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Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Ejimaa: 5:02pm On Oct 12, 2016
base on African mentality
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by makelove2m(m): 5:06pm On Oct 12, 2016
There is nothing like African mentality .................... Don 't sound inferior................. Woman or man has all right to approach each other

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by BEENUEL(m): 5:07pm On Oct 12, 2016
Trapqueen77 I'm not stalking ooobut I know you are specialise in this kinda issue cool
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Oct 12, 2016
And how d fvck is dat wrong

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 5:22pm On Oct 12, 2016
TBH.. here's a list of things I'll do to a woman who asks me out..


I'll sleep with her friends..

I'd forget her birthday..

I'd cheat on her with older and younger women..

I'd hit on her mum..

I won't spend enough time with her..

In fact, I'd treat her like a cobweb broom..

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 5:29pm On Oct 12, 2016
If she is my spec I will accept her toasting.
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Oct 12, 2016
BEENUEL:
Trapqueen77 I'm not stalking ooobut I know you are specialise in this kinda issue cool




grin I don't find it as a wrong move... But it wud be nice if u ask out ur close male friend. This is the most safest I think coz he surely can't reject u... Juz make sure he don't have a gf to avoid complication grin grin


I did tat... Many times.. And it's working wink

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by BEENUEL(m): 10:30pm On Oct 12, 2016
TrapQueen77:





grin I don't find it as a wrong move... But it wud be nice if u ask out ur close male friend. This is the most safest I think coz he surely can't reject u... Juz make sure he don't have a gf to avoid complication grin grin


I did tat... Many times.. And it's working wink

Heck!...All my female friends, they are all place me on Zone, no alert of a kind, I don't believe you trapqueen. Tell me, how many of them have you asked out?.....perhaps I suspect You are Zarah Buhari angry, don't disguise with that bear ish...I caught you alread undecided
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Dhemmyjay(m): 10:33pm On Oct 12, 2016
Binance here it is bro; 09064937744
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 12, 2016
BEENUEL:


Heck!...All my female friends, they are all place me on Zone, no alert of a kind, I don't believe you trapqueen. Tell me, how many of them have you asked out?.....perhaps I suspect You are Zarah Buhari angry, don't disguise with that bear ish...I caught you alread undecided



Who is Zarah buhari? lipsrsealed is she here too? shocked

My case is different on ur case... Wudnt be nice to fall in love with ur bestie? My first love was with my bestie for 5yrz before he died in a tragic accident... undecided

And the rest is juz history...

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by BEENUEL(m): 10:47pm On Oct 12, 2016
TrapQueen77:




Who is Zarah buhari? lipsrsealed is she here too? shocked

My case is different on ur case... Wudnt be nice to fall in love with ur bestie? My first love is my bestie for 5yrz before he died in a tragic accident... undecided

And the rest is juz history...

Sorry for the Beloved dude ma'am, apology for bringing back memories, ermmmm.....I'm still not confuse you ain't Zarah Buhari grin...Pls tell ur popsy I'm okay with asst chief aide when I come back from Italy cheesy
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 12, 2016
OBTSubtle:
TBH.. here's a list of things I'll do to a woman who asks me out..


I'll sleep with her friends..

I'd forget her birthday..

I'd cheat on her with older and younger women..

I'd hit on her mum..

I won't spend enough time with her..

In fact, I'd treat her like a cobweb broom..
I like your honesty. smiley smiley

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Loyalblak007(f): 10:55pm On Oct 12, 2016
Why not
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by ashewoboy(m): 10:56pm On Oct 12, 2016
Laveda, what's your take?
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Oct 12, 2016
It is not advisable for a lady to ask a guy out.Men are naturally egocentric and like to take charge of everything. Some even loose interest in Ladies after the pursuit is over ( don't blame them its their nature).

A lady asking a guy out is like standing on a one legged chair. The lady could be played, used and dumped.

A lady should only show the guy she likes him but never ask him out plainly.

