If your girlfriend admits and
confesses she slept with another man
–WILL YOU FORGIVE HER &
STAY?
Guys please be honest and take a moment to think about this and share your view below…

Will you?

it depends on her reason.though i dont do girlfriends sha.

u know the body of a lady or ur gf is like uhmm a holy sacrament or holy grill which when desecrated by other, the thought of it leaves a man naked. in other words a gf weather in love with her or not, if she is caught cheating it hard to forgive for the temple has been desecrated it doesn't feel holy any more. to me I have never had such situation BT if need be. we just have to go our separate ways.

OMAR12:
u know the body of a lady or ur gf is like uhmm a holy sacrament or holy grill which when desecrated by other, the thought of it leaves a man naked. in other words a gf weather in love with her or not, if she is caught cheating it hard to forgive for the temple has been desecrated it doesn't feel holy any more. to me I have never had such situation BT if need be. we just have to go our separate ways.

What if she confess to you that he slept with different boyfriend before you as her new boyfriend. What will you do?

Mustack:

What if she confess to you that he slept with different boyfriend before you as her new boyfriend. What will you do?

like u said, before me.. not in the course of dating me. that Two different thing. she wasn't dating me when she was sleeping with those guys nah.

You sed gf! Can't come and trow away pvssy o.
She will simply be demoted to d rank of sidechick and a sidechick will be promoted to mainchick.

Am i mad kor am crazy ne some one gbensh mah girlfrnd make i forgive her.......may such a tin nevr hapnd self!!

I have been in this situation before, i forgive her but then i have to struggle to trust her even till this moment.

My girlfrnd ni? She's free to cheat and i'm free to leave; there's nothing to forgive...

mrsefan:
If your girlfriend admits and
confesses she slept with another man
–WILL YOU FORGIVE HER &
STAY?
Guys please be honest and take a moment to think about this and share your view below…

FORGIVE- YES
STAY - NO

mrsefan:
If your girlfriend admits and
confesses she slept with another man
–WILL YOU FORGIVE HER &
STAY?
Guys please be honest and take a moment to think about this and share your view below…

Although I'm kind of a one gal type and extremely faithful and reserve-not blowing my trumpet tho-my ex, now married, did something like that and confessed when I asked her afterward. Since we dated based on trust and openess and the fact that she didn't lie, I forgave her and we moved on.

mrsefan:
If your girlfriend admits and
confesses she slept with another man
–WILL YOU FORGIVE HER &
STAY?
Guys please be honest and take a moment to think about this and share your view below…

It Depends on the number of times it happened. It would be hard tho but I'll forgive.

She'll be placed on surveillance for the next 6months.

mrsefan:
If your girlfriend admits and
confesses she slept with another man
–WILL YOU FORGIVE HER &
STAY?
Guys please be honest and take a moment to think about this and share your view below…

I've been there, and we tried to move past it, but couldn't.

Things were no longer the same. Yes I forgave her after all I am human, but eventually we went our separate ways after, even if it happened in our 5th year of dating

It's not an easy position to be in, I started regretting why she told me because for the first time in my life back then I realized I wasn't as strong as I thought I was.

akaahs:
I have been in this situation before, i forgive her but then i have to struggle to trust her even till this moment.

brother that's just the truth. one can most likely forgive, but will still be struggling to trust most especially if she had done it now that you both are dating

kaycodes:


I've been there, and we tried to move past it, but couldn't.

Things were no longer the same. Yes I forgave her after all I am human, but eventually we went our separate ways after, even if it happened in our 5th year of dating

It's not an easy position to be in, I started regretting why she told me because for the first time in my life back then I realized I wasn't as strong as I thought I was.

mine is a bit tough dan urs bro. she did confess to me how "she had slept wit some few guys before we met but, now she is regretting it coz she neva loved all of dem except one. and she also lost dat same guy to her own infidelity." nAsO sHe TaLk

now with me, she claims she loves me nd yet she's not over those other guys. she keeps close contact with dem both on social media. At a point point sometimes last year she told me she was no longer interested in me because I'm selfish, why would i want to have her to my self alone, yet she kept disturbing me to still keep to her.
after a lot of her disturbances I accepted her back February dis year. all d time we've been apart, she had gone to finish her explorations.
up till now she is still keeping good contact with those guys and yet she doesnt wanna let me go. uptill now I still hear about how she goes out with some other guys and now she is telling me she do like us to get MARRIED soon. I plainly told her i cant marry her o.

