I'm out.

Talk2Bella:

once a cheat always a