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by mhisbliss(f): 11:11pm On Oct 12, 2016
yes, its no biggy and there's nothing wrong with it, afterall we all have feelings but with our 9ja guys, the moment you ask them out they'll see a desperate ho and they start taking you for granted, use you and move on

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Jenny1010(f): 11:51pm On Oct 12, 2016
yes it will last if only the guy would think with with head and not his diick undecided

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by frankkydee(m): 12:10am On Oct 13, 2016
mhisbliss:
yes, its no biggy and there's nothing wrong with it, afterall we all have feelings but with our 9ja guys, the moment you ask them out they'll see a desperate ho and they start taking you for granted, use you and move on





no my dear,maybe u re asking a flirt out
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by engrMikemd(m): 12:22am On Oct 13, 2016
nofin wrong with it

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by mhisbliss(f): 12:44am On Oct 13, 2016
frankkydee:






no my dear,maybe u re asking a flirt out
nah not me, nothing would make me ask a guy out
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by doyinisaac(m): 12:50am On Oct 13, 2016
there is nothing bad about it.....
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 6:03am On Oct 13, 2016
Diddyydiva:
I like your honesty. smiley smiley
smiley My pleasure..
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Ejimaa: 6:33am On Oct 13, 2016
[quote author=TrapQueen77 post=50150156]




grin I don't find it as a wrong move... But it wud be nice if u ask out ur close male friend. This is the most safest I think coz he surely can't reject u... Juz make sure he don't have a gf to avoid complication grin grin


I did tat... Many times.. And it's working ; like seriously,!!!!! nice advice dear,thanks
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by knight05(m): 6:52am On Oct 13, 2016
TrapQueen77:





grin I don't find it as a wrong move... But it wud be nice if u ask out ur close male friend. This is the most safest I think coz he surely can't reject u... Juz make sure he don't have a gf to avoid complication grin grin


I did tat... Many times.. And it's working wink
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are you paid to be a busy body on nairaland?
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by frankkydee(m): 8:38am On Oct 13, 2016
mhisbliss:
nah not me, nothing would make me ask a guy out






Thought u said its not wrong
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 8:54am On Oct 13, 2016
There's no rule that says a man must always make the first move.
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 9:11am On Oct 13, 2016
how can she show d guy.
Diddyydiva:
It is not advisable for a lady to ask a guy out.Men are naturally egocentric and like to take charge of everything. Some even loose interest in Ladies after the pursuit is over ( don't blame them its their nature).

A lady asking a guy out is like standing on a one legged chair. The lady could be played, used and dumped.

A lady should only show the guy she likes him but never ask him out plainly.

Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 9:19am On Oct 13, 2016
LadyMercedes:
There's no rule that says a man must always make the first move.
I don't know why many ladies find it very difficult to follow this rule
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by chigoizie7(m): 9:32am On Oct 13, 2016
Diddyydiva:
It is not advisable for a lady to ask a guy out.Men are naturally egocentric and like to take charge of everything. Some even loose interest in Ladies after the pursuit is over ( don't blame them its their nature).

A lady asking a guy out is like standing on a one legged chair. The lady could be played, used and dumped.

A lady should only show the guy she likes him but never ask him out plainly.



I beg to differ.

The truth is, majority of guys are always looking for a pusssy to slay, that aside. A girl can ask a guy out and if the guy find that girl attractive enough and good enough, he will accept her and still respect her.

But because, guys love pusssy alot, any proposal will always be accepted, if not for anything but for the pussy.

Doubt me? Allow upto 5 different girls to ask a guy out, he will accept all of them, not because he likes them, but because of the pussy he will get. And once he gets that, he ditches u, so, it is not about being egocentric, it is about getting what u want and then doing away with the container.

Unlike girls, she can't accept all guys approaching her, she will look for the one she like in return.

But a guy will even accept the one he doesn't even like, just to slay d punnnny, and when he is tru and wants to move ahead, he displays all manner of characters to tell u he ain't interested anymore, just like a player, who only toasts u for ur punny will treat u when he gets what he wants, u don't call that being egocentric, do u?



If a girl that has almost all the qualities I want in a girl that I intend to ask out, asks me out 1st, I will accept her and respect her.



Majority of guys will disrespect u(me inclusive) the same way I will disrespect the Babe I toasted just for sex

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Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by chigoizie7(m): 9:35am On Oct 13, 2016
Jenny1010:
yes it will last if only the guy would think with with head and not his diick undecided

U are 100% correct.

Apart from the punnny and diiick thing, a guy will respect u for that.


Come to think of it, other guys wey no de respect girls wey dem ask out nkor?
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by mhisbliss(f): 10:01am On Oct 13, 2016
frankkydee:







Thought u said its not wrong
yea not at all, but i wouldn't ask a 9ja guy out, no matter the attraction
Re: Its Right For A Lady To Ask A Guy Out? Can Such Relationship Last? by Nobody: 11:21am On Oct 13, 2016
mhisbliss:
yea not at all, but i wouldn't ask a 9ja guy out, no matter the attraction
but you can ask a Canadian...Guy is guy abeg grin
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