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Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 7:35pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Caracta: OP lost her father at age 7, right? Today, she's a Doctor (She's probably 26+ years today). Do you honestly think someone will do wrong for 20 years for the sake of another? I think a lot of posters have issues with her choice of words. I've only decided to look deeper. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Caracta(f): 7:49pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Acidosis: What do you consider as wrong? And how do you measure length of time in this case? I don't get. It's not about choice of words here. It's about the underlying meaning. If we were wrong, OP could have corrected our submission and defended her sister that both of you are so quick to condemn and tie to a stake to burn. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 8:27pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Caracta: OP said she lost her dad at age 7, and her sister played the role of a father. She's (OP) been frequently referred to as Doc on this thread (as seen in her moniker). Age 7 - to - being a Doctor is not a very short timeframe (life) anyone would live exclusively for the sake of another. Which sane brother or sister would not take care of her immediate family? I'm not in agreement with some posters here because they made it sound like the sister lived her life ONLY for her family. That's, in fact, the major point I refute strongly on this thread. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by armyofone(m): 8:43pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
I hope you all are now paying back her kindness and fully supporting her eg medical treatment, health care etc It is about time Africans do it the way it is supposed to be...every man for himself. To the girl child, don't carry family obligation upon yourself because you are the first born. Now you are somehow blaming her for the paths she took to make you all to be somebody in life. Keep that and your opinions to your self and do the needful by taking full responsibility of her. I'm sure she made you who you are today. drbolade: 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by ElsonMorali: 8:57pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by armyofone(m): 9:14pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Children should not take their parents responsibilities...deaths, inability or for whatever reason, don't take monetary charge of family. Enjoy/suffer your own life and face your own front like our western people do it. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by quivah(f): 10:10pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
this acidosis has some big issues!!! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 10:17pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
quivah: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nancy2016: 10:23pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
armyofone: Never said that. Please read my post again, slowly and with an open mind. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by armyofone(m): 11:41pm On Nov 13, 2016 |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by drbolade: 6:03pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Trust nairalanders with their views and ''yabbings. There are some assumptions you guys are making that are not correct. It takes courage to post a topic like this and want people to learn from your own mistake, if people will do anyway. I am sure some of you shouting ungrateful will say I am bragging if I said I have done this or that for her, but does that one change her status no. A poster claim the topic is gender bias well sorry for that but from experience women are more emotional and being tempt to take up such responsibilities, for instance my sister is the fourth born. Note the only reason while I post this topic is just for people to learn and that is all 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by cococandy(f): 6:09pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
So her elders ones let her carry such responsibilities. Not nice. drbolade: 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nobody: 7:56pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Heavance: Exactly! That sister sacrificed her life for her family. She deserves a royal treatment for the rest of her life here on earth. She is a Heroine. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by sisisioge: 8:02pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
checkengine: Checkengine checkengine my battery eventually gave o, not one bit of light left for matches to heaven. I guess I can't save the world after all No vex biko. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by baby124: 8:06pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
drbolade:Madam Judgina and teacher in chief. Why didn't you in primary school pay your own school fees. And so what if she was the 4th born? Just shows that the others were not willing to sacrifice. She should have left you to hustle in primary school. No one is interested in your lessons. You all enjoyed it while the going was good. If you were so self righteous, you should all have rejected the money. 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by olagbemi118(m): 9:13pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
drbolade:Dont allow contempt in ur heart towards ur sister. Woteva she did, she did for the family including u. So please don't be an ungrateful fellow. Treat her with love & accord her due respect. For all u posted up there, u need to seek God's forgiveness & though she may not see this post of yours, try to make it up to her. Keep this at the back of ur mind: nothing lasts 4eva & no one knows tomorrow 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by olagbemi118(m): 9:24pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
drbolade:before u posted this so people would learn as u said, did you put into consideration how ur sister wud feel shud she see this? She didn't run away from home. She didn't make the money & spent all on herself. Did you consider the relief on ur mummy's soul wen she was bringing the money home? U had fud to eat. Ur second born has a certificate to his name. Ur third born is now happily married. U also must have gotten some money from her. Pls for Christ' sake, don't judge her. And nothing u do for her is too much. 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by pellucid(m): 9:44pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
take d ladies to d other room |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Sultty(m): 9:48pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Absolutely right but I can't really blame her tho. Some people just cannot stand seeing their love ones suffer 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by gidiceleb4: 9:50pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
hmmmmm |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by profhezekiah: 9:55pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Do U really understand d write up maybe U should read again because he was nt in any way been ungrateful he praised n exalted his sister to d position of god, he never condemned her,he was saying she shouldnt av done something detrimental n bad because of dem baby124: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Adiwana: 9:57pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
The truth is that am yet to come to terms oto what op wrote |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by modusOperandi2: 9:58pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Selling your body to feed your family? I'm not a fan. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by wonyi: 9:58pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Hmmmmm |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by hahn(m): 9:59pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
drbolade: What an ungrateful and apathetic write up. Where was your god when you were all suffering? Your sister is your God. That one your serve in your church should be flushed down the toilet 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nobody: 10:04pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Acidosis: Dont say that again. Please. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Adiwana: 10:08pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
drbolade:Oga,what do you mean by playing God? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by buffalowings: 10:10pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
Op needs a slap to restore her brain to factory setting Are you seriously condemning her. Ah that's why I'm not nice to people A fibi sun olloore 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by daniska3yaro(m): 10:16pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
baby124:thunder scatter u @ op 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Marael: 10:18pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
drbolade:I feel u man.....but feel sorry for ya sis.........dont ever live her like that take her to synagogue church(tb Joshua) or redeemed God will do d rest |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nobody: 10:21pm On Nov 14, 2016 |
she was the Fourth born? what sort of dysfunctional family is that? 4 Likes |
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