elektra:
They want virgin wife that can pray for 1 hour and at the same time want her to automatically sabi fvkc like a porn..star.

She can't do this, she can't do that. Wetin you, you sabi do? Dude probably never brought the woman to or.gasm before but he is busy demanding heaven and earth.

He needs motivation to make her reach orgassm now how is that possible if she lies there like a log of wood only in missionary style

Joavid:


He needs motivation to make her reach orgassm now how is that possible if she lies there like a log of wood only in missionary style

Lol! For a woman to cum is no small feat o. It's not the same for a man. And the man has to learn what pleases her for her to even enjoy it. Sex has a lot to do with communication and trying out several things. To really enjoy sex one has to be open minded. I agree with you.

njiasi30:

u re right on dis, I knw of someone dat see it as a sin and refuses d hus....even d different sex position is a sin apart 4rm missionary... Women shld know what dere hubby desires in sex and d men 2, if it's on one side it's tiring jare.

You absolutely understand my position. She is my woman anytime any day. A perfect piece that fits me. I am not churchy. In fact I go church sometimes to please her and make peace with God. On a lighter note at times when she is praying and e don dey enter prayer band gear. I go ready comot go work.I go don even reach work at times before she know say I don move. I like this and will do all I can to encourage her. I buy her Christian literatures . But I am yet to se any that treats the issue of sex in marriage in explicit details she will understand. Cos bible is her standard. If it ain't there forget about it. That's why she feels skeptical about what I tell her about sex cos I don't have bible references to back it up.

Oga you can't gain the whole world. Continue teaching her and if she doesn't learn, you have to remain faithful because you swore for better for worse. You could have married the experienced ones you cheated on her with but you didn't, carry your cross with dignity before you disgrace yourself.

byvan03:
Oga you can't gain the whole world. Continue teaching her and if she doesn't learn, you have to remain faithful because you swore for better for worse. You could have married the experienced ones you cheated on her with but you didn't, carry your cross with dignity before you disgrace yourself.

agreed.

So you were/are a male prostitute and you want to turn her into sex pro.
I have a feeling that even if she becomes the expert you want her to be, she will never be enough for you. Old habits die hard. You're used to exploring that's why.

baby124:

Lol! For a woman to cum is no small feat o. It's not the same for a man . And the man has to learn what pleases her for her to even enjoy it. Sex has a lot to do with communication and trying out several things. To really enjoy sex one has to be open minded. I agree with you.

It doesn't have to be that hard.
She just needs to let go of herself enough to achieve it the first few times and afterwards, it's a smooth road from there. That initial 'holy-woman-I-don't-want-him-to-see-my-cum-face' attitude needs to go before she can get it.

She has a very low, almost zero esteem...low self-worth


Her first mistake (she will forever live with) was accepting to remain a virgin, while you go sucking anything that looks like skirt, whether a porcupine lives beneath the skirt or not.


You, on the other hand will do anything to get satisfied. Guess what? you will need to continue chasing skirts till death.


If they give you Maheeda, believe me, it won't be long before you ask for Afrocandy.

cococandy:
So you were/are a male prostitute and you want to turn her into sex pro.
I have a feeling that even if she becomes the expert you want her to be, she will never be enough for you. Old habits die hard. You're used to exploring that's why.

Lol, the "so you were a male prostitute "really got me .

All I see is a selfish man

elektra:
They want virgin wife that can pray for 1 hour and at the same time want her to automatically sabi fvkc like a porn..star.

She can't do this, she can't do that. Wetin you, you sabi do? Dude probably never brought the woman to or.gasm before but he is busy demanding heaven and earth.

Lol

specter:
We 've been married for less than 2 months and I am Already feeling bored sexually. We dated for 9 years. I am her first and I met her untouched and while I explored during my university , nysc and till few months back, she kept her self for me while I did promise her it will stop as soon as we get married. I am trying to keep that promise but she is not helping issues.
Sometimes she feels bad she is not pregnant already and the expectations are quite high. But the sex is not freaky hence I lose interest. I was sick for a while just recovered all thru no sex. Travelled for weeks and moaning think we should make babies , she is on. I am so turned on that i wish she can do something about it but she just won't. Not even a hand job or Mouth Action. My sexual life is graudually dying cos she does not know what to do. I am tired of teaching , talking and it seems I can't change her believe.
She does not deny me sex ooo. But the packaging ain't attractive. Sometimes all I might ne interested in after a hard day at work or before work might just be a Mouth Action. Or some good early morning romance. Just set the mood on a positive note for the day. She sees talking about her sexual desires as sinful. But she loves it when I go down on her. It's just so frustrating. Could I be asking or expecting too much. Cos I am extra active sexually, I believe sex is for pleasure than procreation. It should be enjoyed not endured. She sees it the other way.
I am so tempted to cheat on her right now. I know not what to do.


