Loyalblak007:


Can you care for her till and after she gives birth?

Her parents might involve the police...that you kidnapped her

carmag:

you impregnated someone's daughter without formal introduction to her family and you think you are cleaver...continue

surhaj:

i need advise dude

surhaj:

i need advise dude

eyinjuege:
OP, pls how old are you, and how old is your girlfriend?

What vocations are you both involved in?

Do you both work or non of you does?

jashar:

Please be strong. 

Don't abort.

Are you financially buoyant? 

If yes, rent a place for her.

If no, beg your parents or siblings 

to let her stay

With them. 

surhaj:



that is the more reason i seek advise, hope that won't put me into danger?

Have they threatened your life?

That's why I said be strong.

Take your people to hers and tell them if they don't want her under their roof, you are able cater for her and the baby but they should please let her keep it.

If they still insist on her committing abortion, she should go to the Police Station and report the issue. Some of them like the one at Yaba are still sane. They would invite the family over and talk with them. Or, she can go to an NGO like Project Alert on Violence against Women at Ojodu Berger or Women Arise at Ojodu Berger. They would help her in talking with her family.

Don't marry her yet out of desperation. That's why I said rent an apartment for her if you are financially capable (stop sleeping with her too , or anyone else for that matter).
Even if you'll get married eventually, let it be when this tide has passed over you and you are able to make rational decisions.

surhaj:

God will provide, she is my life and that baby inside her is my blood

Blendoscarz10:




surhaj or whats your name...pardon me, its like your crazy ooo....how can you, you no get money na im you go give girl belle...dey talk say God go provide

carmag:

you impregnated someone's daughter without formal introduction to her family and you think you are cleaver...continue

surhaj:

God will provide, she is my life and that baby inside her is my blood

omega25red:
see your statement here is the problem. you have a fiancee who you didn't marry and probably can't marry right now maybe due to financial issues and you are having sex raw. God will provide indeed but you need to provide as well. you have to have a job and work hard and have enough money to care for the baby. Bread and honey has not fallen from heaven since the biblical days so saying God will provide

you might come back and say you have money and means to which i will say instead of running away, marry her now so her family can simmer down. A condom is not that expensive use it. God will not stop you in the street and put money in your pocket.


sorry if i seem harsh but for real people need to stop making decisions that complicate your lives.

STENON:
If you Love her... Go and do the necessary things for her family.

carmag:

you impregnated someone's daughter without formal introduction to her family and you think you are cleaver...continue

surhaj:
[b][/b]abeg,am having a very serious problem wey i need advise on what to do
My fiancee is pregnant for me and her family said she must abort it, she's scared and totally depressed right now, she don't want to abort it and i don't support it either,we are now thinking of running away from them for now till she gave birth, its just 2months now, what should i do?

surhaj:
[b][/b]abeg,am having a very serious problem wey i need advise on what to do
My fiancee is pregnant for me and her family said she must abort it, she's scared and totally depressed right now, she don't want to abort it and i don't support it either,we are now thinking of running away from them for now till she gave birth, its just 2months now, what should i do?