I was once a broke guy feeding from hand to mouth, doing menial jobs to survive.
All the girls I fancy will not look at me twice even though I look good n dress smart.

The ones that accepted me will cheat on me right in my face cos I can't pay the bills.
Now that God has made me a " big man" every girl I meet want to love me to d grave.

Some have given me their virginity, others have left their bf's for me. I feel they are doing all these cos of d Benjamins.
How can I find true love and settle down? How do I separate d chaff? How will I know who will stand with me when the money is no longer flowing?

Matured advice please

Yes .. If e look wella.

chocolateme:
Yes .. If e look wella.

How? n where do I look?

Celebrating your success story

Mission impossible.







Unless you travel far from home and disguise like the poorest nigga in the hood otherwise you are gonna marry someone who's marrying your money.

The truth is that you have not found your real partner, and secondly, i guess you flash them money and allow money take over your swag as a guy, thier are things money cannot do for you in relationship, finally, check your self well, i mean your character, because if you are a flirt, forget it, no woman will want to last with you, they will just prefer coming eating thier own portion and leaving the rest for others to enjoy.

You claim to be rich but you sound so rash and poor.
Picture of u that testifies you are truly rich or adonblivit .

shortgun:

How? n where do I look?

look beyond what you see

Tallesty1:
Mission impossible.







Unless you travel far from home and disguise like the poorest nigga in the hood otherwise you are gonna marry someone who's marrying your money.

Mission impossible u say? How?
I don't want to go far from home

Op if u continue with this paranoia, u won't get married.
At least thank God every girl is ready to love you to the grave. There are some rich guys out there, lonely with no one to love them. And they have money.
Simply marry the woman of your choice and pray never to go broke. That's why it's good to have more than one stream of income.
I have a kind of destiny, in which if am a lazy bimbo, no matter how beautiful I look no guy will come my way. Way back in school, I was slim, above average height, fair, almost like a model but guess what.. No guy looked my way.
I then focused my energy on making money, as love is not coming.

I wont say am so rich but am. Comfortable, thick and still pretty and omo, come and see guys toasting me left, right and center.

Will that make me start having sleeplnight on if they are with me for love or for my status.. Hell no!
I love a cute hot handsome guy with money too.. So I chose one,out of the rest and am OK with him.. He treat_ me right and I do same.

All my slim and average female friends are always like Amelian, how do u do it? I mean how do u make these guys fall for u with your thick shape..
I replied I don't know ooo.. Maybe it's my face or boovbs... Who can tell?

So I don't have time looking back saying but when I was broke.

Cos I will never be broke.. I will. Never taste poverty again.. Because of such phobia. I try and make sure I succeed in whatever I do.


So guy, forget those fears and marry your choice.. Stay prosperous. Don't think of been poor again!
As the years go by, both of you will. Be inseparable.. As long as u treat her right and shes not the selfish type.

chocolateme:
look beyond what you see

You r getting me confused d more.
Stop speaking in parables

Tallesty1:
Mission impossible.







Unless you travel far from home and disguise like the poorest nigga in the hood otherwise you are gonna marry someone who's marrying your money.

Just like the movie "Coming to America", Right??

Yesso.. With me

Amelian:
Op if u continue with this paranoia, u won't get married.
At least thank God every girl is ready to love you to the grave. There are some rich guys out there, lonely with no one to love them. And they have money.
Simply marry the woman of your choice and pray never to go broke. That's why it's good to have more than one stream of income.
I have a kind of destiny, in which if am a lazy bimbo, no matter how beautiful I look no guy will come my way. Way back in school, I was slim, above average height, fair, almost like a model but guess what.. No guy looked my way.
I then focused my energy on making money, as love is not coming.

I wont say am so rich but am. Comfortable, thick and still pretty and omo, come and see guys toasting me left, right and center.

Will that make me start having sleeplnight on if they are with me for love or for my status.. Hell no!
I love a cute hot handsome guy with money too.. So I chose one,out of the rest and am OK with him.. He treat_ me right and I do same.

All my slim and average female friends are always like Amelian, how do u do it? I mean how do u make these guys fall for u with your thick shape..
I replied I don't know ooo.. Maybe it's my face or boovbs... Who can tell?

So I don't have time looking back saying but when I was broke.

Cos I will never be broke.. I will. Never taste poverty again.. Because of such phobia. I try and make sure I succeed in whatever I do.


So guy, forget those fears and marry your choice.. Stay prosperous. Don't think of been poor again!
As the years go by, both of you will. Be inseparable.. As long as u treat her right and shes not the selfish type.

