~Sissy~:

carry go jare. i no won dat wayo kiss

~Sissy~:

carry go jare. i no won dat wayo kiss

it is authentic kiss, i bought it as iyaba

fool me again

~Sissy~:

fool me again

dont let it bother u, u are fool to no one but me, loff is good ooo

Hi friends,
marriage is really a matter of commitment. Let's take our mind back to Eden, when the woman was created, she was called a complement (a helper) of the man. And after their sin, Adam was told by God among others that he must suffer before he eats.
Yes, even from creation, the woman is a helper not the pace setter.
If a man does not have money to undertake some family expences, the woman can help if she has and feels like helping. We all know that today, women must work in order to catter for her home, but you find out that their jobs are so challenging that they are stressed up. Their jobs give them stress and women naturally are weak in managing situations. if the man is faithfull to the woman, the woman will be moved to even go extra mile.

EZEH NGOZI (www./ydb5jd6)

hilfund:

Hi friends,
marriage is really a matter of commitment. Let's take our mind back to Eden, when the woman was created, she was called a complement (a helper) of the man. And after their sin, Adam was told by God among others that he must suffer before he eats.
Yes, even from creation, the woman is a helper not the pace setter.
If a man does not have money to undertake some family expences, the woman can help if she has and feels like helping. We all know that today, women must work in order to catter for her home, but you find out that their jobs are so challenging that they are stressed up. Their jobs give them stress and women naturally are weak in managing situations. if the man is faithfull to the woman, the woman will be moved to even go extra mile.

EZEH NGOZI (www./ydb5jd6)

I agree to that

hilfund:

Hi friends,
marriage is really a matter of commitment. Let's take our mind back to Eden, when the woman was created, she was called a complement (a helper) of the man. And after their sin, Adam was told by God among others that he must suffer before he eats.
Yes, even from creation, the woman is a helper not the pace setter.
If a man does not have money to undertake some family expences, the woman can help if she has and feels like helping. We all know that today, women must work in order to catter for her home, but you find out that their jobs are so challenging that they are stressed up. Their jobs give them stress and women naturally are weak in managing situations. if the man is faithfull to the woman, the woman will be moved to even go extra mile.

EZEH NGOZI (www./ydb5jd6)

That is a good talk.Once the man is faithfull,the woman will definitely go extra mile in assisting

just4favou:

That is a good talk.Once the man is faithfull,the woman will definitely go extra mile in assisting

We seems to like to pick from the bible the part that we like and leave the other that we dont like.
First of all, the woman being an helpmate to the man is not by choice, it seems to be an order to me, if you look at it well.
When God said, an helper shall you be, God never said, You could be an helper.
Again, when bible said husband love your wife as Jesus loved the church, and the bible then said, Wife, obey your husband, it is not conditional, what i mean is this, man being faithful to the man is not condition for the wife to assist, they are married couple for God's sake.

hilfund:

Hi friends,
marriage is really a matter of commitment. Let's take our mind back to Eden, when the woman was created, she was called a complement (a helper) of the man. And after their sin, Adam was told by God among others that he must suffer before he eats.
Yes, even from creation, the woman is a helper not the pace setter.
If a man does not have money to undertake some family expences, the woman can help if she has and feels like helping. We all know that today, women must work in order to catter for her home, but you find out that their jobs are so challenging that they are stressed up. Their jobs give them stress and women naturally are weak in managing situations. if the man is faithfull to the woman, the woman will be moved to even go extra mile.

EZEH NGOZI (www./ydb5jd6)

my friend shut up! woman wrapper!

na2day?:

my friend shut up! woman wrapper!

Na fight?

Fhemmmy:

Na fight?

at this stage, yes ooo

stories plenty for here

We seems to like to pick from the bible the part that we like and leave the other that we dont like.
First of all, the woman being an helpmate to the man is not by choice, it seems to be an order to me, if you look at it well.
When God said, an helper shall you be, God never said, You could be an helper.
Again, when bible said husband love your wife as Jesus loved the church, and the bible then said, Wife, obey your husband, it is not conditional, what i mean is this, man being faithful to the man is not condition for the wife to assist, they are married couple for God's sake.

dont mind them jare, what about the proverbs 31woman

na2day?:

at this stage, yes ooo

Make u take am easy oh.
It is just a forum.

Not if I get married to one of the brainwashed Naija babes wey dey for yankee here.
Egalitarian union all the way.

H2O2:

Not if I get married to one of the brainwashed Naija babes wey dey for yankee here.
Egalitarian union all the way.

It all depends on the pre-set understanding.

True that. Some of them are actually quite understanding.

I personally think that a man shd not use money to woo a woman and then, dont spend the woman on her after they are married.

Fhemmmy:

I personally think that a man shd not use money to woo a woman and then, dont spend the woman on her after they are married.

Unless he's filthy reach, he's probably setting himself up for failure.

H2O2:

Unless he's filthy reach, he's probably setting himself up for failure.

Such relationship never last . . . even if he is so rich, he cant be giving the money anyhow, they need to prepare for the tomorrow of their kids too.
There is a big difference when it is only about the woman and the man and not little ones involved, but most ladies dont know how to change once dem kids start arriving.

H2O2:

Not if I get married to one of the brainwashed Naija babes wey dey for yankee here.
Egalitarian union all the way.

na2day?:

Abeg close your mouth, I can smell it all the way from here


And don't be trying to kiss sissy

@ big brotha

we don separate a long tyme na. our divorce papers is finalized just waiting for ma monthly check in the mail

OgidiBoy:

Abeg close your mouth, I can smell it all the way from here


And don't be trying to kiss sissy

my friend, mind ya sef b4 i donate u upper cut!

~Sissy~:

@ big brotha

we don separate a long tyme na. our divorce papers is finalized just waiting for ma monthly check in the mail

thank God for unemployment

na2day?:

my friend, mind ya sef b4 i donate u upper cut!


thank God for unemployment

never heard that before, another oyinbo added to my vocab

why shouldnt they? they must

that is the more reason you should think well (singles) before you dash, if she can support fine, if she cant then men should take up their responsiblities big time o. A man do tell me before i got married five things a man should take care of in the house so he wont become a nonentity.

Shelter, feeding, children school fees, care of both inlaws and , _{cant remember the last one now}, the moment a woman takes charge of this BIG FIVE! Men pls pack and go back to your parents house, we dont need baby-husbands

Aladunni:

why shouldnt they? they must

that is the more reason you should think well (singles) before you dash, if she can support fine, if she cant then men should take up their responsiblities big time o. A man do tell me before i got married five things a man should take care of in the house so he wont become a nonentity.

Shelter, feeding, children school fees, care of both inlaws and , _{cant remember the last one now}, the moment a woman takes charge of this BIG FIVE! Men pls pack and go back to your parents house, we dont need baby-husbands

So u mean the man has to be the one to take care of all that . . . . inasmuch as i blv that a man has to take care of the house and family.
However, there is nothing wrong, if the woman take care of the small 2 of the big 5 and the man takes care of the other 3.
it is a union.

He shouldn't be responsible for 100% of the family's bills
The wife can help him pay the minor ones.

mama-gee:

He shouldn't be responsible for 100% of the family's bills
The wife can help him pay the minor ones.

Very true, she cld pays the likes of Cable, power, gas and other small ones and the man take care of the heavy ones,

If I am going to be footing 100% of the bills, you better be ready to SUBMIT to me like a loving respectful wife, as ordered by your Lord God.

H2O2:

If I am going to be footing 100% of the bills, you better be ready to SUBMIT to me like a loving respectful wife, as ordered by your Lord God.