Ifakiland:
You sed gf! Can't come and trow away pvssy o.
She will simply be demoted to d rank of sidechick and a sidechick will be promoted to mainchick.

we really share the same idea i still wonder y a guy not ready for marriage will break up wth his gf instead demote her look for a better candidate

Daricon:
mine is a bit tough dan urs bro. she did confess to me how "she had slept wit some few guys before we met but, now she is regretting it coz she neva loved all of dem except one. and she also lost dat same guy to her own infidelity." nAsO sHe TaLk

now with me, she claims she loves me nd yet she's not over those other guys. she keeps close contact with dem both on social media. At a point point sometimes last year she told me she was no longer interested in me because I'm selfish, why would i want to have her to my self alone, yet she kept disturbing me to still keep to her.
after a lot of her disturbances I accepted her back February dis year. all d time we've been apart, she had gone to finish her explorations.
up till now she is still keeping good contact with those guys and yet she doesnt wanna let me go. uptill now I still hear about how she goes out with some other guys and now she is telling me she do like us to get MARRIED soon. I plainly told her i cant marry her o.

What kind of girl is that nau? U tried with tolerance.... If its a one time thing, one can possibly try to forget.

Mehn!
I did forgive mf gf once 4dat
She didnt come back or date me again because she felt d guilt or some bullsh!tlater she waned me back n i didnt accept her
ANGIE
u will forever remain in my heart
But i dont love u anymore

Daricon:
mine is a bit tough dan urs bro. she did confess to me how "she had slept wit some few guys before we met but, now she is regretting it coz she neva loved all of dem except one. and she also lost dat same guy to her own infidelity." nAsO sHe TaLk

now with me, she claims she loves me nd yet she's not over those other guys. she keeps close contact with dem both on social media. At a point point sometimes last year she told me she was no longer interested in me because I'm selfish, why would i want to have her to my self alone, yet she kept disturbing me to still keep to her.
after a lot of her disturbances I accepted her back February dis year. all d time we've been apart, she had gone to finish her explorations.
up till now she is still keeping good contact with those guys and yet she doesnt wanna let me go. uptill now I still hear about how she goes out with some other guys and now she is telling me she do like us to get MARRIED soon. I plainly told her i cant marry her o.

I'll be frank with you, that girl to me is childish and doesn't know what she wants.

Personally I've learnt a lot, and till today I still find it difficult to trust a lady, even the slightest red signal is enough to send you parking. Now to fall in love is like an herculean task, I can't stand the chance of being vulnerable ever again.

You have tried to have tolerated this lady for that long, if na me she suppose know where her space dey for my life by now. Any girl I am dating cannot keep contact with her ex, talk less of being close... The fear of an ex is the beginning of wisdom.

Hell NO

FINgames:
it depends on her reason.though i dont do girlfriends sha.

What kinda friends do you do??

kaycodes:


I'll be frank with you, that girl to me is childish and doesn't know what she wants.

Personally I've learnt a lot, and till today I still find it difficult to trust a lady, even the slightest red signal is enough to send you parking. Now to fall in love is like an herculean task, I can't stand the chance of being vulnerable ever again.

You have tried to have tolerated this lady for that long, if na me she suppose know where her space dey for my life by now. Any girl I am dating cannot keep contact with her ex, talk less of being close... The fear of an ex is the beginning of wisdom.

Also in same mess. She still keeps contact (24/7hr) with one particular ex of hers and if i ask her whats between her and this called guy, she replies saying "they are just frnds and whatever happen between them is now in the past".

Me go just smile and say OK....

LADIES SHA

She definitely will not belong to my kitchen, bedroom and the other room any more.

Nope.

I will forgive her but I will never marry such a girl because I can not trusth her again.....

there's nothing to think about there

i won't
if i have to forgive, from that moment on i will become my sex object

adepeter26:

Also in same mess. She still keeps contact (24/7hr) with one particular ex of hers and if i ask her whats between her and this called guy, she replies saying "they are just frnds and whatever happen between them is now in the past".

Me go just smile and say OK....

LADIES SHA

Story for the gods.

I don't trust girls, I don't have an iota of trust for girls who keep in touch with their ex like their life depended on it. I know in some cases the friendship is there oh, but my default setting is never to trust exes

She is you Gf not your wife yet. So yes you should forgive.

kaycodes:


I'll be frank with you, that girl to me is childish and doesn't know what she wants.

Personally I've learnt a lot, and till today I still find it difficult to trust a lady, even the slightest red signal is enough to send you parking. Now to fall in love is like an herculean task, I can't stand the chance of being vulnerable ever again.

You have tried to have tolerated this lady for that long, if na me she suppose know where her space dey for my life by now. Any girl I am dating cannot keep contact with her ex, talk less of being close... The fear of an ex is the beginning of wisdom.

Seems like before that your ex did it. You had so much trust and hope in her.

And it seems she did it with a guy she told you not to worry about.

At which year did she do it?

she's a yeye shyed, Ladies don't Kiss & Tell.


meanwhile......When you just bought a new iPhone 7 and your girlfriend smashes it on the floor just because she caught you cheating, your village witches be like "Is our work ooooo, Softwork