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|My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by ytm2014: 2:12pm On Nov 10, 2009|
A close friend of mine has a girfriend who wants me to be dating her, she said she doesn't mind leaving my friend. please what should i do, the worst part of this is that whenever the three of us are together, she prefer to sit close to me and this doesn't make my friend feel comfortable anymore, even though he can't say this out. should i tell my friend about this? she keeps sending me text msgs everyday. and she calls me almost everynight. please guyz i need your advice.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by candylips(m): 2:16pm On Nov 10, 2009|
go for it . na free food dey sweet pass
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by Ben13: 2:20pm On Nov 10, 2009|
you've got no problem, dear.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by toba: 2:23pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Guy.I see u re still conscious&can reason well.B4 u sin against God&break bond of friendship tell ur friend&u both should flee from her.If u start dating her,dnt u think she can do same to u d future? Shes a bad type so tell ur friend
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by nethacker(m): 3:00pm On Nov 10, 2009|
notify ur friend immediately guy
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by Libra38: 3:46pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Show your friend some of the text messages she sent to you at least to have some proof, else your friend might end up in believing that you were the one making advances. You never can tell how she will lie against you should your friend discover/suspect any strange behavior from you both.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by Godmother(f): 3:49pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Please tell your friend about her and flee from her
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by MissyB1(m): 3:55pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Are You a man? I doubt!!
Not even a Hen would be this weak.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by DrLorenz1(m): 3:58pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Please don't even bother having anything to do with her. If you say he's your friend, you wouldn't even think of it.
Are you woman? I refuse to think so!!
Not even a rooster would be this B**chy.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by honeric01(m): 4:03pm On Nov 10, 2009|
She's not worth you nor your friend, tell you friend and show him the text, that does it all,
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by afrodoc(m): 4:08pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Bleep missy b! Y was she so bitchy? Someone asks 4 advice bt instead u insult him.go play wit urself u cockstarved love-addict!
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by schescale: 4:17pm On Nov 10, 2009|
be reasonable man, she ain't good for you or your friend.
always bear it in mind dat nothing kills fast like awuuf
beta run for your dear life, dis culd be poison in disguise
, and try to be a good friend, always
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by kpolli(m): 4:34pm On Nov 10, 2009|
she is bad,
warn ur friend, n two of u free her,
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by saltnsugar(m): 4:39pm On Nov 10, 2009|
[color=#006600] Do I Really Owe Him An Apology?
« on: November 07, 2009, 07:58 PM »
Even after we graduated from the higher institution and working, my best friend still holds enormous grudges against me. He was my classmate and bosom friend. We did almost everything together, including reading, writing and reporting assignments, eating, clubbing, politics, the list is endless. Even in the exams, we sat close to each other for mutual benefits, until this girl came in between us. My friend first met her and they were going out together. Then came one faithful day, my friend visited me with her. He introduced her to me and we both exchanged pleasantries. She confirmed to my friend that I was a gentle guy, though in my absence.
When my friend asked me about her, I also confirmed she’s cute and above all, matured. And the three of us by virtue of that introduction became close friends. However, my friend I must state clear here, is the acting boy friend, while as his bosom friend, I encouraged them and ensured their love for each other grows. Not quite long after, they stated having serious incompatibility problems. They quarrel themselves at every slightest opportunity. They would argue over trivial issues that should not matter at all. Even in the public, causing themselves embarrassments in some cases.
I became very worried and tried my best to settle their differences. In many occasions my idea of settling cases between them had worked perfectly, only for yet another trouble to ensue little time after. This lingered until I could notice a show of lack of interest in the relationship from either side. As a concerned dude, I called my friend in private and asked him what exactly the problem was, but he didn’t seem to know. I demanded to know if he has done his job as a man, because refusal of indulgence could throw some contemporary ladies into dismay. My friend yielded NO. I blamed him for that and at the same time advised him to go sleep with the girl to clear every emotional doubt. But he refused, telling me he wouldn’t want to portray a picture of sexual urge before the girl at that time which he considered too early. I said to him, four months after you‘ve been into this and you still consider it too early to make her feel like a woman.
Ok, since you are the point man, you know the best for yourself. While the problem between them lasted, the girl was wishing within her to switch over to me. But I did not know until one day, while she and I were coming back after we escorted her boy friend to his off-camp residence and coming back to our hostel rooms. On our way she kissed me. I objected and frowned against it, but she said since my best friend is her boy friend, she sees nothing bad in giving me such unconditional kiss. After all, I was a better man than him, she added. I became frightened and tried to protect my friend’s interest like every true friend should do. From that day she began to hide from my friend, but only wanting to see me.
Still I refused. Instead I planned to reconcile them but they both expressed explicitly they are no longer interested. After like six months, I pleaded with my friend to accept my reconciliation moves, but he objected. By then, the girl was disturbing me terribly, paying for my lunch, drinks, etc even when I was not there. When the temptation became too much, I asked my friend if he was going to be against any man he sees going out with the girl, but he denied, saying he would even thank the man for saving him the trouble. I called the girl and asked her why she was following me around, but she said, my friend in question never had any canal knowledge of her. What was her sin falling in love with me?
She even said she had brought up the topic before the room mates and they all encourage her to follow her heart. It was at that point I fell for her. And we started dating. Since then, we have been together even as by the grace of God, we are both engineers now (though she is still serving). It’s been like five years now and I don’t regret ever being with her. So does she never regret the decision she made. But my friend hated me with the believe that I betrayed him. And as adults now, I want reconciliation but do not know how to start. In your mind, do I really owe him an apology?[/color]
Is this the REMIX
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by honeric01(m): 4:45pm On Nov 10, 2009|
superstory episode 28
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by 190yaris1: 4:55pm On Nov 10, 2009|
and i hope u are also aware that its free food that hangs on the throat mostly~
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by MissyB1(m): 5:21pm On Nov 10, 2009|
Dr. Lorenz:Lame and classless!!
Atleast, construct a statement of Your own w/o having to use mine as a sample
afrodoc:Thank Your stars I just saw this and I don't have enuff time to treat
Your madness 'cause I have more important things to attend to . . . .Else, I woulda taught You the hard way that airing one's opinion doesn't equate being sex-starved. Oniranu!!!
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by Ben13: 5:33pm On Nov 10, 2009|
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by pie1ect(m): 5:00am On Nov 11, 2009|
@ original poster
Walk away before it is too late.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by candylips(m): 10:32am On Nov 11, 2009|
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:40pm On Nov 11, 2009|
Ask yourself is your friend worth loosing for someone like her? Then make your decision from there!
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by tkb417(m): 12:44pm On Nov 11, 2009|
easy on Missy B abeg
shes not a trouble maker.
make una no vex o
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by DrLorenz1(m): 6:30pm On Nov 11, 2009|
Yea yea. I'll make you lame when i break your legs. I can very well construct a statement of my own and yours can't compare. FYI, i've even be accused of constructing my words before i talk. U know why? Its because of people like you!
Well she sure seems like one to me. I'm a double giver . I don't normally verbally attack people, but i don't like it when some females run their mouths
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by puskin: 6:50pm On Nov 11, 2009|
. . .altercation wbn burst out cos of a simple topic.
|Re: My Friend's Girlfriend Wants Me To Date Her by joeljay: 6:54pm On Nov 12, 2009|
just tell your friend whats going on, if you should do it and your friend gets to knw later you will have yourself to blame. i once have a girlfriend who have been sleepin with my so call friend, i really love her ever up to the time when i caugth the both of them still even kept beging her just to show you the way i really love her then, but now she is one of my worstest ENERMY
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