omar22:

The main difference is that White men are more forgiven than Black men, a white man could forgive and give the lady another chance,

A black man, well make sure your out of sight

Leilah:

I know a white woman whose husband went and impregnated some little slut. She left him Immediately. So youe husband palys around and you just keep asking GOD WHY?!!!!!

eldee:

Thank you . . . this is exactly what I was trying to explain.
Social exclusion is the capital punishment for going against societal norms and disrespecting values . . . thats what a woman in Africa gets for cheating.
African women are scared of that . . . it doesn't apply to the men though.

sandas:

i will say that white women have tendencies of cheating more than black women because of the society they live in.i have heard some stories that some white women that get married to black men. sleeps with some of their husband's brothers or friends if they go to visit them, but if they refuse to sleep with her she will throw the men out of their house.some even go to the extent of telling their husband that they want to sleep with his friend.because they don't view as anything, they just view it as expressing their feeling.which in black women society it is frowed upon to cheat as a woman although black women cheat too but in a decret manner.it is more rampant that the husbands of  some white women looks for men to sleep with their wife if she wants but, in black society it like a taboo.and it is a white society that u see wife and husband swap that the man can sleep with another person wife and the woman can sleep with another person husband in black women society that is frowned upon.

Absolutely right Sandas!  You got it! I have never known of Wife and Husband swopping until I arrived on this Island. They are still doing it as we write this! I can't imagine how I could share my own beautiful and God given Willy with another woman, otioooooo! My pride and joy which my husband has vowed upon his life belongs to me, with another women?  Known or unknown?lol!!!   Naaaaaaaaaaaa! Don't even think it! But, how can I love my husband this much and, allow him to go and share such intimacy with a stranger? It baffles me! Never, never, never!

To be honest, I am still wondering how some of these White women do it. Strange!!! But that's not to say, if one should look closely that, one would not find pockets of Black men/women here and there practising it.  They certainly do as our people are good at emulating/copying any thing they see in the West. If some of them would participate in party which is equally another name for 'wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend swopping' what makes anyone here doubt this? Hell, no!!!

POSAKOSA1:

OMG, do you always have to type in bolded purple letters, <my eyes>

chic2pimp:

Hehehehe . I am also feeling very dizzy

Faithfulness or unfaithfulness has no bearing on sexuality, race, ethnicity etc of a person rather, it is an ethical issue. First of all, ask yourself how ethical are you in your daily dealings and activities with other people? And has your wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend got ethics themselves? Or are they one of those that usually move the GOAL POST to suit themselves when it matters?

Yes, we have a moral issue here to address. You see, what's moral to you can be regarded as immoral to another person so we have no authority to actually justify what is moral on the basis of our own cultural beliefs/values i.e. moral values of the culture/society we were born and brought up in. White society has their own moral values so are Black and Asian societies.

As for the question whether White women are more faithful than Black women? Let's put it this way - having lived in both societies and have seen alot with my own eyes my answer is, 'NO'. Faithfulness depends on peoples ethics - their moral principles. Did I base my judgement on that? Yes, I would say that, White women are even more unfaithful than Black women. My reason is that Black women have strong moral principles coupled with strong Religious beliefs than White women would ever be and these are handicaps on Black women. They curtails her urge for revenge hence, her moral obligations to family and society comes first than revenge.

For example, when a husband plays out and unfortunately has a child out side his marriage though, his wife or any other women would feel badly hurt and heart broken in this situation, a Black women would certain cry and kneel down to ask God why? She would open her heart to her mother, sisters and other Black women to seek their views and support. Obviously, they would advice on the positives and, its up to her to decide. She does not go on the rampage conniving, scheming and sleeping around in revenge of that, but most White women would certainly revenge not only to revenge but revenge to an extent where it has an ever lasting impact on their husbands. He will suffer emotionally!!

There are several examples here where these White ladies acted in revenge of their straying husbands. A notorious one was in the early 1990's when a television presenter here Anneka Rice's husband made his best mate's wife pregnant behind her back. What did she do?? Well, she lured the guy into her bedroom and --- a baby appeared. Now, you can see they were all keeping it in the family. No, Black woman would do any such thing rather, I can vouch some Black women would certainly sleep around to shame their husband but not the extent of producing another human being out of it, just to spite their husbands. No!!!

Another thing, White women are known for doing (please, anything you do - don't mess with them in this area!) in this situation is, secretly luring/sleeping with every male member of their husbands family including their fathers' in-law into her bedroom in revenge of their husbands - some even went ahead to have their brothers' in-law or father in-law babies out of it just to teach their husbands of the implications of such behaviours. Imagine, your wife with your brother's or fathers child (in turn, your wife having your nephew or half brother. And to your children, the child is their cousin or uncle.lol ) That's cool, eh Think about it when she goes about keeping it all together in the family for you!

