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Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 12:25am On Nov 15, 2016 |
LorDBolton: You need to train your mind. Its too shallow for an "exposed" person that can't read in between the line. Acidosis: Read the above, you'll see the need to get a mind trainer for yourself, and for other folks, I refused to give my attention to. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by crazymommy(f): 12:27am On Nov 15, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista:K |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:29am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Masikay:What kind of question is this? is the sister now a destiny decider? Are they the first to be poor? Let me tell you, no condition is ever permanent. Immorality is no excuse. So your children will come and tell you that even if you didn't provide food shelter clothing and education, they would have still turned out okay... Crap. Serious crap.Doesn't make sense one bit. As long as I earn legitimately and sponsor my kids, such story that touches the heart won't surface. I get the Op is just trying to advice and all... But nah. You don't use someone who worked hard for all of you as an example. Biko. The girl tried. If not for her, they would have been nowhere. Nowhere.I am not aware of any hard work that the HIV sister did for OPs family. All I see is someone that attempted the cheap way out and is now facing the consequence. Any family that advises one to take to social vices or immorality just to escape survival will live to regret it along with the subject that allowed his/herself to be used. 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nobody: 12:32am On Nov 15, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: Ewo o!!!! ... No vex biko. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 12:34am On Nov 15, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: These folks nearly reduced my I.Q. Thanks for the comeback. They actually believe a sister or brother will "work hard" for 20+ years to SOLELY train the OP and her family. *Age 7 - Till date (Op is now a Doc) is about a 20 year journey. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:34am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Acidosis:It is unfortunate that even as at today, there are lots of young people that have taken to social vices as a way out of poverty. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Caracta(f): 12:36am On Nov 15, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: LADIES know your limit. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:40am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Acidosis:My brother from Okunland, please don't sweat it. Our brethren here are only trying to be sympathetic with the woman. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 12:42am On Nov 15, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: Ohh I see |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:42am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Caracta:Oops, I think the title is in relation to the story. Lol.... |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by TonyeBarcanista(m): 12:42am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Masikay:Hahaha I no vex dear. just that sleep no wan gree come |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nobody: 12:44am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Acidosis: OBVIOUSLY. She didn't become a prostitute solely for the purpose of her family. My guy... Is she not a human being too? She shouldn't have cared for herself abi? She should have slept with all those people just to provide for someone who ended up using her as bad example right? Okay okay. No excuses. She wouldn't go to heaven and tell God that it's because of her pple she did what she did and be allowed to enter heaven. I get that. But doesn't she deserve a little more than being used as an example on nairaland? Yu sef, think am. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Caracta(f): 12:46am On Nov 15, 2016 |
TonyeBarcanista: Asked the OP to clarify. Title and presentation is just off IMHO. And I still don't get the limits part. May our loyalty not be tested (or how did BRF say it again?) 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by itsme2(m): 1:01am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Yorubas will say Ti ore ba'pe ashiwere a gbagbe. May the Good lord heal your sister. Amen. @Op I'm very sure you will look back to this thread with regret someday. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Acidosis(m): 1:08am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Masikay: My sister, no amount of online love and emotions can be as great as what OP must have shown her sister offline. No poster here can love the sister more than OP. Anyway, I'm sure she must have read and learn from the comments on the thread. We really don't need to get her crucified. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by baby124: 1:13am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Caracta:Like my pastor said, it is so easy to judge and be a Pharisee because of God's grace in ones life. May we never be tested, and without grace! Survival will kick in, and we are all capable of anything. The fact that you haven't been faced with tough decisions in life is just God's grace o. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Empiree: 1:40am On Nov 15, 2016 |
drbolade:You neither confirmed nor denied if she was in ESCORT business. It sounds pretty much like that indirectly. I do not condone if that's what she did. That side, judging by the way you sound gives me reason to run away from family. You sound pretty much ungrateful. Why didn't you, your mum and family members who benefited greatly from her warn or admonish her back then when you guys were struggling?. This is crazy. Now you are well off and talked trash that she should have known her limit? . Seriously? . Well, what she needs now is not necessarily all about regaining her health. She needs to now worry about her SALVATION if indeed her income was through unlawful means. Seems to me her intention was good for her family. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by musicwriter(m): 2:31am On Nov 15, 2016 |
