Nutase:
Abet someone should remind me of that Nike's popular saying.

NIKE is a Yoruba neighborh of mine, and she hasn't said anything of recent.

Chukazu:


NIKE is a Yoruba neighborh of mine, and she hasn't said anything of recent.

Gbam!

do not go to any white garment church if u dont want any priest to bang u

nnachukz:

My dear you are okay. Don't go for any deliverance to avoid being used by the same person who is meant to deliver you.

Take this part of the advice very seriously!

I read some peoples comment and am like, are you human at all.

why does this person feel so much like my ex. well, I'd simply advice you to either have the sex and kill the curiosity or try to contain it like the way you have always done that. the op feels so so like my ex.

SEXUAL URGE IS A GIFT FROM GOD, ONLY GOD CAN SATISFY THIS DESIRE "...He has also PLANTED eternity [a sense of divine purpose] in the human heart [a MYSTERIOUS LONGING which NOTHING under the SUN can SATISFY, except GOD]" {Eccl 3:11}. SEXUAL URGE is a SPIRITUAL DESIRE WHICH CANNOT BE SATISFIED WITH PHYSICAL OBJECTS, there is no amount of sexual organs or sexual intercourse that can satisfy this desire INSIDE YOU ONLY GOD hence you need to FILL YOURSELF WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT THROUGH BELIEVE IN JESUS CHRIST "But I say, BE-FILLED CONSISTENTLY WITH the [HOLY] SPIRIT [SEEK HIM and be RESPONSIVE to HIS GUIDANCE], and then YOU will CERTAINLY NOT CARRY out the DESIRE of the SINFUL NATURE [which RESPONDS IMPULSIVELY without REGARD for GOD and HIS PRECEPTS]" (Gal. 5:16) thus PRAY "I THANK YOU THE GOD AND FATHER OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST BECAUSE I BELIEVE YOU HAVE BLESSED ME WITH ALL THE SPIRITUAL BLESSINGS IN THE HEAVENLY PLACES in CHRIST{Eph.1:3} THROUGH THE FINISHED WORKS OF JESUS CHRIST {"IT IS FINISHED/MANIFESTED" Jn.19:30} hence I BELIEVE I AM FILLED WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT SEXUAL URGE SATISFACTION IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST. AMEN. "...Whatever you DECREE on EARTH IS ESTABLISHED IN HEAVEN..." [Mtt.18:18]. Continue to MAKE THIS PRAYER IN YOUR HEART, MIND AND SPIRIT EVERY PASSING SECOND OF YOUR LIFE whether you think you NEED IT, you are ABOVE THE SIN OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY NOW OR YOU are not facing the TEMPTATION NOW even on BEHALF OF YOUR LOVED ONES OR THE SEXUALLY IMMORAL IN THE SOCIETY because EVERY MAN/WOMAN HAS SEXUAL URGE and this PRAYER SAID NOW WILL ACT AS A WALL OF FIRE TO PROTECT YOU when the devil tempts us with ANY KIND OF SEXUAL IMMORAL SINS.

It's normal. Your hormones are simply raging furiously.
Simply focus your mind into somethingelse that gives u joy and excitement.
It's all in the mind and you have the power to control it.

Dear Duchess500,the desire for sexual intimacy you have been experiencing in the past 2weeks is normal like others have said. It's your hormones at play. Of course the materials(books,movies, peers etc) you feed your mind of late could equally account for the surge.
As an adolescent your in a phase of self discovery. You are transiting from childhood into adulthood. This is a critical phase in your development. Unfortunately, your mum like most Nigerian mothers is oblivious of this fact. Hence, her spiritualization of a normal process. You don't need deliverance. You need to speak with someone with the requisite knowledge on adolescent sexual health.

The sexual urge is the strongest of all urges.it has made slaves out of kings. It's has elevated common men into seats of honor. It's a matter of mastery. You may have to review your associations if there has been a significant change. You may equally screen what you feed your mind.

Finally, as a young adult your future should be paramount. Impress on your mind that you will not engage in anything that can mortgage your bright future. Always remember feelings come and go. Feelings are deceptive. You have at your disposal the WILLPOWER to say No! Exercise it. Merry Xmas.

Jerrylolo:
I Iive At Ikorodu, No 9 Alhaji Thompson Street Ijede Road,come To Me And I Wil Make U Whole Again

Nigga ur crazy meeeeeeeenn....

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

Just because of URGE.
Your MUM wants to take u to the white garment church.
IF u start having SEXX in Dreams , where will she take u to....??
I used to think that WISDOM comes with Aging.
But Women proved me wrong.

Is it not the same white garment churches that get ladies pregnant..??

Once u visit that white garment place, u'll have your self to blâme because your issue will be doubled. U'll not only feel-like, but will be enjoying it with an assignéd demon. You better follow d doctor's advise because It is normal at your stage coupled with the level of hormonal sécrétion of your body système. It's not even a problem.

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It is normal at your age,but if your libido is naturally high,you can't do without masturbation,but you should try and keep your mind off sex,read your books,make yourself occupied, don't have a boyfriend that is romantic.....

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

Your mum is right,you need deliverance and I own a white garment church in my house too,you can call me on 08182106124 so that I can organise the deliverance for you

If you step into any church in the name of deliverance, you will definitely lose your virginity there.

Sexual urge is normal. You are just 18, that's why it looks new to you. As you grow older, you will come to the realization that it is normal.

