Captainbells:

A whole load of bullocks right there!!

So what are you bringing to the table if you lots expect perfection from your partners?
Potbelly?
Stupid sense of entitlement??

Op made the mistake of listing every trash. In summary, take care of yourself and your home. Simple. Now, what do you bring to the table? Fairly used puk$$1? Big tummy? That is the only thing most of you bring. Most of you don't deserve half of what you get?

Should a man tell you to keep the home clean?
Should a man tell you not to give him more stress.

Dunderheads

epobot:
By d grace of GOD we can do it but wat will u give us in return? Remember we are ur wife, not d maid or ur mother but ur missing rib

You sound like a wife material
Ayam coming to see your parents ds Xmas...

Number 1 is not always right,there are many sexy plus-size ladies.

Pavore9:


We are talking about humans not schools. Haven't you seen a man who is polygamous but still lives like a bachelor because none of his wives is giving him a reason to look forward to coming home?

We have had a middle-aged tenant who will thought his family were living outside Lagos because of his work only to discover that his two wives were also living in two other parts of Lagos. He needed his sanity!

Just hope and work towards getting it right with the first woman.

how do u manage to carry such pessimistic load in one body ? Are you lyk arsenal that always draw barca and bayern ? Easy bro

Nonsense list.

Pavore9:


We are talking about humans not schools. Haven't you seen a man who is polygamous but still lives like a bachelor because none of his wives is giving him a reason to look forward to coming home?

We have had a middle-aged tenant who will thought his family were living outside Lagos because of his work only to discover that his two wives were also living in two other parts of Lagos. He needed his sanity!

Just hope and work towards getting it right with the first woman.

are these problems u stated peculiar with polygamous men ? Havent u seen a man married with just ONE woman giving him hell ?

epobot:
By d grace of GOD we can do it but wat will u give us in return? Remember we are ur wife, not d maid or ur mother but ur missing rib

A queen's treatment. Just imagine what a queen's treatment will feel like. The female folks stand to gain so so so so much.

Funny enough, these requests ain't one bit hard to achieve. All that is needed is the discipline and willingness.

mtchwww...Is that all? I haven't seen a woman that cannot do all these things,but the question now is this, after she does all these would you now be able to do dxame for her? Ehen! that your No 17 got me thinking....Religion is included does that mean that she should put u first b4 God or what?

This list makes Nigerian men sound so needy...

Come on, just live your lives.

You don't want her to be your mum, yet you expect her to pick up after you?

She's too fat, yet your pot belly no get part 2. What happens to hitting the gym together, or alternating the time you go so that one of you is always with the kids at any point in time.

You want your wife to make your guests welcome? Any of you can do that. If guests arrive before your wife comes home, won't you entertain them and make them feel welcome your own way?

To have a peaceful home, marry someone who's always fair in his/her dealings with others, who's kind to others, who's giving and not selfish to other people.
You see a woman who finds it difficult to give to the needy, and you even encourage her not to assist that her aunt who's been begging her for some money because you people have plans for your upcoming wedding,despite the fact that the money we're talking about cannot buy a crate of soft drink for the wedding. You now expect her to change and be giving towards your relatives after the wedding? Don't be delusional..

Choiszman:
30 Things Nigerian Husbands Want And Expect From Their Wives:
1. Go and slim down. Do not let people take you for our mother when indeed you are our wife. We love to see you exercise and eat less.
2. Mind and control your tongue.
3. Keep the house clean.
4. Be hospitable, how you receive our friends and families matter to us. Make them feel welcome by coming out to greet them, serve them water if there is no drink.
5. Dress neatly and smart always, look good for us.
6. Do not disrespect us, we want to feel respected even with our imperfections, correct us with respect.
7. Treat us like a king, make us feel important and we shall treat you back as our queens.
8. Do not always claim right.
9. Be polite always.
10. Be quick to say "I am sorry".
11. Do not delay us when we have to go out together. Start getting ready well ahead of time and don't keep us waiting because we can be very impatient.
12. We don't like tension, make us smile and laugh around you and we will want to hang around.
13. We love good food, if you have to go to a catering school to make us eat well, please do.
14. We do not like nagging. When you make your request, believe in us to do it in our own time. No amount of nagging can change us.
15. Do not belittle or gossip us to anyone.
16. If there are issues that need be addressed, find a quiet time when we can talk, just the two of us not necessarily in the middle of the night when you're most likely going to disturb our sleep.
17. Do not prioritize others ahead of us, Make us your number one; Not the children, your friends, your family, your career, business, religion or anything around.
18. We love sex, do not withhold it. Never use it as a bargaining chip.
19. Be disciplined and wise in spending.
20. Be our friend and stop acting like our mom.
21. We can be jealous, do not get too close with the opposite sex on Social media. Seek our consent before accepting a male as Friend.
22. Do not paint us bad to the children, help them love and appreciate us.
23. Do not leave the home and children unattended.
24. Accept and relate well with our family members.
25. Assist us in paying the bills, if you earn well.
26. Do not try to pry too much by reading our mails and responding to messages meant for us without our consent.
Stop snooping and stalking us on Social media. Stop being suspicious of our female colleagues.Please stop acting like FBI,CIA or Mossad over our phones. They are our phones not yours.
27. Stop answering our calls without our permission.
28. Smile always, even when you are exhausted from tending the kids. Constantly frowning will scare us.
29. If you need our help, ASK. We cannot read your minds*.
30. Stop asking to know how we spend every dime. Just trust us and all will be well.
Lots of love,
-Nigerian husbands.

