Richy4:


That was the problem... When you go into Red cross marriage, that's what happens....

The red cross always save the day during emergency...and when the emergency is over, they try to go back to "status-quo"

Alot of people are into this kinda marriage bro.... due to one emergency or another, they jump into marriage just to save the day or save face, when they feel the emergency is over, they decide that their minds are no longer there and they wanna go and save another damsel on distress.....you are just noticing all the flaws because you want out.......Tell the new damsel waiting for rescue to give you time to work on your marriage.please...

jahsharon:
Did I read that you married a single mother? You are very very - - - - . Out of all the single girls around you could not find anyone. Even Genevieve with all her so called beauty does not even have a fucck mate because she is a single mother. If your so called wife is a good woman, the father of her first child would still be married to her. So, get the hell out of here and go and live with the problem you created for yourself. I think you should marry a double mother as second wife.

Only widows deserve another chance not some random girls who cannot maintain a home.

gabazin080:
wish i could. i want to learn pls

LastProphet:
ur next will be worse quote me, 95% of the marriages u see out there are not what u think young man, don't be deceived. go and get a side chick for a while and don't catch disease otherwise ur story will be worse than this economy

aflyingbird:


He should get a side chick , again ? When da side chick he got when he was with his previous woman ended up getn pregnant n marryn him thou he didn't luv her n he still doesn't luv her , u r advicing him to get another side chick

FortuneTeller:


I can tell you from experience marriage is not always exciting. You will become bored, tired, hateful, and irritable at times. It does not matter who you marry, such feelings will happen the longer you are with your spouse. However if you find yourself hating your wife, seeking to beat or kill her, leave and find yourself. You won't find the fairytale you are seeking, but your child's mother will be alive.

LastProphet:


bros u hv a point but if u been married many yrs u wont ask me why. The guy no longer enjoys intimacy at home and bliv nothing can be done about that until he has been outside and back on his own volition. a friend fell into this situation many yrs ago and he ws going to remarry, he started avoiding us his close friends thinking we were all against him. to his surprise i told him i wasnt against it but that he should friend the outside lady only a little longer then come back for discussion. he returned to his old wife on his own volition and found out the outside girl was not better than his wife. this is what the op needs to learn

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

gabazin080:
we will be 5yrs together in February but the relationship seems to be heading for doom. she is the nagging type and has change from the girl I used to know then. I don't even know who is the man in d relationship. its been over a weak since we last talked on phone. and its almost 2 weeks sinc the last time we had a chat of lyk 5 mins on social apps. we do bone ourselves wen we are online.
though have always made efforts to make this relationship work but seems like its just only me in d relationship now.
but the problem is we are too afraid to breakup because our parents are friends and they support our relationship. my mum will call her and her mum will call me to know if there is any problem but we are too afraid to open up. have done that several times and her mum will get involved and sort things out but now i don't wanna involve her anymore because the fight is becoming too much.
have made up my mind but too afraid to take any action.
pls nairalanders, advice me on what to do. am confused

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

ChemicalReaction:
There's no nice way to quit without hurting her.

gabazin080:
not sure. cus she was a side chic turned wife due to pregnancy

HungerBAD:
Divorce her.

If only she is cheating on you.

keepingmum:
She was a side chic? Yet u were nacking her raw in all angles? You were also cheating on her as well. But u want to divorce her because u "feel" she's doing what you were doing to her?? No proof oo... I am guessing u have gotten another babe abi?

Continue playing wt the feelings of women you hear? The thunnnndererrrr that will fire you, is coming from Buhari's 2017 budget

HungerBAD:
Divorce her.

If only she is cheating on you.

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her