Being friends with benefits may be convenient for those who desire a sexually active lifestyle without the burden of any long-term commitment but quite honestly, it requires much more thought and caution than a regular relationship. We tell you 10 things you should keep in mind about being FWB with a girl.

1. Close Friends Are Out Of The Picture
Do not even think about it. It’s easily to fall into a FWB trap with your best friend but it always ends ugly. If it’s just sex you’re looking for, look elsewhere. You’d end up ruining a perfectly good friendship.

2. Always Practise Safe Sex
This one’s kinda obvious. You don’t want to get the girl you don’t even plan to commit to pregnant. And not just that, safe sex also lessens your chances of contracting an STD, especially if you’re FWB with a lot of people. Have fun, but be responsible.

3. No Emotional Intimacy
No personal questions asked. Do not try to delve too deep into her personal life. Beware of emotional intimacy. Do not get too comfortable sharing everything about your life with them. If you’re only in it to have casual sex, stick to that. Do not try to be anything more.

4. No Dates
You’re in it only for casual sex. Stick to that. Do not treat it like a relationship. Do not go out for dinners or movie dates. Stay away from any attachment.

5. No Getting Jealous
Never get jealous or possessive if she’s seeing another guy. FWB is usually not a monogamous setup. She is free to hook up with other guys if she wishes to and so are you. Do not be clingy. You didn’t get into this for commitment anyway.


COMPLETE POST: http://www.thatbluebook.com.ng/single-post/2016/11/26/10-Unknown-Rules-Of-Having-A-Female-Friend-With-Benefits

ItzMePuffPuff:

What do you know about African masquerades??

ItzMePuffPuff:
dont.

Google it then!! Cuz with that thing on ur head, there's no much difference btw you and a masquerade

I still wonder how people get sexually involved with no emotions attached.....


Why not act porns instead

Presh900:
What do you know about African masquerades??

you have killed me with laughter sir. ..

MzMayD:
I still wonder how people get sexually involved with no emotions attached.....


Why not act porns instead

I wonder ooooo... Its doesn't make any sense to me @ all

yomi212:
I wonder ooooo... Its doesn't make any sense to me @ all

Still searching for the logical reason behind this act...

The only true FWB you can get is a loyal sex worker.

MzMayD:
Still searching for the logical reason behind this act...

most peeps use the excuse of been heartbroken whenever they are in a very serious and promising relationship... So they jst av fun

Presh900:
Google it then!! Cuz with that thing on ur head, there's no much difference btw you and a masquerade

E pain am
guy you wicked oooo

Presh900:
Google it then!! Cuz with that thing on ur head, there's no much difference btw you and a masquerade

Presh900:
Google it then!! Cuz with that thing on ur head, there's no much difference btw you and a masquerade

lol

yomi212:
most peeps use the excuse of been heartbroken whenever they are in a very serious and promising relationship... So they jst av fun

They are emotionally depressed... Probably bipolar patients who engage in careless sex.


Getting into rebound relationships like this is not too good

MzMayD:
They are emotionally depressed... Probably bipolar patients who engage in careless sex.


Getting into rebound relationships like this is not too good

yea that is true

ItzMePuffPuff:
uhh. Between the stupid lekan,bab.zilla and I just forced upon me u nairaland males are 3:3 in displays of stupidity this day .

I just said My Mind , haba what happened to you?? I was expecting a witty and sarcastic answer back....PS: I don't understand what you wrote up there