It’s funny how often “forever” seems to never last.

We all make promises, of course. We tell people we love them, we care for them, we could never live without them, but most of the time it turns out to be nothing more than empty, wishful thinking.

Yet, we need to make these sorts of promises. People need to feel a level of security in their relationship in order to be happy – it’s human nature. But are we ever really secure?

There are a hundred ways to lose the one you love, to get your heart broken; however, none are worse than getting cheated on. Cheating is something I never condoned nor, to be honest, understood.

If you don’t care enough for the person you claim to love to keep it in your pants, then you may need to rethink how much you actually care about him or her.

Don’t give me any of that “I have needs” crap; we all have needs. The person you’re with has needs – he or she needs you to be loyal.

Being cheated on is arguably the worst feeling in the world, emotionally speaking of course. It can be detrimental. I was cheated on once in my life – that I know of – and it’s not an experience I’m eager to repeat.

If the person you’re in love with cheats on you… words can barely do the pain justice. But I’m going to do my best and try anyway.

At first, you don’t want to believe what you’re hearing.

Most people find out their partner cheated or has been cheating on them from a third-party source. Rarely do people have the courage to own up to their actions and be the ones to tell their partners what they did.

Most often, you’re never actually meant to find out. Most cheaters are chronic cheaters – this is why we have the saying, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

While this is a bit too broad to be true in every case, the fact is many of those who cheat do so because they believe it’s OK to do so. So they do it regularly.

Chronic cheaters will never be the ones to own up to what they did, so hearing it from your friends can be… difficult. You’re likely to not even believe them in the first place, trying to rationalize with yourself, thinking that they must – for whatever reason – be trying to sabotage your relationship.

When I was cheated on, I didn’t find out from friends. I heard it directly from the source. And you know what? It was still hard for me to believe.

I just didn’t want to accept what had happened because as soon as you accept it, it becomes real. And once it becomes real, so does the pain.

Your world, as you knew it, crumbles.

The ground beneath your feet begins to fall away into the abyss, and you’re left with nothing to hold on to.

It’s one thing if someone you’re casually or semi-formally dating cheats on you, and it’s another when the man or woman you love decides you are no longer good enough for him or her.

Because that’s what it means, doesn’t it? You loved this person with all your heart, and it turns out that you were only being delusional. The reality that you created for yourself has vanished in an instant, and you feel completely and utterly lost.

Your entire future has just been rewritten – and you now have no idea how the book is going to end. That’s the worst part of being cheated on.

It’s not necessarily that your ego gets hurt and bruised that rocks your world; It’s that the entire future you planned for yourself disappears, and you don’t know where to go from here.

Your ego gets hurt, and you begin to question yourself.

You begin to wonder if you are as great of a catch as you thought you were. You thought you were smart, good looking, caring, loving, a great pick for a life partner.

But then the person you loved, the person you decided to dedicate yourself to, throws you to the side of the road as if you were garbage.

Having someone dump you is one thing. Sometimes things just don’t work out, and you have no choice but to accept the situation as it is. But getting cheated on is different. Getting cheated on is a clear message saying you are the problem – that you just

Same feelings when you hit your finger with hammer, You let yourself vulnerable to hurt when you chose to fall in love

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policy12:

It’s funny how often “forever” seems to never last.

We all make promises, of course. We tell people we love them, we care for them, we could never live without them, but most of the time it turns out to be nothing more than empty, wishful thinking.

Yet, we need to make these sorts of promises. People need to feel a level of security in their relationship in order to be happy – it’s human nature. But are we ever really secure?

There are a hundred ways to lose the one you love, to get your heart broken; however, none are worse than getting cheated on. Cheating is something I never condoned nor, to be honest, understood.

If you don’t care enough for the person you claim to love to keep it in your pants, then you may need to rethink how much you actually care about him or her.

Don’t give me any of that “I have needs” crap; we all have needs. The person you’re with has needs – he or she needs you to be loyal.

Being cheated on is arguably the worst feeling in the world, emotionally speaking of course. It can be detrimental. I was cheated on once in my life – that I know of – and it’s not an experience I’m eager to repeat.

If the person you’re in love with cheats on you… words can barely do the pain justice. But I’m going to do my best and try anyway.

