Raine80:
Stop trying to be in a relationship.Relationship involves concerted effort from both parties it's not a solo quest. Give her space ...no contact ,no effort and see what happens.

You deserve kisses on ever part of your body (apart from the vital parts) for this comment...

SlimmB:


EYah @ OP, so there are niggas that still gives themselves headache like this

Bro, my kindly advise to ya, is don't just overthink about anything that concerns a girl even if she has grown to become a woman in this 21 century, reason is that[i] girls/women are just a confuse being that they themselves don't know what's going on within them, they wanna have everything perfect while they doing the least perfect things in a relationship they're into...[/i]
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True talk bro. Such is their way of thinking. At time I as myself why do they act this way . Maybe they want we the guys to turn to wizard overnight to know what is on their mind.

Common ladies this is what century quite their confuse game and play your role not leaving it all for the opposite sex.

Mind you this is for you ladies

chccho:

I like that quote,nice one!

thanks bro

OP have you tried asking her what could be wrong with her? Is she the emotional type? As some one rightly said earlier she could be under pressure or some sort of challenge she cant discuss except you ask.
Call her up,ask her she could have something to say.

Same thing happened to me lately OP...Infact, the exact scenario you stated here...we also had a lil misunderstanding and she started behaving silly...what did I do?...I just got tired a day, deleted everything about her on my phone(numbers,pictures and all)even though it was hard for me...I decided not to contact her again...just of recent about one month plus, she called me and said we should be friends blah blah...I just told her off and insulted her told her i'll never call her again...that was all!...dunno why these girls behave like this do they always expect a guy to always know what's running through their minds...are we mini gods?...instead of them communicating what's wrong with them once and for all, they'll be doing like Ogbanjes

thowbie7ven:
Same thing happened to me lately OP...Infact, the exact scenario you stated here...we also had a lil misunderstanding and she started behaving silly...what did I do?...I just got tired a day, deleted everything about her on my phone(numbers,pictures and all)even though it was hard for me...I decided not to contact her again...just of recent about one month plus, she called me and said we should be friends blah blah...I just told her off and insulted her told her i'll never call her again...that was all!...dunno why these girls behave like this do they always expect a guy to always know what's running through their minds...are we mini gods?...instead of them communicating what's wrong with them once and for all, they'll be doing like Ogbanjes

My guy me sef I tire this is a girl that introduced me to her pastor and her sis and we all have been talking.only for her to just flip on me and become a total stranger. because we had a lil misunderstanding and ever since then she just changed to a stranger.. I won't call her again except she calls, no chats unless she does.although she chatted me up today saying hi and then that was all.
Me I go just dey here dey look jeje. Time will tell what happens

its gonna b hard mahn...bt trust me leavin is d best !!! GOOD LUCK MAN

xclassic:
its gonna b hard mahn...bt trust me leavin is d best !!! GOOD LUCK MAN

I can't lie mehnnn!!!!! it's really hard already

Guy, shebi ur own na Pastor?...dis one i've met her mum like 5 times, i know all her siblings infact, i attended one of her sister's wedding ceremony around April this year...i communicate with her mum steadily(her mum calls me and vice versa) typing all these for you to know the how far our relationship had gone...there's virtually anything i don't do for her talk abt giving her time, attention and all...i've never cheated on ds babe coz i belived i was just okay with her...our only issues were just the lil misunderstandings we had and i feel it's a norm coz it's a kinda long distance relationship...then she started misbehaving she could go a week without talkn to me(stonewalling)i'll still b d one to call her and make things work....the height of it was when i was sick for 5days,OP dis girl didn't even bother to check up on me no even a text message and she knew i was sick...i still called her up on the 9th day to ask what went wrong...her response"shebi you too didn't call me, and when you didn't call i just decided to lock up"...this was someone i called for 2 straight weeks when she had typhoid...OP, just bone her! She doesn't deserve you! Maybe she'll come back to her sense and if she doesn't, pls kindly move on! Even though u'll get hurt in between...My Take

chccho:

My guy me sef I tire this is a girl that introduced me to her pastor and her sis and we all have been talking.only for her to just flip on me and become a total stranger. because we had a lil misunderstanding and ever since then she just changed to a stranger.. I won't call her again except she calls, no chats unless she does.although she chatted me up today saying hi and then that was all.
Me I go just dey here dey look jeje. Time will tell what happens

Our best bet as guys...just date/marry a decent girl whom you know and surely convinced she so much loves you more than you do!...don't ever show a girl you love her soo much than she does otherwise, the relationship won't last...not saying you shouldn't love, but apply wisdom,knowledge and understanding...

chccho:
I can't lie mehnnn!!!!! it's really hard already

man up