Selfcontrol is key here. Just like anger which is normal, but what you do when you are angry is what matters.

Stay off sex related materials that trigger sexual feelings.
Stay away from masturbation, it is never the solution. Masturbation will only make it worse.

Stop watching porn video or explicit image or music, because u can't jst get urge if you ar meditating in the things that wil build you spiritually, you can only get urge by the things you see, hear or read, so be mindfull of what you watch and the type of friend you associate your self with.

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

u need early marriage for u not to commit fornication

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

just avoid been lonely. hang around with good friends

dukeolumde:



Nigga ur crazy meeeeeeeenn....

baba shey i lie ni

18yrs and dem never puncture you yet.. Naija guys don dey repent be that

you're okay, just choose your steps carefully as it can affect so many things later

WHITE GARMENT CHURCH? From frying pan to fire.

Nutase:
Abet someone should remind me of that Nike's popular saying.

Just do it

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

You have shown leadership by asking questions while your mates are busy having sex. Whether at 18,25 or 50, there comes a time when you will feel the urge to have sex but won`t be able to. It might be because your partner is not around or he is too busy for it. So the urge to have sex is perfectly normal at any point in time.
You will agree with me that no-one can love you more than your mum, but she is not perfect. You would have to show more leadership on this issue because religion can`t stop anyone from feeling the urge for sex. The person she is taking you to is likely to rape you in the name of his Jesus
Think about whatever you enjoy doing most and do it when the urge for sex comes knocking. Also think of the bigger picture that has made it possible for you to remain virgin at 18 when most of your mates have been having sex ages ago. Think of the dignity that comes with having your first sex with the person you love, at a time of your choosing.
As I have said earlier, even after marriage, you are still going to find yourself in a situation where you would not be able to satisfy the urge to have sex, due to one reason or the other. If your hubby is on course abroad, what you are feeling now is close to what you would be feeling then, if not worse. So see your today as a reflection of what life is all about. Take your time, don`t rush so as not to end up with broken guys with the fake promise of making you whole. Good luck!

@OPduchess, if u are dat desperate try YOGA! it can be sexually liberating so dey say.

Why do you people talk like this? Do you know her personally. If you saw her on the road, would you be able to deduce she posted this. She doesn't even have a picture up. There is nothing sensitive about it. NL is a forum where people post all sort of questions asking for advice. If you think this is lewd, go to the hidden sexuality section.

Even on yahoo answers, people asks sucvh questions. Please and please, stop being unnecessarily mean.

tripplephi:
this is too sensitive-a-matter to come here seeking advice from peeps who do not really know you or bloody care..... YOUR MUM MAY NOT UNDERSTAND BUT ITS BEST YOU SEE A PSYCHIATRIST to help you gain MIND control over your hormonal issues.
BE WISE, ITS NOT EVERY ISSUE YOU SHOULD BRING TO THE PUBLIC.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO STAY A VIRGIN.. KNOW HOW TO KEEP BOTH YOUR LEGS N MOUTH SHUT. ONLY OPEN YOUR MOUTH FOR TRAINED COUNSELORS/ HEALTH GUIDES

Real advice: when I was 18, my sexual urge was above the roof. I wanted to have a child so bad between 18 to 20. It's very normal. You're entering your most fertile years as a female. I didn't go to any doctor or therapists for this. I overcame it with time.

I want to believe you are idle that's why it gets to you a lot. If you involve yourself in a lot of stuffs and not just stay at home, in your room all day, you wouldn't even remember the sexual urge except you are alone. Trust me. Been there, done that.

Duchess500:
I have not had sex before but for the past two months, I have been having this serious urge to do it! It happens atleast twice every week! I confided in our family doctor who said it was normal and gave some medical explanations to it! But for some reasons, I decided to tell my mum who has been insisting on taking me to a white garment church for deliverance! I'm so scared right now! I don't know if I should follow my mum there tommorrow or go with what our doctor said!...I'm 18yrs old
Pls I need your candid opinion. Thanks

Cc: lalasticlala
Cc: seun

Nutase:
Abet someone should remind me of that Nike's popular saying.

Ah ah aunty the Virginia will suffer o

Some one said yoga works!

tripplephi:
this is too sensitive-a-matter to come here seeking advice from peeps who do not really know you or bloody care..... YOUR MUM MAY NOT UNDERSTAND BUT ITS BEST YOU SEE A PSYCHIATRIST to help you gain MIND control over your hormonal issues.
BE WISE, ITS NOT EVERY ISSUE YOU SHOULD BRING TO THE PUBLIC.... IF YOU REALLY WANT TO STAY A VIRGIN.. KNOW HOW TO KEEP BOTH YOUR LEGS N MOUTH SHUT. ONLY OPEN YOUR MOUTH FOR TRAINED COUNSELORS/ HEALTH GUIDES

Good advice

nnachukz:
It is normal, absolutely normal. But check what you preoccupy your mind with, the movies and books you read, including the type of discussions you engage with your friends. Those could have a link to the thought resurfacing regularly. My dear you are okay. Don't go for any deliverance to avoid being used by the same person who is meant to deliver you.

You said it all. Nothing but the truth

popefuse:
Sexual urge is an inheritant every body gain.including the animals.it an urge inbuilt,it one of the reasons we get married,actualy it stat from age 13 scientificaly. No need for delliverance, it a good thing to have that, and it can appears any time even in church.the only medicine for it is determination and self control,it doent kill. It will come and go. Stay safe

May your generation be blessed. You said the truth