At first, you don’t want to believe what you’re hearing.

Most people find out their partner cheated or has been cheating on them from a third-party source. Rarely do people have the courage to own up to their actions and be the ones to tell their partners what they did.

Most often, you’re never actually meant to find out. Most cheaters are chronic cheaters – this is why we have the saying, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

While this is a bit too broad to be true in every case, the fact is many of those who cheat do so because they believe it’s OK to do so. So they do it regularly.

Chronic cheaters will never be the ones to own up to what they did, so hearing it from your friends can be… difficult. You’re likely to not even believe them in the first place, trying to rationalize with yourself, thinking that they must – for whatever reason – be trying to sabotage your relationship.

When I was cheated on, I didn’t find out from friends. I heard it directly from the source. And you know what? It was still hard for me to believe.

I just didn’t want to accept what had happened because as soon as you accept it, it becomes real. And once it becomes real, so does the pain.

Your world, as you knew it, crumbles.

The ground beneath your feet begins to fall away into the abyss, and you’re left with nothing to hold on to.

It’s one thing if someone you’re casually or semi-formally dating cheats on you, and it’s another when the man or woman you love decides you are no longer good enough for him or her.

Because that’s what it means, doesn’t it? You loved this person with all your heart, and it turns out that you were only being delusional. The reality that you created for yourself has vanished in an instant, and you feel completely and utterly lost.

Your entire future has just been rewritten – and you now have no idea how the book is going to end. That’s the worst part of being cheated on.

It’s not necessarily that your ego gets hurt and bruised that rocks your world; It’s that the entire future you planned for yourself disappears, and you don’t know where to go from here.

Your ego gets hurt, and you begin to question yourself.

You begin to wonder if you are as great of a catch as you thought you were. You thought you were smart, good looking, caring, loving, a great pick for a life partner.

But then the person you loved, the person you decided to dedicate yourself to, throws you to the side of the road as if you were garbage.

Having someone dump you is one thing. Sometimes things just don’t work out, and you have no choice but to accept the situation as it is. But getting cheated on is different. Getting cheated on is a clear message saying you are the problem – that you just

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have you ever heard of the word "encapsulate"?

darkmarky:
have you ever heard of the word "encapsulate"?

Yea...



To put am for capsule

Alondra:
Same feelings when you hit your finger with hammer, You let yourself vulnerable to hurt when you chose to fall in love

Is falling in love a thing of choice??

Stop falling in love. Start falling in money

Nothing but sadness.. ND sadness ND sadness coupled with surges of pain from d Heart..... Never felt it doh

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dingbang:
Stop falling in love. Start falling in money

I won't b surprised if u are d loveydovey type

Its a turn off, more reason I wish to settle with a loyal girl.

Nma27:
I won't b surprised if u are d loveydovey type

of course I am d lovey dove type, I can be d most caring guy u will ever encounter on earth, but sister, love won't pay bills. Hustle will... Need to dedicate the whole year to it.

Bluezy13:



Is falling in love a thing of choice??

Allowing yourself to stay in love is a thing of choice

Bluezy13:

Yea...



To put am for capsule

This person sick ooo...

He needs capsule...and GAS!

dingbang:
of course I am d lovey dove type, I can be d most caring guy u will ever encounter on earth, but sister, love won't pay bills. Hustle will... Need to dedicate the whole year to it.

What next after dedicating the whole year to it?

JoshuaSamuraiX:


That sudden heat in your stomach when you forget your phone in a commercial bus or that feeling when you wrote an exam and forgot to write your name on the answer shéet.

lol... What hurts more when you your chicken escaped on Xmas day

decatalyst:

This person sick ooo...
He needs capsule...and GAS!

Hehehe...


Funny picture

Alondra:
Allowing yourself to stay in love is a thing of choice

Falling in love differs from staying in love.

Is falling in love a thing of choice??

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JoshuaSamuraiX:


Painful, especially if you have bought oil to fry it and pepper to cook and Rice is already set on fire It can pain!

Some things really hurt

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Nma27:
What next after dedicating the whole year to it?

settle down and get married

dingbang:
settle down and get married

Good one... All the best.