we have been in a distant relationship but we do meet maybe once a year

i had a dream dis week and told her abt it.
it led us to more conversation so in d process i asked her these questions-

how many guys are u keeping at present even if its as frnds.
she told me that;
as a student she has male friends
as a corper she has male friends
where she is working (her PPA) she has male frnds.

she went ahead to say dat she keep them for some reasons
dat some are there to provide her wit information she needs
and some also declare their intention so she choose whether to keep dem or not

i then told her dat i dont like girls that keep guys as frnds rather than their fellow girls.

honestly they are not my type not my choice.
pals wats ur opinion

you have insecurity issue, most girls if not all keep male friends.you've gat to deal with that.

my girl (working) just told me (at school) she is seeing someone else that I can also and it doesn't affect our relationship. she further elucidated we both need someone close since we are miles away.
op I know this isn't what you anticipated I just want you to know SOME PEOPLE PROBLEM PASS YOUR OWN, SHEBI YOUR OWN NA FRIENDS?

mylogic111:
we have been in a distant relationship but we do meet maybe once a year

i had a dream dis week and told her abt it.
it led us to more conversation so in d process i asked her these questions-

how many guys are u keeping at present even if its as frnds.
she told me that;
as a student she has male friends
as a corper she has male friends
where she is working (her PPA) she has male frnds.

she went ahead to say dat she keep them for some reasons
dat some are there to provide her wit information she needs
and some also declare their intention so she choose whether to keep dem or not

i then told her dat i dont like girls that keep guys as frnds rather than their fellow girls.

honestly they are not my type not my choice.
pals wats ur opinion

***Drives into thread***

Revelation ni, Genesis ko

Let me park first

falconey:
you have insecurity issue, most girls if not all keep male friends.you've gat to deal with that.

my girl (working) just told me (at school) she is seeing someone else that I can also and it doesn't affect our relationship. she further elucidated we both need someone close since we are miles away.
op I know this isn't what you anticipated I just want you to now SOME PEOPLE PROBLEM PASS YOUR OWN, SHEBI YOUR OWN NA FRIENDS?

tnks for ur opinion, i knw some guys hav no choice dan to tolerate it but its a no no for me cos i knw a lot of decent gals who cant keep men as just frnds and for me as a real man hmmmm i cant keep girls or ladies as Just frnds

if a gal needs a girlfrnd she should meet the gals not trying to convert a man to girlfrnd. am sure its only boys or guys who cant attract gals to themselves that will tolerate Frindzoning

You lack trust
There's nothing wrong with having a man as a friend

falconey:
you have insecurity issue, most girls if not all keep male friends.you've gat to deal with that.

my girl (working) just told me (at school) she is seeing someone else that I can also and it doesn't affect our relationship. she further elucidated we both need someone close since we are miles away.

op I know this isn't what you anticipated I just want you to know SOME PEOPLE PROBLEM PASS YOUR OWN, SHEBI YOUR OWN NA FRIENDS?

Don't you feel that's risky? @Bolded

KissChrix:


Don't you feel that's risky? @Bolded

it is but it's not a preposition that needs consensual agreement because she feels she doesn't need my permission, she is already seeing the guy before I was informed so what can I do?

falconey:


it is but it's not a preposition that needs consensual agreement because she feels she doesn't need my permission, she is already seeing the guy before I was informed so what can I do?

Sorry to say this

But, I don't see that relationship heading anywhere.

Sorry if I was harsh

falconey:
you have insecurity issue, most girls if not all keep male friends.you've gat to deal with that.

my girl (working) just told me (at school) she is seeing someone else that I can also and it doesn't affect our relationship. she further elucidated we both need someone close since we are miles away.
op I know this isn't what you anticipated I just want you to know SOME PEOPLE PROBLEM PASS YOUR OWN, SHEBI YOUR OWN NA FRIENDS?

I just can't deal with a girl who keeps numerous guys as friends not to talk of this your own case..