Berbierklaus:

This is caging and illogical, even if it takes 20 guys before marriage to find what makes a girl happy,then so be it, Now resulting to terming it all sorts of things is another hogwash entirely,because a lot of factors could have led to that lifestyle.Please don't tell me you don't think outside the box



First of all I am not even feminist in anyway,anybody that knows me,know I respect my place as a woman,what I am after in this particular discussion is the fair treatment of a girl in relations to her gender and the what not to do's. In the case of using genetic makeup as an excuse to impose a particular lifestyle on a girl, I will tell you to think outside the box because its just your mind and culture shock and will to be accepted as good playing a fast one on you.


Agreed,this does not mean somethings or events could not have led to them having a high number of men at their beck and call,even if they choose to adopt that as a lifestyle.



At this stage you need to cut down on the generalization.
okay let's switch it both ways,men are supposed or even allowed to have any flavour of women they want,even up to 50 if it takes that to make them satisfied before landing a wife,then the poor wife will end up being his therapist Hello,does this make sense?... oh,I forgot,the genetic makeup of women does not give them liberty to free thinking,they are owned



Chimamanda is a woman with her own right to believe what she wants,every women is not compelled to follow her footsteps.

Repeat after me,this is not about feminism,this is about breaking out of the mindset of what a woman is supposed to do or not.

safarigirl:


In truth, most women want everything for nothing.

Laveda:


At emboldened, in as much as I'm in support of this particular comment I don't think that's right.

There's just a number of guys a girl date, and you'd just ask 'nah wetin nau'
Yes! No one is supposed to settle for less, but there's a point it gets to and you just need to sit and ask yourself certain questions, how long will you keep changing men? When it comes to issues like these we shouldn't compare ourselves to men, let's face reality.

I think when a girl is faced with things like these, its better she takes her mind off relationships and think of better things to do with her life, till the next better man comes, she observes and see if he'll be good for her.

PS: the girls changing boyfriends like boxers, go ask them they aren't proud of it.

Papiikush:


As expected! Whenever a guy talks about not supporting their views as feminists they start with the whole "violent relationship" sentiments... That is just obsolete!

Grow up already!
open your eyes to reality!

Most of you all blabbing about women rights can't even stand up for yourselves in the real world. Real feminists don't talk the way most of you all do here especially on nairaland. No offense

I thought ladies are suppose to be "better than men" in cases well as expected except from stuffs like this right?

There is nothing low in my comments cuz I am never harsh on women. In your words "I have sisters too"

Berbierklaus:

This is not a matter if feminist or not.

And right here and now,I am not copying western cultures,I am only saying what should be fair to me as a girl.

A girl should not be compelled to stay in a loveless,nonfunctional or even violent relationship,because there is a limit she can go with the number of men she has been with. that's hogwash.

A girl should not remain single and forfeit her happiness because the society has given her the grace to be with a certain number of guys,that's another hogwash there.


PS:I am perplexed and shocked that you could go so low,then again,we are humans,we don't stop surprising ourselves

safarigirl:
most serial dating girls aren't happy... More like desperate, insecure, uncertain.

If you have to go through more than five guys to find this elusive thing you're looking for, maybe it's not in the market.

I didn't include guys in this topic because more often than not, guys don't go into relationships thinking of marriage, they just want to have fun. Girls in Africa and Asia especially (because the Americas are filled with robots who can enter even marriage and discard it in days), go into relationships with the possibility of marriage

It is all this talk of girls not 'conforming' that has destroyed Americans and their relationship values.

Everybody must conform to something, certain things are expected from males equally that are not held necessary for females eg the act of provision and protection. You don't see men calling for a revolt, most keep to such values and society frowns at any man who cannot provide for his family. Hence, the degrading name "fu*k boy", which is the male version of the degrading female term " ho"

In truth, most women want everything for nothing.

There is no need getting emotional over nothing ma'am.

