Lol. 

Wow,  apparently my laptop is *not working* as i can't reply or post on the thread I started.

I just want to say thanks for the nice replies to all who posted and sorry you didn't get the whole thing.  But I'll just make it clear that i do know exactly what I want. I am a happy person and it's just a phase i'm going through, resolving this issue.  I've been single before this and I LOVED it.  But truth is it's better to have a genuine friend to share with, especially when you are in a new environment.

Lesson learned: I wont put up any personal sh*t here,   The issue was close to my heart and I didn't like the smart ass responses.  Naija style for u.  So I'm not mad.

Take care all. (just in case my laptop stops working again)