Thanks dear. I appreciate you but life is full of ups n downs u will agree, I don't pray to be poor again(no one will)

I don't want to make mistakes, I need a girl dat will love me for who I am not what I have.
How will I know dat woman?

somadinho10:
Celebrating your success story

Thanks Boss. Success will not depart from u too sire.

shortgun:

You r getting me confused d more.
Stop speaking in parables

Yes, I totally agree with her. Look beyond what you see! Once you sight a homely and a respectful lady, it will be written all over her. It's not all about the physical beauty tho it counts. There are many ladies out there who aren't crazy about money, but guys like you are blinded to such ladies probably she doesn't fit to your class or not educated enough to fit your status.

If I were you, I'd ask God for directions. I know you may think this isn't necessary, but I assure you this is even the most important step when looking for someone to spend the rest of your life.

shortgun:

Thanks dear. I appreciate you but life is full of ups n downs u will agree, I don't pray to be poor again(no one will)

I don't want to make mistakes, I need a girl dat will love me for who I am not what I have.
How will I know dat woman?

I understand your fears but life is all about risks and wise risk at that.
The woman u need should be hardworking, humble, respectful, loyal and with the fear God. A woman who believes in standing by her man through thick and thin.
U can put them through test.
Yes test.

Go for a working class lady or an enterprenuer. Watch the way she handles her colleagues, or her workers, pay her surprise visits at work and at home. Watch the way she reacts, when she's angry with u or other people around her. Watch the way she treats he parents. Don't let her know u are watching her.
Take her to places and see how she handles situation around her.
Watch if she peeps at other guys.
Simply create time and study her.
Sometime complain u are broke for a long period and see how she reacts.
Look at her fingers.. If she's good at fixing long nails, buying aso ebi every weekend and paying heavy fortune on Brazilian hairs.. Forget such babe.


With time u will know if she's meant for u.
Watch if she prays too.. Cause a praying woman keeps her home.

Just watch as u play along

ammyluv2002:
Yes, I totally agree with her. Look beyond what you see! Once you sight a homely and a respectful lady, it will be written all over her. It's not all about the physical beauty tho it counts. There are many ladies out there who aren't crazy about money, but guys like you are blinded to such ladies probably she doesn't fit to your class or not educated enough to fit your status.

If I were you, I'd ask God for directions. I know you may think this isn't necessary, but I assure you this is even the most important step when looking for someone to spend the rest of your life.

I've seen homely girls who didn't give me a chance before.......I mean girls who live with their mums, virgins.( I even disflowered one)
How come she didn't consider me when I was broke?
This is a serious concern to me

Amelian:
Op if u continue with this paranoia, u won't get married.
At least thank God every girl is ready to love you to the grave. There are some rich guys out there, lonely with no one to love them. And they have money.
Simply marry the woman of your choice and pray never to go broke. That's why it's good to have more than one stream of income.
I have a kind of destiny, in which if am a lazy bimbo, no matter how beautiful I look no guy will come my way. Way back in school, I was slim, above average height, fair, almost like a model but guess what.. No guy looked my way.
I then focused my energy on making money, as love is not coming.

I wont say am so rich but am. Comfortable, thick and still pretty and omo, come and see guys toasting me left, right and center.

Will that make me start having sleeplnight on if they are with me for love or for my status.. Hell no!
I love a cute hot handsome guy with money too.. So I chose one,out of the rest and am OK with him.. He treat_ me right and I do same.

All my slim and average female friends are always like Amelian, how do u do it? I mean how do u make these guys fall for u with your thick shape..
I replied I don't know ooo.. Maybe it's my face or boovbs... Who can tell?

So I don't have time looking back saying but when I was broke.

Cos I will never be broke.. I will. Never taste poverty again.. Because of such phobia. I try and make sure I succeed in whatever I do.


So guy, forget those fears and marry your choice.. Stay prosperous. Don't think of been poor again!
As the years go by, both of you will. Be inseparable.. As long as u treat her right and shes not the selfish type.

Weldone,you have stylishly advertised yourself for OP to look ur side. Smart move

Amelian:




I understand your fears but life is all about risks and wise risk at that.
The woman u need should be hardworking, humble, respectful, loyal and with the fear God. A woman who believes in standing by her man through thick and thin.
U can put them through test.
Yes test.