My problem with this topic and discussion is what a girl is "supposed to do".

Heck!
[size=25pt]A girl is not supposed to be in any relationship with any man before marriage a few decades ago,a girl is not even supposed to be wooed by any man,her parents do the whole process of choosing a life partner for her[/size]

I have not even used the western world as an excuse in all my responses,I only have a problem with "a girl is supposed to have a limited number of men before marriage", it's not even like the husband will fall down from the sky right into her laps

Laveda:


At emboldened, in as much as I'm in support of this particular comment I don't think that's right.

There's just a number of guys a girl date, and you'd just ask 'nah wetin nau'
Yes! No one is supposed to settle for less, but there's a point it gets to and you just need to sit and ask yourself certain questions, how long will you keep changing men? When it comes to issues like these we shouldn't compare ourselves to men, let's face reality.

I think when a girl is faced with things like these, its better she takes her mind off relationships and think of better things to do with her life, till the next better man comes, she observes and see if he'll be good for her.

PS: the girls changing boyfriends like boxers, go ask them they aren't proud of it.

This is selective wants...

Lemme rephrase this to you.

It is better a girl takes her mind off what could make her happy (if relationships makes her happy) because she is a girl and there is a number of men she should be with.
A girl is supposed to live her life according to the dictates of the society because she has a vjay and not a d*ck
Probably closing her eyes to that good man that might come along that instance because there is a number of men a girl should have before she finally dumps herself to one man.

Clap! clap!! clap!!!

Berbierklaus:

If you thought for one bit that the last paragraph of my comment was about this particular topic,then you are even worst than I thought

Bam! you fell for my bait,hook,line and sinker.
So that's how low you could go to rubbish someone coz they offended you? Hope you ain't out of lies about me,you need to tell me when me and you sat down to discuss my private life, Obviously you were the one that married me in holy solemnization to the imaginary hubby you developed for me on nairaland,and also raised my parents from the dead

VIZKIZ I put it to you here and now that you are behind the account trolling trapqueen. I don't care about trapqueen,I also don't have any holy girl reputation on Nairaland,unless you don't know misspicy as of last year
So therefore go fvck yourself

Smh.. well you could have been more intelligent that I thought. Miss

Reason why I shared that comment that same night you made the statement and did a quick search on who might be behind that account before I realized that was one of your favorite pick up lines not just to me but to others whenever you are buried in your sensitive arguments.

Take a quick look at your own comments then you realize I am not the only one you have made that statement to. It feels good to know we are friends after all

https://www.nairaland.com/search?q=misspicy+sisters+&board=0


PS: I am not a coward whatever you do I come straight at you with my own identity. This you know

Papiikush:


Go fück yourself. Goat!

mumu...

Laveda:


At emboldened, in as much as I'm in support of this particular comment I don't think that's right.

There's just a number of guys a girl date, and you'd just ask 'nah wetin nau'
Yes! No one is supposed to settle for less, but there's a point it gets to and you just need to sit and ask yourself certain questions, how long will you keep changing men? When it comes to issues like these we shouldn't compare ourselves to men, let's face reality.

I think when a girl is faced with things like these, its better she takes her mind off relationships and think of better things to do with her life, till the next better man comes, she observes and see if he'll be good for her.

PS: the girls changing boyfriends like boxers, go ask them they aren't proud of it.

Berbierklaus:

This is selective wants...

Lemme rephrase this to you.

It is better a girl takes her mind off what could make her happy (if relationships makes her happy) because she is a girl and there is a number of men she should be with.
A girl is supposed to live her life according to the dictates of the society because she has a vjay and not a d*ck
Probably closing her eyes to that good man that might come along that instance because there is a number of men a girl should have before she finally dumps herself to one man.

Clap! clap!! clap!!!

JeffreyJamez:


Another brilliant angle.


PS: there's an amount of girls a guy will say he has dated and some of us guys will shiver in disgust.