drbolade: Your sister did not just play God, she is actually the God you can see. She loved you more than herself. She knew the risks, but she prefered you live. Your sister is God!. Worship her, else your portion is HELL!!. Please PM me, and get me her pictures. If she look good to me I'll propose to her. Though decided not interested in marriage for now, but I' am interested in such a selfless person. Hope she's schooled. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Leez(m): 3:06am On Nov 15, 2016 |
drbolade:in ur quest to make fp wit ds silly fairytale u have gotten the exact opposite of the reaction u wanted seun pls tell ur mods to check d stories dy push to fp cuz most of em are usually fiction |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Maski87: 4:12am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Latty88:Well its payback time,hiv meds are very expensive, and hiv is no longer a death sentence if you take medications regularly so you all should pull resources together and save her. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by isnovic(m): 4:54am On Nov 15, 2016 |
drbolade: Like really.....would God come down from heaven before you know He already touched you. Ye are gods, ye and your children. Your sister is not only a god to you, but she vicariously did all she could as she could not stand the pain in your eyes, you owe her respect, love, confidant and compassion. You should dedicate your whole life and that of your siblings to make sure she doesn't feel any regret for doing what she did to see you guys by. Instead of this ignoble act of coming to post on Nairaland. "don't play god over your siblings" 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by godquality: 5:15am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Ingrate to the highest order that's what you are. Instead of worshipping that sister that sacrificed everything for you, you come here they run commentary. Did you out any member of your family even bothered to find out where the money she was using on you was coming from? This people is why famiies are the worst. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by toprealman: 6:30am On Nov 15, 2016 |
drbolade:So because your sis tested positive to HIV, she trued to play God? Unless you skipped some essential details from your piece, I still can't see what she did wrong. From the comments your post elicited, I can say many people are still not properly informed about the virus. Google can be a good friend if only we ask! |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by kinah(f): 7:23am On Nov 15, 2016 |
drbolade: tanks op. it is nt easy. I can relate to this. thank God for his mercies. although I learn the hard way. all Glory b to Almighty God. u can't play God. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by xamster(m): 7:26am On Nov 15, 2016 |
GOD! I can't believe you just said ''Ladies should know their limits''. Brother, it's such a demeaning write you just put on here. At first, do you know what it means as an elder in the family to see your beloved in lack and pains? No you don't! And now she shouldered everyone's burden like the mother theresa you mention, all in a bid to give ya'll the good live you experiencing. Unfortunately she's hit by the dreaded Virus, and now you think she's no good and belief she's done farther her limits.. Brother; i tell it to your face, what you need is RESTITUTION. This is no BENEDICTION to me. Damm! I think i have to play ''sucker for pain'' to ease this shit. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by nowpresence(f): 7:26am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Nancy2016: You have said it all. Whatever situation we find Yourselves, Your responsibility is to to yourself first then others follows. I feel so sad for her. Hope she learnt her lesson. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by ifeomaekol(f): 8:03am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Op I dnt get ur point in telling the world ur sis is hiv postive, for me family comes first. Pray for her, love her n treat her wt respect. Stp acting up. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Nobody: 8:04am On Nov 15, 2016 |
sisisioge: she didn't bargain what befell her eventually. She was just rooting for her family and we can't all be the same babes. Some can walk away and not look back while others can't. She couldn't stand to watch her family suffer and scatter. She couldn't stand the suffer her mother was going through and the pangs of hunger and hopelessness so she had to hustle to assist. Thank God her hustle paid off on her siblings. My own is they sha shouldn't abandon her now, whatever it was she did, she did for them. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by Collins0609(m): 8:05am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Owwwwww,what a lovely sister.only God will reward her. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by PhantomD(m): 8:10am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Ungrateful son of a bitch!!!! u don't deserve her love man. u jst don't. So Y'all knew how she made u comfortable but didn't stop her and do a real hustle together. now she's going down you're jumping off her ship. imagine she was never tested HIV+ you wouldn't be feeling sorry for her ryt now. you wouldn't have tot of any limit. God will judge u man jst as u judged her. idiot!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by doll912(f): 8:14am On Nov 15, 2016 |
No drbolade: Is it that you just needed to post something or you are trying to boast about your family or that you are trying to tell the world your sister has HIV or.... cos you have not made any point. None whatsoever.... BTW how does the topic correlate with the story? Nairaland mods should read through whatever anyone is posting and see if it makes sense before putting trash up on front page. |
Re: Ladies Know Your Limit by oglalasioux(m): 8:21am On Nov 15, 2016 |
Are you not insulting your sister's sacrifice for you? If you are insinuating that she had to be a flirt to help the family please rethink and be grateful she made that decision. Are you a Christian? Have you heard of Jael and Sisera? Read Judges 4. And don't be deceived by the Bible saying it was milk and water Jael gave Sisera. It was sex. Old Jewish records have that evidence. Jewish girls used sex to save a lot of people during world war 2. Don't be ungrateful. 1 Like |
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