OP you never talk wetin be your problem. You are looking for an excuse to cheat on your wife abi?

Gratefulsoul:
Did you ever love her? I need a sincere answer..

Please add: how old was/is the op?

Noting ruins a relationship like lies! Meet a girl that can lie, u will just learn to believe only yourself. Becos they can lie for Africa

The moment you quit the marriage. The next marriage will tow the same path. That means marriage and divorce will be the thing of the day. Am not in support of divorce, please let her know your feelings and work things out for good.

gabazin080:
not sure. cus she was a side chic turned wife due to pregnancy

Now you're talking, you don't love her from start.

Men!!!!! Will you be happy if another man do same to your sister? Fear God!

Nick4life:
Noting ruins a relationship like lies! Meet a girl that can lie, u will just learn to believe only yourself. Becos they can lie for Africa

But we've only heard from the op. What of the other party?

Op, please are you by anyway papa anointed?, that wicked man?

Oga you are seeing someone else and now you are turning the table around suspecting she may be cheating on you. Hmm. You have mind o. My brother there is no way karma won't locate you.

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

don't bother yourself women will always be woe to woman

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

the problem with single mom!

quit that da NM thing called marriage!

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

Either way someone must get hurt, stay in the marriage and keep hurting yourself or leave her and she gets hurt. The choice is yours.

Side Chic?
I will advice you to consult all your village oracles,Amadioha and the Babalawos that blind folded you to marry that side chic that the reality has finally come.

Manage and beg that your wandering soul ( like Robinson Crusoe) to look through the eyes of your lovely son and make her mother an inside chic..

What men sometimes forget is the fact that we are not in anyway better than those women we treat anyhow..

Bros,my candid advice for you is to borrow candle, lantern,generator or possibly street light..Look for that love or lost you once had for that side chic of yours and wholeheartedly give it to this beautiful mother of your lovely son whom like you said eargerly awaits your home coming on a daily basis.

If you think that your new Anima,Ronke abi na Amaka will make life better for Bros...Na big lie.

Happiness is closer than you think.Just open your eyes and reach out for it in that mother of your lovely son..

I hope you will also understand when your wife starts sleeping with other men and come back to you "on her own volition"....

LastProphet:


bros u hv a point but if u been married many yrs u wont ask me why. The guy no longer enjoys intimacy at home and bliv nothing can be done about that until he has been outside and back on his own volition. a friend fell into this situation many yrs ago and he ws going to remarry, he started avoiding us his close friends thinking we were all against him. to his surprise i told him i wasnt against it but that he should friend the outside lady only a little longer then come back for discussion. he returned to his old wife on his own volition and found out the outside girl was not better than his wife. this is what the op needs to learn

U r maDt anybody put u for the marriage. Rubbish

Love is enough. If Love isn't enough then what you have isn't love.

butanep:


Marriage isn't easy I swear... I have been working on myself for months now and learning new things before I say I do...

I know I have my own problems, just pray I find a woman we are compactible. I don't think love is enough.

Op is it how you use to do?

this is impossible. you cant do that without hurting her. i think you dey look for war sef.

Y did u want to double her problem for crying out loud...Call her and tell her things you don't like about here @least there must be a reason for u hating her...And I believe she wll adjust...Even if u go into another relationship now expect the worst...

#remember it's for better for worse#

Stop looking for a perfect woman for there is no such in existence. Grow up, be a man and determine to make your marriage work.

HungerBAD:
Divorce her.

If only she is cheating on you.

marriage in this situation is just for u to carry ur cross. Even though u don't love her then y u marry her in d first place. So Mr man I don't subscribe to ur ill advice and the position of the thread starter

Gratefulsoul:


Why then did you go on with the marriage when you fully aware you don't love her.. Marriage isn't relationship or courtship, its a life contract. I will advice you look inward and deep down in your heart there is this atom of feeling or love which you once had for her cos am sure you didn't impregnate her through wifi but through love making, try and ignite those feelings again and learn to love her but this time not as a side chick but as a wife and also the mother of your sweet boy..

Bro most guys can fvck any beautiful thing in skirt o, even without feelings for her, just to satisfy their sexual desires

gabazin080:
haba. bro wetin bring curse na

You deserve it see how you dragged this poor lady into your messed up life now you want to leave her and go ruin another.

In fact ehn the thunder that is about to strike you just left mushin


And please allow someone sane to raise your boy so he doesn't grow up to become like you.

2dugged:
Op, please are you by anyway papa anointed?, that wicked man?

hey madam feminism. I was expecting you to say "fvck off OP she can live without you. she's woman enough she doesn't need you"

Lolz na so so mouth una get

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

Until you have concrete proof she's cheating on you, stay right where you are.

It's not right and often disastrous when one act on their feelings without concrete proof to back it up.

Beside, why do you now come home late? Hope you know no serious responsible man comes back home late in the night?

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

Hunnn my brother I don't see enough reason here for you to be tired of the relationship it is not starts like this and it shouldn't ends like this.

I am happy that you have an issue with her, remember a long known devil is better than an unknown angel, whose attitude no one can predict.

I strongly advise you to go back and redo your calculations what you endure to have her dance to your music then and convince her to marry you, put forth more sacrifice and believe me you wonder that your wife is just an amusing woman.

No marriage that does not required sacrifice and believe me the sacrifice are not the same likewise the magnitude, the truth is that you might lucky now no one can tell what the nature of another one you want to venture into will be.

My father use to tell me that I should always be good and humble enough to learn in all situations because no situation worse to the point of not being able to manage and no marriage will ever free to problems.

gabazin080:
I am tired of my marriage. my only joy in that marriage is my look-alike 1yr old son. i married a single mother. she tells a lot of lies and i felt she might be cheating on me. though she doesnt know how i feel about her cus she is always eager to see me get back from work. but i just dont love her anymore and i now get home late in the might. i want to quit and keep my boy. how do i do it without hurting her

Everything was initially built on lies and deception. Dismantle the deceptive foundation. Get the two of you sit down, have a sincere talk about your relationship with intention to heal and march on.
Whatever built on lies, falsehood and deception cannot stand.

AngelsAndStars:
hey madam feminism. I was expecting you to say "fvck off OP she can live without you. she's woman enough she doesn't need you"

Lolz na so so mouth una get

who are you calling feminist?, come don't let me sieze your wallet o,you know me before?

There's no way you can leave without hurting her
If u incurred a woman's wroth be very prepared

There comes a time when u get sick of your partner give it time and prayers you'll be happy again. We can learn to love and live with whosoever if we choose to

Coldfeet:
You deserve it see how you dragged this poor lady into your messed up life now you want to leave her and go ruin another.

In fact ehn the thunder that is about to strike you just left mushin


And please allow someone sane to raise your boy so he doesn't grow up to become like you.

see feminist. am dissapointed. I expected you to talk hard. Lolz.

2dugged:
who are you calling feminist?, come don't let me sieze your wallet o,you know me before?

abeg go jo. I dey monitor una. yeye

AngelsAndStars:
see femi nist. am dissapointed. I expected you to talk hard. Lolz.

My name is not Femi please

AngelsAndStars:
abeg go jo. I dey monitor una. yeye

na you be yeye, mad man