stanislaus67:
At 50, u will have been able to train your children in the university.

What of when the children do not come early despite marrying early?

pxjosh:
Can you listen to yourself? Who gets married to someone with no sense?

you should be the one listening to yourself. Are you saying only mature ladies get married?

By sense I mean maturity not intelligence or the lack of it.

joyli:
Yes it pays , my 1st Son is like my brother , gave me time to hustle @28 am done..living my dream life .

how about hustling a little before getting d kids

arosunshine:


no its paining me cus u are abusing ur old age by been senseless .

In that case you can take panadol for the pain.

I go like to marry but I no hold calumbas

arosunshine:


no its paining me cus u are abusing ur old age by been senseless .

Ehhya...In that case you can take panadol for the pain.

repogirl:
In that case you can take panadol for the pain.

or make him use tramadol

Men nice pics u got girl.. U dey rep.

Debaddest:

You're smart

Another one

justscorchone:
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@ 1bkaye

Lol guy, I've already told you

Debaddest:

You're smart

you have an idea.

thaoriginator:
or make him use tramadol

Men nice pics u got girl.. U dey rep.

thankyou.

Mindfulness:
Disadvantages:

1. Your personality is more likely to change in a noticeable way when you are younger so the choices that you make in younger years may not be the choices you would want to make when you are more mature.

2. Younger couples divorce more often.

3. Younger people often do not have the finances to get married and keep the marriage going hence finances are another rampant reason for divorce.

4. Older people have more sophisticated ways to cope with conflicts and they have - ideally - learned to tame their temper more effectively.

5. Life expectancy is on the rise, so you have more time than your ancestors.

I could go on.

As a guy who married at 23, you have valid points. The only one I disagree with is that they divorce often. Been on the marital game for over 20 years and the love between us is stronger than when we got married. All the advantages you mentioned are absolutely right. You make your family earlier and enjoy your years together starting in your mid 40s to your old age. I will do it again if I have to.

Lucasbalo:
As a guy who married at 23, you have valid points. The only one I disagree with is that they divorce often. Been on the marital game for over 20 years and the love between us is stronger than when we got married. All the advantages you mentioned are absolutely right. You make your family earlier and enjoy your years together starting in your mid 40s to your old age. I will do it again if I have to.

Nice one!

It's a disadvantage when it comes to career

Catalin:
Early marriage is advantageous to women.
#Team2017.

repogirl:
you should be the one listening to yourself. Are you saying only mature ladies get married?

By sense I mean maturity not intelligence or the lack of it.

Now you've defined what you mean by sense. I actually thought of something else.

I disagree with number 4

Gibz02:
Early marriage is the best

Early marriage is not bad but either early marriage or late marriage what is important is an happy marriage life

I totally agree with you

Chrisrare:
couldn't even find a single good reason to get married early frm d op. All i see is one man's sentimental opinions. Ur no. 4 is so wrong.

ochubaebube:
I stand with early marriage. But OP u would have stipulated what age u ascribe as "early" to marry. and one of the advantages u forgot to mention is that when one marries early, the couple stands a chance of growing at a young and slow pace with the kids. Have u ever seen a man who walks on the street with his son and u wonder if the smaller man is the elder one's junior brother? #TeamMarryEarly

exactly, whenever me and my dad go to stadium to watch ball mostly Sundays the ticket sellers always said that are you paying for your friend, my dad will just said he's my Son.

Kindaerous:



Nice one!

Thanks. I did it then because we were madly in love and I was scared of losing her. Met in college and I married her as soon as I finished my MBA making what I thought was a decent wages then. My mom was very much against it not because she hated my wife but she thought I was too young. I stood my ground and my father pleaded on my behalf to her so she can come to the wedding. Now my mom and wife are besties.

Life expectancy in 9ja is about 53 years.

For every 85 years old man/woman you see, many more did not make it beyond 40 due to poverty, simple/curable diseases, poor healthcare system, incessant road accidents, terrorism, etc.

So in 9ja having kids before 30 for men and 26 for ladies is ideal.

repogirl:
thankyou.

u welcome. Mek we relate na.

AreaFada2:
Life expectancy in 9ja is about 53 years.

For every 85 years old man/woman you see, many more did not make it beyond 40 due to poverty, simple/curable diseases, poor healthcare system, incessant road accidents, terrorism, etc.

So in 9ja having kids before 30 for men and 26 for ladies is ideal.

Very good point.

ItsQuinn:
It's a disadvantage when it comes to career

Its not a disadvantage when it comes to career cos there are women who handle their career and family effectively without the both clashing.

What of if you want to further your studies and you end up pregnant, and the course you are doing is full time and there's no part-time....What then?

Catalin:
Its not a disadvantage when it comes to career cos there are women who handle their career and family effectively without the both clashing.

1bkaye:

Lol guy, I've already told you

Calm down babe your blood too hot.person no fit just relate normal normal with you nii?

thaoriginator:
u welcome. Mek we relate na.

relate kwa? I am married.

Mindfulness:
Disadvantages:

1. Your personality is more likely to change in a noticeable way when you are younger so the choices that you make in younger years may not be the choices you would want to make when you are more mature.

2. Younger couples divorce more often.

3. Younger people often do not have the finances to get married and keep the marriage going hence finances are another rampant reason for divorce.

4. Older people have more sophisticated ways to cope with conflicts and they have - ideally - learned to tame their temper more effectively.

5. Life expectancy is on the rise, so you have more time than your ancestors.

I could go on.

1. Regardless of age, both your personalities will change. It's normal.

2. Which data are you using to justify that statement?

3. Again, which data are you using to justify that?

4. That is a subjective point of view. Just because one is older does not make them mature.

Please don't go on.

From a 20 year veteran.

ItsQuinn:
What of if you want to further your studies and you end up pregnant, and the course you are doing is full time and there's no part-time....What then?

If you are determined, you can combine both education and school. What of women that got married as undergraduates?

Mindfulness:
Disadvantages:

1. Your personality is more likely to change in a noticeable way when you are younger so the choices that you make in younger years may not be the choices you would want to make when you are more mature.

2. Younger couples divorce more often.

3. Younger people often do not have the finances to get married and keep the marriage going hence finances are another rampant reason for divorce.

4. Older people have more sophisticated ways to cope with conflicts and they have - ideally - learned to tame their temper more effectively.

5. Life expectancy is on the rise, so you have more time than your ancestors.

I could go on.

I dey feel you, go on please

justscorchone:




Calm down babe your blood too hot.person no fit just relate normal normal with you nii?

Lol very chill over here o. And no thank you