okay so, in secondary school, i had no idea giving head was sex and is slutty, i didn't know it was called MouthAction and i gave 7 boys in secondary school but never allowed the real sex. but i soon after found out that oral is sex and anyone who does it is slutty. so when i found out at sixteen i promised myself to begin to save myself for my husband and since then i never even kissed a boy. so i am now 23, haven't even kissed a guy since i was sixteen, but i still think guys will think of me as a slut and no one will want to marry me, cause of the things i did in secondary school, even tho i have changed since then, so i need your own opinions, be truthful to me, i want the truth, will a guy be able to look as me as not a slut?

Really ? Just head?

Well, you still have some growing ups to do.

ucheHapers:
Really ? Just head?

yeah? what happened?

firstking01:
Well, you still have some growing ups to do.

like how?

Everybody, even the so called religious fanatics, saints, critics...etc are all crazy in one way or the other wen it comes to s*x....you better stop allowing people's opinion count unnecessarily in your sex life.

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
like how?

Ok, because you gave a guy bj some years ago means you are automatically a slut huh?

firstking01:
Ok, because you gave a guy bj some years ago means you are automatically a slut huh?

well i'm not sure that's why i am asking, a lot of people say a girl is a slut if she has given head many times, and not marriage material

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
well i'm not sure that's why i am asking, a lot of people say a girl is a slut if she has given head many times, and not marriage material

Ok, from now henceforth know that that's a lie...being a wife material has more to do with individual traits and has nothing to do with her sexuality, omokop?

And btw, from your original post it seems you 've not been penetrated before, might be wrong tho?

how do you see yourself? that's what matters now...

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
okay so, in secondary school, i had no idea giving head was sex and is slutty, i didn't know it was called MouthAction and i gave 7 boys in secondary school but never allowed the real sex. but i soon after found out that oral is sex and anyone who does it is slutty. so when i found out at sixteen i promised myself to begin to save myself for my husband and since then i never even kissed a boy. so i am now 23, haven't even kissed a guy since i was sixteen, but i still think guys will think of me as a slut and no one will want to marry me, cause of the things i did in secondary school, even tho i have changed since then, so i need your own opinions, be truthful to me, i want the truth, will a guy be able to look as me as not a slut?

7 boys though

There's nothing more slutty than that o. The only option you have now is to kill yourself my dear

Small girl like you don suck 7 cassava at a go......u are now 23 which means u r still very young..... in fact, u still be small girl na, so u shudn't be worried about marriage now. Abi dem write "am a slutty cock sucker for ur head?" Chill, u gat nothing to worry about.

Are You Okay Atall?

Sucking preek since 14 abi 13 bah?
Okay, i will marry you! Jus come... But first, you need to show me how you used to do it back then, lemme know if it's the real bj you're talking about, ok?

sucking a dick doesn't guarantee you unmarried life my dear there are so many ladies that gives more that just sucking but they are happily married now. all you need do is to work on your mindset.

Listen up "Headmistress" a popular prostitute got married just last month in Portharcourt.


Remove that ugly mindset and always think positive.

In secondary sch
U give mouth action instead of facing ur studies
U r a slut for eva as far as u live around Nig
It's in d blood
No Advise
U niva kiss or allow real sex intercourse meanin u r a virgin after Mouth Gig in secondary sch wit 7boys In class

Story for the gods

Most guys even want ladies dat can give madt head

if iam to go by ur story,u already ve Phd in giving heads

so dear,fear not,ure not slutty or spoilt...nd there abound 1001 guys waiting to ve u as wife.

Here, even a fool will give you advise base on what you've posted. It's left to you to choose wisely. Nobody will bear your gain or lose!

Yes. Sucking off 7 boys while still in secondary school is/was a slutty thing to do.
And yes, some men would consider you slutty, even some of the seven boys you blew, heck even me.

But it doesn't matter what any of us thinks. Don't let the events of your past define you, be yourself and stop denying yourself the little pleasures of life.

lolaaaaaaaaaaaa:
okay so, in secondary school, i had no idea giving head was sex and is slutty, i didn't know it was called MouthAction and i gave 7 boys in secondary school but never allowed the real sex. but i soon after found out that oral is sex and anyone who does it is slutty. so when i found out at sixteen i promised myself to begin to save myself for my husband and since then i never even kissed a boy. so i am now 23, haven't even kissed a guy since i was sixteen, but i still think guys will think of me as a slut and no one will want to marry me, cause of the things i did in secondary school, even tho i have changed since then, so i need your own opinions, be truthful to me, i want the truth, will a guy be able to look as me as not a slut?

Your not Slutty, Your Just a Headmistress

franklynsunny:
In secondary sch
U give mouth action instead of facing ur studies
U r a slut for eva as far as u live around Nig
It's in d blood
No Advise
U niva kiss or allow real sex intercourse meanin u r a virgin after Mouth Gig in secondary sch wit 7boys In class

Story for the gods

Guy easy na

No, u won't be seen as a slut

Try marry a virgin (if possible)
I hope this ain't another blogger.

SluT ke
Me sef don de eye u already.
You're n0t a slut but the fellows you gave a head to would think t'was only dem you did it with and would feel more loved up by y0u.
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Like seriously? Am not understanding, ...inbetween do you always mistake d**k for candy?.. [color=#006600][/color][i][/i]

Girl all that is in the past. A handful of us did way more nastier things in secondary school, some still do. So I'm sure no one would crucify you for being wild back in the day, especially now that you're changed. Don't let that bring you down. You were young, wild and ignorant, no one should fault you for that. Just go on being your good self and never let want people think rule your life.

You are NOT a slut, you only did it out of ignorance, and from ur post it seems like u are still q virgin, if you are it means that u are special, keep it up, virgins are almost impossible to find these days. You husband will value you greatly for the rest of his life knowing he married you as a virgin. Any of your girlfriend advising you otherwise is just jealous. Thats the truth.

after doing it,did you announce it with a megaphone. If you keep your mouth shut you won't have any problem.