In a nutshell, Black women have very strong ethics/moral values compared with their White counterpart as Black women would seriously/definitely take into account the impact of such behaviour on themselves, their children, entire family and Black culture/society at large, before even attempting it. Everyone knows that White culture is constructed on the idea of "SELF" they are selfish people hence the saying here 'Look after number one then, number one would take care of number two'. And that number one is 'YOU and I' (It means self preservation - think of yourself first).

So, you see if you look after number one then, number one would be in the right position to look after number two, three and four - hope you got it! That's the way they are programmed to think - we don't think like that. To white people, if you do them - they would certainly get their own back, period! They are very selfish people, and Black men who are with them understands that and knows the button they must not press - White women keep them in line. There are bullshits, Black men would throw on Black women but dare not on a White woman and that's true.

This marginalisation of Black women furiously angers me about our men. Well, it's up to Black women to demand that respect from their men by saying "DON'T EVER TREAT ME LIKE THAT AGAIN!" and mean it. That way, our men will begin to respect us and see us as equals. It's up to you ladies!

Theblessed:

[b]Faithfulness or unfaithfulness has no bearing on sexuality, race, ethnicity etc of a person rather, it is an ethical issue. First of all, ask yourself how ethical are you in your daily dealings and activities with other people? And has your wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend got ethics themselves? Or are they one of those that usually move the GOAL POST to suit themselves when it matters?

Yes, we have a moral issue here to address. You see, what's moral to you can be regarded as immoral to another person so we have no authority to actually justify what is moral on the basis of our own cultural beliefs/values i.e. moral values of the culture/society we were born and brought up in. White society has their own moral values so are Black and Asian societies.

As for the question whether White women are more faithful than Black women? Let's put it this way - having lived in both societies and have seen alot with my own eyes my answer is, 'NO'. Faithfulness depends on peoples ethics - their moral principles. Did I base my judgement on that? Yes, I would say that, White women are even more unfaithful than Black women. My reason is that Black women have strong moral principles coupled with strong Religious beliefs than White women would ever be and these are handicaps on Black women. They curtails her urge for revenge hence, her moral obligations to family and society comes first than revenge.

For example, when a husband plays out and unfortunately has a child out side his marriage though, his wife or any other women would feel badly hurt and heart broken in this situation, a Black women would certain cry and kneel down to ask God why? She would open her heart to her mother, sisters and other Black women to seek their views and support. Obviously, they would advice on the positives and, its up to her to decide. She does not go on the rampage conniving, scheming and sleeping around in revenge of that, but most White women would certainly revenge not only to revenge but revenge to an extent where it has an ever lasting impact on their husbands. He will suffer emotionally!!

There are several examples here where these White ladies acted in revenge of their straying husbands. A notorious one was in the early 1990's when a television presenter here Anneka Rice's husband made his best mate's wife pregnant behind her back. What did she do?? Well, she lured the guy into her bedroom and --- a baby appeared. Now, you can see they were all keeping it in the family. No, Black woman would do any such thing rather, I can vouch some Black women would certainly sleep around to shame their husband but not the extent of producing another human being out of it, just to spite their husbands. No!!!

Another thing, White women are known for doing (please, anything you do - don't mess with them in this area!) in this situation is, secretly luring/sleeping with every male member of their husbands family including their fathers' in-law into her bedroom in revenge of their husbands - some even went ahead to have their brothers' in-law or father in-law babies out of it just to teach their husbands of the implications of such behaviours. Imagine, your wife with your brother's or fathers child (in turn, your wife having your nephew or half brother. And to your children, the child is their cousin or uncle.lol ) That's cool, eh Think about it when she goes about keeping it all together in the family for you!

In a nutshell, Black women have very strong ethics/moral values compared with their White counterpart as Black women would seriously/definitely take into account the impact of such behaviour on themselves, their children, entire family and Black culture/society at large, before even attempting it. Everyone knows that White culture is constructed on the idea of "SELF" they are selfish people hence the saying here 'Look after number one then, number one would take care of number two'. And that number one is 'YOU and I' (It means self preservation - think of yourself first).

So, you see if you look after number one then, number one would be in the right position to look after number two, three and four - hope you got it! That's the way they are programmed to think - we don't think like that. To white people, if you do them - they would certainly get their own back, period! They are very selfish people, and Black men who are with them understands that and knows the button they must not press - White women keep them in line. There are bullshits, Black men would throw on Black women but dare not on a White woman and that's true.

This marginalisation of Black women furiously angers me about our men. Well, it's up to Black women to demand that respect from their men by saying "DON'T EVER TREAT ME LIKE THAT AGAIN!" and mean it. That way, our men will begin to respect us and see us as equals. It's up to you ladies![/b]

Dr winthy:

It is not that white women are more faithful but it is just that Most time white women tends to be more truthfull when it come to term of relationship.
They are not that faithfull. I have had the opportunity to mix with lots of them. For more dating tips

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