She is churchy and believes some weird kinda of churchy stuff. I decided to take more workload but it's killing the home. Is there any drug or something to spike her libido. Make her want some sex? Or remove the shyness and let him not see me as a bad /spoilt girl syndrome. Cos I was expecting we would try to out do each other sexually like we did with the family business. Am I expecting too much? She is a full time house wife. I don't want her to work for nobody, I want to enrol her in a fashion institute and set her up when she is done.Cos I am hardly ever around . But the few times we spend should be so mind blowing that I would relish coming home very often to it. Kindly advise me.

Urmmmm!! Does stuff like the emboldened actually happen?
Like permission to cheat and all that?
Sorry!! That's just what caught my eyes, gat no advice for ya.

Brosie ee.... this is what you get when you are sexually weird and you wana marry a saint. I've gone through your posts and I noticed your case is out of here. You even talked of Ana sex in one of your posts. Well, miracles happen but don't expect your wife to measure up to 3/4 of what you know sexually(judging from what you said about her). This is a lesson for all spinsters and bachelors out there, don't marry someone sexually weird than you. Don't say you will teach him/her later, it's ain't that easy. Uncle please gently o... there are lots of STDs outside. All this prostitute you dey find about no go carry ghost o....

byvan03:



Lol, the "so you were a male prostitute "really got me .

Don't mind him.

Typical hypocrite dude. Sleeping around but wants to marry a virgin.

And then expect her to become a pro overnight for his personal satisfaction. Where was she supposed to learn it? And who will marry those ones he's been gallivanting around with?

This is what you get after you don enter Amaka by mouth, enter Nkiru by anus, enter Funmi by ear, enter shaki from front and you keep your bae for future. Bros make I no tell you lie, your wife will never satisfy you. I pity the poor woman

Everybody wants a solid belgium vboot wey engine dey kampke!

Once u put grease or engineoil for d car nah to fire speed remain.

The old volkswagen's fit go recondition demselves to look like vboot but at least dey are trying to stay relevant for market

cococandy:

Don't mind him.

Typical hypocrite dude. Sleeping around but wants to marry a virgin.

And then expect her to become a pro overnight for his personal satisfaction. Where was she supposed to learn it? And who will marry those ones he's been gallivanting around with?

cococandy:

Don't mind him.

Typical hypocrite dude. Sleeping around but wants to marry a virgin.

And then expect her to become a pro overnight for his personal satisfaction. Where was she supposed to learn it? And who will marry those ones he's been gallivanting around with?

I feel sorry for the woman,Gold ring on a pig's snort.

specter:


You absolutely understand my position. She is my woman anytime any day. A perfect piece that fits me. I am not churchy. In fact I go church sometimes to please her and make peace with God. On a lighter note at times when she is praying and e don dey enter prayer band gear. I go ready comot go work.I go don even reach work at times before she know say I don move. I like this and will do all I can to encourage her. I buy her Christian literatures . But I am yet to se any that treats the issue of sex in marriage in explicit details she will understand. Cos bible is her standard. If it ain't there forget about it. That's why she feels skeptical about what I tell her about sex cos I don't have bible references to back it up.

I talk am na. See how he has described her. As the most holy, and the most religious and flawless. Now, tell me why she will be giving BJ and Anal after this impression of her. I am sure your type will judge her and get suspicious the day she initiates sex or does a new style. You better calm down and reduce your expectations. Because one day, when she's tired of being perfect, you will lose it and she will show you pepper.

berbierklaus come and see what I was saying...

specter:
We 've been married for less than 2 months and I am Already feeling bored sexually. We dated for 9 years. I am her first and I met her untouched and while I explored during my university , nysc and till few months back, she kept her self for me while I did promise her it will stop as soon as we get married. I am trying to keep that promise but she is not helping issues.
Sometimes she feels bad she is not pregnant already and the expectations are quite high. But the sex is not freaky hence I lose interest. I was sick for a while just recovered all thru no sex. Travelled for weeks and moaning think we should make babies , she is on. I am so turned on that i wish she can do something about it but she just won't. Not even a hand job or Mouth Action. My sexual life is graudually dying cos she does not know what to do. I am tired of teaching , talking and it seems I can't change her believe.
She does not deny me sex ooo. But the packaging ain't attractive. Sometimes all I might ne interested in after a hard day at work or before work might just be a Mouth Action. Or some good early morning romance. Just set the mood on a positive note for the day. She sees talking about her sexual desires as sinful. But she loves it when I go down on her. It's just so frustrating. Could I be asking or expecting too much. Cos I am extra active sexually, I believe sex is for pleasure than procreation. It should be enjoyed not endured. She sees it the other way.
I am so tempted to cheat on her right now. I know not what to do.