Benita27:
Hehehe!, someone is busy comparing the life of a guy to that of a girl...the difference is clear!.

Brilliant and simple input.

Papiikush:



Smh.. well you could have been more intelligent that I thought. Miss

Reason why I shared that comment that same night you made the statement and [b]did a quick search on who might be behind that account before I realized that was one of your favorite pick up lines not just to me but to others whenever you are buried in your sensitive arguments.

Take a quick look at your own comments then you realize I am not the only one you have made that statement to. It feels good to know we are friends after all

https://www.nairaland.com/search?q=misspicy+sisters+&board=0


PS: I am not a coward whatever you do I come straight at you with my own identity. This you know
[/b]

Simple question.
Are you or are you not behind it all

I see

Berbierklaus:

Simple question.
Are you or are you not behind it all

I see

Oh, so now it's a question right?

Miss you are 50 shades of Bobby trap right now.

If you have/had a lead that links me to whatever controversy you know how to contact me but instead you went on with some bunch of SOBs saying shìt about me?

Prrrrrffff...i guess things never really seem the way they were right?

Papiikush:


Oh, so now it's a question right?

Miss you are 50 shades of Bobby trap right now.

If you have/had a lead that links me to whatever controversy you know how to contact me but instead you went on with some bunch of SOBs saying shìt about me?

Prrrrrffff...i guess things never really seem the way they were right?

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
I'd do the needful
could be a clone
still guilty until proven innocent.

This time around that goat is not gonna escape this,I am 101% sure its on my list.....lying bastards

Berbierklaus:



A girl should not be compelled to stay in a loveless,nonfunctional or even violent relationship,because there is a limit she can go with the number of men she has been with. that's hogwash.

A girl should not remain single and forfeit her happiness because the society has given her the grace to be with a certain number of guys,that's another hogwash

JeffreyJamez:



I'm enjoying this debate!

Berbierklaus:

I dislike the "what a girl is supposed to do" talk.

[size=35pt]A girl is a human being not a property[/size]

Therefore a girl is "supposed to do" what makes her happy,not what the society or anybody thinks she is "supposed to do"

Senseless, dimwitted, mentally rêtarded post!

It seems we are about to see another case of Miss Anambra

This is the same girl whose sister is running for miss kwara. I guess we should not be surprised when the videos goes viral as you would have inserted such anorexic thoughts into her skull.

Well, I'd just sit back and wait to tell the onlookers "I told you so!" Pseudo-intellectual hypocrite!

BloodOnMyHands:


No matter the swing of conventions and societal adaptation, body count matters for girls.

A girl's ability to bound with her husband, should she marry, is directly influenced by how any, and the number of men who has fücked her in the past.

It is inbuilt and codified in their DNA by evolution. Education and 'civilisation' may give girls liberty but biology never lies.

Berbierklaus:

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm
I'd do the needful
could be a clone
still guilty until proven innocent.

This time around that goat is not gonna escape this,I am 101% sure its on my list.....lying bastards

falconey:


fascinating!!!! thats why it is difficult to satisfy a girl these days after marriage, because of the signature on the fanny.

BloodOnMyHands:
No matter what neo-feminist and their apologists will tell you, no girl cannot completely wipe out the memory and emotions from a guy who has fücked her.....I mean a guy she surrendered herself to.

The sex, the placess, the intertwined activities of outings and promise follow girls lifelong after the embers of the relationship has gone cold. She loses are ability to bond and stick. This bonding and clinging wanes off progressively with each relationship she has and discards.

With each passing relationship that involves sex, her emotions and bonding ability are not only weak, they are confused as well.

I'm going to say this and irk fellows: women aren't designed with the ability to taste dicks randomly without dire consequences.

Papiikush:


You know... it feels really weird having to argue about this with you. I mean you! Miss

You know what...Yeah, I am guilty. Guilty of being such a dumbass to keep people who are sly around.