What exactly is it about the NYSC scheme that kills relationships?

I've had many friends and other none- friends who have lost their otherwise perfect relationships because their partners went to "serve" Nigeria for one year.
My Girl friend i was dating since 2years plus now is about going for her youth service this November and i dont think i can trust or love her again like before. seeing those naughty things that happens during youth service period girls and married women always mess around with guys. i dont believe in Far distance relationship, i like being with my partner to know her behavior and life style but she always assured me that she will never mess around that i should trust her.
pls i need advice ,

End time question

Maybe cos the relationships are meant to DIE.

Distance, and the love of sex.

why worry when warri is in ph...what will be cant change bro

rheether:
Distance, and the love of sex.

ok you dont like sex huh

When it was not meant to be initially! What will be will be

It takes more than love to be faithful in a distance relationship

OP you are definitely right. I understand your plight, but I don't know what to say now because that one year is a time of broken trusts and broken promises. I believe your girl would have made bunches of promises. However, in this case, It's gonna take a lot of almighty love for her to wait for you during NYSC. You will have to pay the price of visiting her often... it won't be easy though..... True love sha OP you are definitely right. I understand your plight, but I don't know what to say now because that one year is a time of broken trusts and broken promises. I believe your girl would have made bunches of promises. However, in this case, It's gonna take a lot of almighty love for her to wait for you during NYSC. You will have to pay the price of visiting her often... it won't be easy though..... True love sha ....
I'm lost for words....

As in ehn. The thing be like curse

Only if they can stop d girls frm bathing out side by 3 to 4am nd also stop guys frm bathing together nd stop d morning cry @5 :30 then all relationship will be safe

Nysc does not kill relationships trust kills relationships .. That's all

rheether:
Distance, and the love of sex.

I totally disagree....I've lost two relationships to NYSC and it's not because of distance or sex..

ENDTIMELIFE:
What exactly is it about the NYSC scheme that kills relationships?

I've had many friends and other none- friends who have lost their otherwise perfect relationships because their partners went to "serve" Nigeria for one year.
My Girl friend i was dating since 2years plus now is about going for her youth service this November and i dont think i can trust or love her again like before. seeing those naughty things that happens during youth service period girls and married women always mess around with guys. i dont believe in Far distance relationship, i like being with my partner to know her behavior and life style but she always assured me that she will never mess around that i should trust her.
pls i need advice ,

I have settled to not date girls that are yet to go for NYSC but rather those that have undergone the service year..