She is churchy and believes some weird kinda of churchy stuff. I decided to take more workload but it's killing the home. Is there any drug or something to spike her libido. Make her want some sex? Or remove the shyness and let him not see me as a bad /spoilt girl syndrome. Cos I was expecting we would try to out do each other sexually like we did with the family business. Am I expecting too much? She is a full time house wife. I don't want her to work for nobody, I want to enrol her in a fashion institute and set her up when she is done.Cos I am hardly ever around . But the few times we spend should be so mind blowing that I would relish coming home very often to it. Kindly advise me.

This is one of my fears about marrying an over-religious babe, and why I avoid such. Women who will be using church/mosque/bible/quran to depreciate sex and limit enjoyment. THey should FOH. I'm gonna be with a woman who enjoys sex the natural way, with no restrictions and who expects maximum enjoyment. Not one that will be saying God/Allah doesn't like head or anal or party or nudes or sex tapes.

Sorry, bro. Keep trying to talk to her. Get an elder woman who she respects to talk to her.

She's selfish sha. She enjoys sunnilingus but won't give you MouthAction. LMFAO.

Luckygurl:



Urmmmm!! Does stuff like the emboldened actually happen?
Like permission to cheat and all that?
Sorry!! That's just what caught my eyes, gat no advice for ya.

Yes, it does.

As an undergrad, one of my roommates had a babe who was a virgin. She saidshe wanted to keep it till marriage so she allowed him to Bleep other women.

You need to excercise self control otherwise you might be setting yourself up for ruins. The thought of you cheating on her should be rid of and assurge her of your love not just in sorda but also behaviour. Rem, she is not used to it, take it slowly and teach her and carry her along. Never you use it against her cos the moment she begins to seek opinions, you will lo se her.

Above all, embrace Christ.

And someone will tell me to keep myself while he philanders around only to marry me to cheat again.
Girls please virginity is not by force oo, enjoy your life wisely.

@specter forgive the condemnations. i perfectly understand you as i was once in your shoes with my wife too believing too many things to be sinful and please there is no fault your wife being a virgin only her willingness to accept new things.

your limitation of not knowing accurate scriptures to back your claims can be resolved telling her to visit christiannymphos . org where believing wives come together and talk explicitly on the topic of 'everything and everything'. smile specter.

JustHere2Observ:
And someone will tell me to keep myself while he philanders around only to marry me to cheat again.
Girls please virginity is not by force oo, enjoy your life wisely.

Lmfao
Spot on

teemy:
@specter forgive the condemnations. i perfectly understand you as i was once in your shoes with my wife too believing too many things to be sinful and please there is no fault your wife being a virgin only her willingness to accept new things.

How did you fix it boss. I am thinking of spoiling her silly like I was advised to. Getting her a surprise toy on wheels and shopping today. If it does not work, hitting Las Vegas during the holidays might fix it. I need to make this work even if it will cost me millions.

one more thing specter, you have a new template you can work on and become the teacher to your beautiful woman. it is more of giving than receiving and with time her walls will break. considering she enjoys your going down on her with time she would

reciprocate the acts. especially since she loves you as much. let her know if it is pleasurable and as you are married the almighty is pleased with you. the apostle paul calls is 'regular marriage relations' and after fasts should bereturned to asap.

in my own case specter, i was the virgin but i researched well ahead to know what to do and am entitled to enjoy and make her enjoy as well but her previously experiences were not as pleasurable and had to first battle the demons of boyfriends past.

raumdeuter:
This is why people with same experiences should marry

Abi o

Virgins for virgins
Non-virgins for non-virgins
Porn stars for Porn stars

i could say you are lucky in that regard but we all learnt all on earth and there is a solution for everything. in your case wifey thinks your unreligiousness is the reason for your 'unholy' appetites thus you might have to kick in church moments.