. Culled From Palmchat App

Ladies is up to you, what do you feel, do you agree?

100 % correct ... Dear lord God help me find a wife at least with 50% of this qualities.

epobot:
By d grace of GOD we can do it but wat will u give us in return? Remember we are ur wife, not d maid or ur mother but ur missing rib

They just can't help being defensive

epobot:
By d grace of GOD we can do it but wat will u give us in return? Remember we are ur wife, not d maid or ur mother but ur missing rib

which rib??

Amicable24:
Wives or slaves cos somethings don't go down well Mr. Choiszman, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander.. If a woman should sacrifice all these(which is highly impossible) how much are u willing to sacrifice for her too Marriage is not all about what d man/wife wants, rather it is how much each person is willing to sacrifice for the betterment of the relationship between them.
I love men who are man enough to take up responsibilities and handle issues maturely even when things don't seem to go well unlike men who settle their bulk on the couch and expect their wives(slaves) to lick their feet..
Anyways... Counter thread loading (I trust NL ladies)... Let the bashing begin

Wetin dey worry dis feminist wanna be

TINALETC3:
Op,d post remains inconclusive until I see "50 tins Nigerian wives expect 4rm dia hubby"

They just can't help but be defensive. Just take note and try to be a good wife, thanks

Captainbells:

A whole load of bullocks right there!!

So what are you bringing to the table if you lots expect perfection from your partners?
Potbelly?
Stupid sense of entitlement??

Nagging wife wanna be, spotted

frenchwine:

Counter thread loading?

Na Dias way

frenchwine:

Counter thread loading?

Na dia way

Greedgod:

how do u manage to carry such pessimistic load in one body ? Are you lyk arsenal that always draw barca and bayern ? Easy bro

Pessimism is when you expect a woman to be perfect so you can have a "happy" life and when she doesn't unto the next one! Never concerned whether your own lifestyle makes her happy!

OP, you are gbaski. :DOP, you are gbaski.

Pavore9:


Pessimism is when you expect a woman to be perfect so you can have a "happy" life and when she doesn't unto the next one! Never concerned whether your own lifestyle makes her happy!

kip enduring and wish you the best !

See our women o ! What has happened to this generation? What is with our women of today? These are simple things that will benefit the two of us in the union. You will have more peace, blissful marriage, a night in shinning armour of a husband because when he is at peace with you, it reflects in every aspect of the marriage.

These things ain't impossible to achieve. Feminism is eroding the ingredients that make homes a haven.

I dare the women folk to come up with 20 things they want from men without contradiction and I will shave my left eyebrow. Women don't know what they want half of the time.

Phi001:

The same wives that are complaining on this thread?

As a wife; I'm talking about a real wife, these things come naturally. Real wives do all that without even knowing it.

rahjan:
I dare the women folk to come up with 20 things they want from men without contradiction and I will shave my left eyebrow. Women don't know what they want half of the time.

The only thing a woman truly wants is loyalty to the family, because with loyalty, every other thing follows. A virtuous woman is not demanding, even if the man is not rich.

iykedare:


Op make the mistake of listing every trash. In summary, take care of yourself and your home. Simple. Now, what do you bring to the table? Fairly used puk$$1? Big tummy? That is the only thing most of you bring. Most of you don't deserve half of what you get?

Should a man tell you to keep the home clean?
Should a man tell you not to give him more stress.

Dunderheads

Yeah you can kindly Fvck off now!!
Why should a man tell a woman to tidy the house? Home training 101??
Does that even make sense?
All I'm saying is that OP do not need to list all these basic things that even a seven year old can fathom!!

You lots expect the most from women but bring trashy sense of entitlement into marriage??
Expecting heaven and earth while you can't even provide sand!

OP please speak for yourself. Not every Nigerian man is a sexist egotistic selfish arrogant man. Thanks

Na only 30, e suppose reach like 1000 or more

31. Don't breathe again, just die.

Greedgod:

kip enduring and wish you the best !

I know we may never meet but the best l can do is also wish you the best through life's journey.

LIKE SERIOUSLY NO 21
OP YOU KNOW WHAT JUST BUY HIJAB FOR YOUR WIFE LET HER COVER FROM HEAD TO TOE INCLUDING HER FACE AND PASTE ON HER FORHEAD
BAASHIGA AND MAKE SURE SHE DOSENT USE ANY PHONE OR GADGET ALSO DRIVE HER ROUND TO WHEREVER SHE WANTS TO GO

ANUOHIA

Pavore9:


I know we may never meet but the best l can do is also wish you the best through life's journey.

lol , thank you . Wish ur hustle luck in kenya .

Greedgod:

lol , thank you . Wish ur hustle luck in kenya .

Asante sana!