Go for a working class lady or an enterprenuer. Watch the way she handles her colleagues, or her workers, pay her surprise visits at work and at home. Watch the way she reacts, when she's angry with u or other people around her. Watch the way she treats he parents. Don't let her know u are watching her.
Take her to places and see how she handles situation around her.
Watch if she peeps at other guys.
Simply create time and study her.
Sometime complain u are broke for a long period and see how she reacts.
Look at her fingers.. If she's good at fixing long nails, buying aso ebi every weekend and paying heavy fortune on Brazilian hairs.. Forget such babe.


With time u will know if she's meant for u.
Watch if she prays too.. Cause a praying woman keeps her home.

Just watch as u play along

Thanks

Very possible. I'm a testimony

shortgun:

I've seen homely girls who didn't give me a chance before.......I mean girls who live with their mums, virgins.( I even disflowered one)
How come she didn't consider me when I was broke?
This is a serious concern to me

You worry your mind too much.

Everybody wants to be comfortable and also rich.
Nobody associates with a broke guy or broke babe. Except the person is exceptional, from birth.
It's only guys that have such worries.. Some rich ladies don't have such worries.. Cos we all know money makes the world go round and can give u the best of the best in life.
Buahri's daughters marrying this year, do u think its because they so beautiful? Even the oldest one who got married recently.. Why no man marry her? First she wants a rich guy irrespective of the fact is way matured. But most single rich guys with rich background were not forthcoming.
Now her dad is president, she is now marri3d to a rich marri3d man. The second girl too, about to be married. U think these ladies don't know it's because of their dad's influence, men of substance are marrying them?
So what are we saying?
Pls stop worrying and marry who fits the bill.

shortgun:

Thanks

You are welcome

Can a rich man look for an ugly girl?

Stevebamdex:

Weldone,you have stylishly advertised yourself for OP to look ur side. Smart move

What am I advertising?
Smhhh, Nigerians always thinking the other way.
Am giving him advice on how to sight a wife material. You are there talking of advertise. So I shouldn't talk on his post, abi? Because am. Not poor.
Mentality

If I want to advertise, I wont go through all these epistles . I will just send pm. And start chat from there.

shortgun:
I was once a broke guy feeding from hand to mouth, doing menial jobs to survive.
All the girls I fancy will not look at me twice even though I look good n dress smart.

The ones that accepted me will cheat on me right in my face cos I can't pay the bills.
Now that God has made me a " big man" every girl I meet want to love me to d grave.

Some have given me their virginity, others have left their bf's for me. I feel they are doing all these cos of d Benjamins.
How can I find true love and settle down? How do I separate d chaff? How will I know who will stand with me when the money is no longer flowing?

Matured advice please

best is to not be in a hurry, the right one will come for you.

Amelian:



You worry your mind too much.

Everybody wants to be comfortable and also rich.
Nobody associates with a broke guy or broke babe. Except the person is exceptional, from birth.
It's only guys that have such worries.. Some rich ladies don't have such worries.. Cos we all know money makes the world go round and can give u the best of the best in life.
Buahri's daughters marrying this year, do u think its because they so beautiful? Even the oldest one who got married recently.. Why no man marry her? First she wants a rich guy irrespective of the fact is way matured. But most single rich guys with rich background were not forthcoming.
Now her dad is president, she is now marri3d to a rich marri3d man. The second girl too, about to be married. U think these ladies don't know it's because of their dad's influence, men of substance are marrying them?
So what are we saying?
Pls stop worrying and marry who fits the bill.

Thanks once more.
I know dat most women want a man who can give them comfort, protect n provide for them. Maybe I need to be more open minded over this issue.

Sandra23:


best is to not be in a hurry, the right one will come for you.

Rilly?
I tot I am the one to find her

shortgun:

Thanks dear. I appreciate you but life is full of ups n downs u will agree, I don't pray to be poor again(no one will)
I don't want to make mistakes, I need a girl dat will love me for who I am not what I have.
How will I know dat woman?

If you can be true to yourself, you can fine true love because hardly a rich guy be true to himself. Question for you, how many women because of you being rich have you taken advantage of? Be very sincere and answer this.

shortgun:

Thanks once more.
I know dat most women want a man who can give them comfort, protect n provide for them. Maybe I need to be more open minded over this issue.

Pls try. And move on.
Leave the past to bury itself and face a new you And be happy! Yippee!

you can't find love with all this rubbish this girls are posting.do you want to know true love brother,act like a poor broke ass nigga if a girl do visit u lmand u give her 20k to go home give her 2k and tell her ur broke.do it round with all ur gfs and see which one is loyal.its as simple as that