Ujujoan:

When he was sending her to school why did he neglect to study himself too 

Do he seriously think that the fact he paid for her education gives him total right over her.

I'd only fault the girl if she led him on all the while, promising to marry him, knowing in her heart she wont!

It's possible she has always made it obvious to the man that she wont marry him but he decided to continue the good deed, hoping she'll change her mind.

It's possible she advised him to go to school too but he ignored her request thinkin he's already 'bought' her by paying for he education!

Either way, there are always two sides to a story and I aint passing any blame untill I check dem out! 

na2day?:

u are such a hypocrite in no small way. if a man is in a relationship with a woman when he is poor and she worked her to support him and things get better and he dumped her bcuz he does not see her as his class, will u come out here saying the same crap u just spewed out here? 

lovemoi2:

say what u want but
there is a difference b/w being in a relationship with someone you have grown in and raring someone for an upcoming relationship

humans are not chrismas goats you save up to kill on chrismas day

when two people are in a relationship with mutual feelings, they is a word called love involved

but when two people are in a relationship where one has no choice then its a selfish relationship, most of these girls from poor homes only allow the so called rich man in their lives because they had no choice
because there families asked them to accept the man cos he was gonna take care of them

na2day?:

did u actually read the post b4 commenting? she said she can no longer continue the "relationship". so in your mind there are father christmas all over town that dont know what to do with money but to just pick up a random chic they have no feelings for and just send them to school paying all their tuition and buy books just for the fun of it, right? nonsense! ! ! use your head when u post! 

peace out  fool i am done wif u

lovemoi2:


keep it coming dumb ass, its obvious if i keep teaching you you would never learn, i give up on u

maybe u should try something that has notting to with your already destroyed brain

peace out  fool

whitesturd:

OK fine wot the babe did is very wrong becos she is now a graduate she feels the  guy is no longer in her class after all he has sacrificed for her.she is realy ungrateful but your friend shd jst 4get it maybe dey were not meant to be together after all.God only used him to sponsor the the girls education.she wud regret it later.its realy bad.

whitesturd:

OK fine wot the babe did is very wrong becos she is now a graduate she feels the  guy is no longer in her class after all he has sacrificed for her.she is realy ungrateful but your friend shd jst 4get it maybe dey were not meant to be together after all.God only used him to sponsor the the girls education.she wud regret it later.its realy bad.

sexyZee:

~~~~~~~~~~~~~loser

na2day?:

i hope u r not calling me a loser b4 i come slap the hausa out of your face  

lovemoi2:


kitten slap your fellow men first and see if they dont kick your ass

i hope u r not calling me a loser b4 i come slap the hausa out of your face Angry Angry Angry

na2day?:

u are such a hypocrite in no small way. if a man is in a relationship with a woman when he is poor and she worked her to support him and things get better and he dumped her bcuz he does not see her as his class, will u come out here saying the same crap u just spewed out here?

lovemoi2:


kitten slap your fellow men first and see if they dont kick your ass

sexyZee:




THANK GOD, U KNO WAT U R, I NEVA MENTION NAME

Ujujoan:

There is no way you can compare both cases! That someone cannot marry a non-graduate is not a crime. If she advised him to go to school too and he refused, why would he think because he trained her she dosent have a choice  

Besides, the man claims to train her through school when what he probably means is that he 'helped'. Does she not have a family? What were they doing when he was paying her way through school. Even if he paid for her schooling 100%, was there an agreement that they would get married.

Like I said, I'd only blame the girl if she agreed to marry him just to get him to keep paying and at the end of the day decides to leave on the illiteracy grounds. But if she had always made it clear to him that she cant marry a non-graduate but he kept on paying hoping she would change her mind, then that's his problem not her's.

Just like I would blame a man that agreed to marry a woman and after she had sufferes to help him grow, decides ehs's not her class.

I know you'd argue she wanst using marriage as an excuse but what else will make her leave a guy she dated for 4 years    

obviously u use characters in a thread and u don't know what they mean, no wonder u are 10. how about u go do your home work

na2day?:

your points are lame, both cases are very much the same, one person sacrificing for the other and the other taking advantage of it. why didn't she decline any offer he makes to her even if it is 10 kobo? why didn't she ask him to sign a contract that their is no string attached? she knew what she was doing and just played the dude, this is a common every day occurrence and i have seen it times without number

ruskiee:

Just because a man helps out a lady at any given time-it does not in any shape or form give him total control over her affairs.
Some men really need to get that into their heads!

Ujujoan:


So anything a man does for a woman he must be rewarded through marriage? So if my BF makes me an offer I'll say no simply because I'm not going to marry him? So if I get into a relationship where marriage is not involved I need to sign a contract to that effect?  

Now isnt that lame?  

Maybe you are right, maye she played him! Like I said earlier, I dont have the details of the story, but I've learnt how not to judge based on one party's story. I'm sure if the lady in question were to open he own thread you'd open your big mouth and support her too!  

sexyZee:

DIS ^^^^ IS DIFFRENT FROM ~~~~~. GOD Y IS DIS GUY DIS DAFT NA

ruskiee:

Just because a man helps out a lady at any given time-it does not in any shape or form give him total control over her affairs.
Some men really need to get that into their heads!

lovemoi2:


you are such a darling, thanks for seeing it that way
its really sickening when some men think that can own a woman just because of the gifts they gave her

na2day?:

just like it is sickening for a lady to think a guy owes her marriage bcuz she slept with him and had a child or she supported him when he was nothing etc

na2day?:

tell me how is that different from a woman that supports a guy and he became wealthy and now does not see her fit to be is gf and declines marriage?

takes one to know one


how about the women telling the guys up front and say, hey whatever u do hope there is no strings attached? and see how many things a guy will be freely willing to do for a girl he will only consider as friend

Just because a man helps out a lady at any given time-it does not in any shape or form give him total control over her affairs.
Some men really need to get that into their heads

sexyZee:

U ARE SUCH A DULLY, TANKS FOR SEEING IN SUCH A LAME WAY

TINK DAS WAT U WANT ABI

Ujujoan:

You are just arguing blindly! A girl in first year has marriage as her least problems.

If they never talked about marriage or if the girl never agreed to marriage, then she did absolutely nothing wrong. Despite what you think, a man can still spend money on a girl he has no intention of marrying!!

na2day?:

so technically u have no reasonable response to my question, right? well i can no go to bed

lovemoi2:

hopefully when you wake up, your already destroyed brains will be fix to an extent

r231:

count your losses and move on.
nxt time think about sending yourself to school b4 some chick