Rules for love.

1. When it arrives, cherish it.

2. Whatever you accept, you will get.

3. Understand that love is a mirror—it will show us who we are if we allow it to.

4. Only we can make ourselves happy, it is not the other person’s responsibility.

5. Don’t say words with the intent to hurt.

6. Accept and forgive easily.

7. Don’t be scared to disagree, it is healthy.

8. Never be too busy for each other.

9. Do not punish.

10. Accept honest criticism, it is good for us.

11. Admit when you are wrong, quickly.

12. Support each other when the going gets tough.

13. Live in the moment—be present.

14. Leave the past where it belongs.

15. Leave drama out of it.

16. Don’t try to control.

17. Allow a small amount of jealousy.

18. Don’t use comparisons.

19. Celebrate differences.

20. Communicate openly and honestly.

21. Listen very carefully.

22. Don’t judge.

23. Don’t manipulate to get results.

24. Learn and grow.

25. Don’t try to change each other.

26. Don’t condemn each other’s family and friends.

27. Lines, flaws and imperfections are beautiful.

28. Trust your instincts, but don’t be paranoid.

29. Don’t compromise your morals and values and don’t expect them to either.

30. Instead of power, aim for balance.


Credit: http://ikengachronicles.com/55-rules-for-love/

There many Love teachers around the world,
Love lectures are every day said on
On internet, social media, movies, books,music ,social gatherings, among peers.etc

even on
Nairaland
But still yet marriages are every day breaking away ,also do relationship ,even among nairalanders.
why is it so?is cos people don't understand this lectures
Or the lectures are untrue and baseless?

If you do all these things to a Nigerian girl just be sure of heart break, as in as if your heart fell from 50 storey building.

I dint even read cos I knw it will b a waste of time.. All these things don't work for naija girls.