Ladies are always making a common mistake. They think the respect a lady earns from a guy only comes during the initial phase of meeting him. In other words, they believe by playing the usual hard-to-get game it would make guys appreciate them more and not consider them cheap. They also believe it is not proper to ask guys out because guys would consider them cheap. The truth of the matter is that the real respect a lady earns from a guy only comes AFTER they have met each other and decided to get along. If actually playing hard-to-get or never asking a guy out gives you that respect then why do you think guys still mistreat and dump ladies who did all that at the beginning? Guys may only temporarily respect ladies who do all that at the early phase but not in the long run. Ladies feel because they proved difficult to woo at the beginning it gives them permanent respect, so therefore they can behave anyhow they wish when the friendship is fully established. That kind of respect is never permanent, it is short lived. They way you behave afterwards is what determines the REAL RESPECT

The point I am trying to make here is that it doesn't matter if a lady is easy to woo. A lady should be free to INSTANTLY accept a guy's friendship gesture if she likes him, and also she should woo any guy she likes. Some guys may not appreciate the "easy meal" at the beginning and may think you are cheap, but the REAL RESPECT he will give you is when he sees how worthy you behave and comport yourself as time goes on. This will show him that even though he got you easily you ain't actually cheap in personality. Trust me, his perception of you will change. You will no longer be a cheap lady to him, but a bold and confident lady, a lady of real substance. You will earn a bigger respect than when you played hard to get at the beginning and ended up behaving silly and cheap in the long run.