menxer:
Sex is pleasurable.

Forget that legal thing, animals enjoy/engage in sex but doesn't need legal injunction to do it, right?

skillful01:
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but op how the hell did you know its over-rated if you did not try it.


i'll try sex soon so i can know why it's over-rated.



T34M VIRGIN

JuanDeDios:
I agree the sexual act is overrated, but you have it upside down. You can't tell people what is pleasurable to them - they decide that for themselves. On the question of why people go through so much and risk so much just for sex, that is just nature. Like I said in another thread, sex is energy-sapping, laborious and quite messy, yet we keep going back for a fix for some reason. That is nature. Once you get your fix you feel satisfied but in a few moments, you start to crave it again. If it was not meant that way, many men would spend all their energy chasing money and would not have time for sex and the human race would have been wiped out long ago. On your view that anyone needs a piece of paper to engage in sex, no, they don't. If you want to preach religion, preach religion, but don't couch it in pseudophilosophy and pretend you are talking reason. There are things more important than a piece of paper - like love and commitment. Even those who chose to engage in casual sex, we can't really stop them now, can we?

Vick4rill:
i did not disagree with fac that sex is pleasura but is it worth the stress and sacrifice, the people i mention above put into it?

Vick4rill:
juandedios i dont agree with the above assertion, that taking uneccessary risk and jeoperdising ones future and matrimonial home is as a result of nature. just like i said before, the feelings associated with sex have alot to do with perception. this show the more you think abt sex and pay attention to it, the more likely the urge will develop.nobody is giving anybody rules on how to live their life. i am only giving my own opinion on how i think most of this repercussions could be averted. After all most of the people i mention above , in one way or the other letter regret their actions.And dont you think is a big dishonesty to attribute and justify wat can easily be averted by self control to nature?

JuanDeDios:

On that score, the core of my argument was that the human race would cease to exist if nature (or God, if you like) had not made sex what it is, that is, as something people would get mad about. The rest of your argument is just religious preachment couched in false garbs of reason. What are they jeopardising? You think you can stop people thinking about sex through a Nairaland post? And what do you want to "avert", evil sex?

Vick4rill:
you have comprehension issues. if you have personal beef with religion pls keep it to yourself and stop saying rubbish! where in my post did i try stopping people frm thinking about sex. the fact still remains that illicit sex can be stop by applying self control. not believing In God or religion have nothing to do with this one. cause the repercussions are very clear and can only be averted by the use of common sense.

Raine80:
Sex is not just about the physical act ..it's about intimacy, communication,emotion and passion now if those are missing no wonder you have that point of view

Vick4rill:
i did not disagree with fac that sex is pleasura but is it worth the stress and sacrifice, the people i mention above put into it?

Splinz:
Sex overhpyed is done by some miscreants that ordinarily shouldn't be granted the previledge of tasting this ecstasy for the reserved.

They are nothing but nuisance to conjugal rights.

mukhcech:


The content of the thread you comprehend not. You claim sex isn't just about the physical act. So why do people patronize sex workers? Cmon sex is highly overrated.!!

Raine80:
Sex is not just about the physical act ..it's about intimacy, communication,emotion and passion now if those are missing no wonder you have that point of view

Vick4rill:
i did not disagree with fac that sex is pleasura but is it worth the stress and sacrifice, the people i mention above put into it?

mukhcech:


Many women knows this as a reality. They would rather prefer this to remain top secret so that they can keep exploiting men both in and outside of marriage. If at all it is possible for most men to realise this...The sex workers industry would greatly be affected,

Vick4rill:
But honestly if you observe what many youth and married men put at risk just to have sex, you end up imagining if those effort are really worth it.so many men have sacrifice their career, wealth, reputations and progress in the altar of having 15mins pleasure. many bachelors after all the struggling and hustling end up wasting the money to numerous girls and women, just because they are after sex. some gals have ruin their reputation all in the name of sex. many homes have been broken,job loss and dreams shattered, just because of sex.