nijaomegacode:
There is this girl at my church. We are in the choir unit together. She appears to like me as she always smiles at me and will move closer to me whenever we are talking. I am 25 and she's 17 and we kinda have a platonic relationship. Three days ago I gave her some money and she appreciated it. She even told her parents about it. That day I invited her to my house but she didn't come. When I asked why, she said she fell ill. I decided to invite her again and she came yesterday. We talked a lot and I told her I really like her. Her reply was that she is seeing someone. I said no problem we can be friends. To this she agreed. I tried to entertain her with drinks and some snacks but she refused saying she doesn't take things from just anybody. I made her understand that I am not doing this because I want her to say yes to me but as a friend. Still she refused. She stayed without saying anything or eating anything for almost 2hrs. Finally, she left after I asked if she has anything to do at home which she said she has to cook for her brothers as their mom is not at home.
The problem now is, today I sent some money to her (through her younger brother) because she told me she will be going to camp tomorrow. To my surprise she returned the money saying she did not ask me for it. I am confused. Is she playing hard to get or she is not just interested in me? Pls your advice will really help me because I love this girl and I will like to marry her.

nijaomegacode:
There is this girl at my church. We are in the choir unit together. She appears to like me as she always smiles at me and will move closer to me whenever we are talking. I am 25 and she's 17 and we kinda have a platonic relationship. Three days ago I gave her some money and she appreciated it. She even told her parents about it. That day I invited her to my house but she didn't come. When I asked why, she said she fell ill. I decided to invite her again and she came yesterday. We talked a lot and I told her I really like her. Her reply was that she is seeing someone. [size=15pt]I said no problem we can be friends[/size]To this she agreed. I tried to entertain her with drinks and some snacks but she refused saying she doesn't take things from just anybody. I made her understand that I am not doing this because I want her to say yes to me but as a friend. Still she refused. She stayed without saying anything or eating anything for almost 2hrs. Finally, she left after I asked if she has anything to do at home which she said she has to cook for her brothers as their mom is not at home.
The problem now is, today I sent some money to her (through her younger brother) because she told me she will be going to camp tomorrow. To my surprise she returned the money saying she did not ask me for it. I am confused. Is she playing hard to get or she is not just interested in me? Pls your advice will really help me because I love this girl and I will like to marry her.

Rexhenrex:
Chairman come forward place u hand on your head,now rebuke every evil woman using ur brain as firewood in the village....
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Oga u don't need advice its help you need....As i saw ur age and hers i barely could control my self from saying sometin rude,bros she is a child go find someone else you are like an uncle to her biko the are girls from the range of 23 to 20 that will love you....**leave that child alone**

Akanbibabatunde:
Foolish boi! Stupid in love [url][/url]

2SWT:
Stupidinlove I think you know this guy



Oga park well, that girl is underage don't look at her appearance and forget the age....her dad can still arrest you if you touch her.



Wait o did you just say you both are in the choir unit? So when people were singing you were eyeing her..bros bros

steppin:
She doesn't take things from just anybody, but she took your money. Hahahaha! To slap you dey hungry me.

bunmiano:
ALL OF THE ABOVE

bbmpin:
No comment!

nijaomegacode:


Is it my fault?

Xiadnat:
Am i the only one who noted she is 17?!

Let her grow up first to find herself.

Guy!!! You are trying to date a baby. Shame.

Pick on someone your size. Geez


The double standard is nauseating.


If it were a girl 25 raising the same question for 17 year old boy, all the male idiot perverts and toothless dogs will come barking.


You know who you are....dont bother quoting me cause i aint gats time for trading words and wont likely read your jargon.

nijaomegacode:



Yes o. I just keep receiving green light from her then. She locks eyes with me, she smiles at my direction a lot and most times she gives me this 'come hold me' eyes. Its killing me. I do not know why she reject the money and say the things she said

tellwisdom:
Mugu, keep giving her money while your mom is in the village buying satchet milk instead of TIN

nijaomegacode:
There is this girl at my church. We are in the choir unit together. She appears to like me as she always smiles at me and will move closer to me whenever we are talking. I am 25 and she's 17 and we kinda have a platonic relationship. Three days ago I gave her some money and she appreciated it. She even told her parents about it. That day I invited her to my house but she didn't come. When I asked why, she said she fell ill. I decided to invite her again and she came yesterday. We talked a lot and I told her I really like her. Her reply was that she is seeing someone. I said no problem we can be friends. To this she agreed. I tried to entertain her with drinks and some snacks but she refused saying she doesn't take things from just anybody. I made her understand that I am not doing this because I want her to say yes to me but as a friend. Still she refused. She stayed without saying anything or eating anything for almost 2hrs. Finally, she left after I asked if she has anything to do at home which she said she has to cook for her brothers as their mom is not at home.
The problem now is, today I sent some money to her (through her younger brother) because she told me she will be going to camp tomorrow. To my surprise she returned the money saying she did not ask me for it. I am confused. Is she playing hard to get or she is not just interested in me? Pls your advice will really help me because I love this girl and I will like to marry her.