nkemma54:
i swear u get sense. not like d mofo i just quoted earlier

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

dollyjoy:
I think you should man up and tell him how you feel,if you can't then please allow sleeping dog lie.


About the phone he bought I don't think that should be a cause to worry about. You are a man, take care of your responsibilities abegi.

Adekunleideology:
Oga your story is incoherent... How does bad luck comes into what she has done.. Op get brain !

curvilicious:
I feel ur pain bro it was like when my late bro drove everyone including last born if 10yrs out of d house because of his olosho wife who later planned wt his best friend and duped my bro of 14m in 2009 and he died of heart attack.

Talk to and pray for ur bro or else una suffer just began

cococandy:
Your brother should not have punched your sister no matter what.
That's unacceptable and she should report him to maybe your uncle or elders in your family so that they will sanction him.

As the rest of the matter, you guys mind your business and let him love his girlfriend the way he likes. I can't even see what she did wrong in your post. She cooked with a seasoning you didn't like? She woke up at 7:00am? Your brother ate something he doesn't normally eat because she made it? He gave her a phone? Where's the offense in any of that?

People please. Stop complicating simple matters because of your bias. That girl has done nothing to you guys. You just don't like her because you feel your brother won't be spending as much on you as he used to.
So maybe you people are the gold diggers here. Not her.

jagugu88li:
Firstly, a house with strict rules knows never to invite a girlfriend to stay in, never. Fiancées and wives do that, period.

Your brother knows her girlfriend wakes up at 11am, given that different households have different rules. He should gave conveyed yours to her.

She is a little forward sef coz I don't know why she'll stay a week at a boyfriends' family house, let alone cooking for the family

My uncle eat scones all of a sudden as a nice gesture to his new wife. Who am I to complain

Your brother is not complaining, so instead of you complaining, simply charm your partner too and stay out of their business.

Lastly, stop competing with his girlfriend

Bluezy13:
Schedule a family meeting...for the three of you and iron things out.
Be mature as regards the matters you table and the matters you swallow.
If possible invite an Elder in the family...but that should come after you must have tried the first meeting.

That girl is a golddigger, love should go to hell! They ain't married yet. Family comes first before girlfriend

curvilicious:
I feel ur pain bro it was like when my late bro drove everyone including last born if 10yrs out of d house because of his olosho wife who later planned wt his best friend and duped my bro of 14m in 2009 and he died of heart attack.

Talk to and pray for ur bro or else una suffer just began

ebonflexy:


Abi O. And the funny OP is thinking his brother should first buy him a new phone before he buys for his babe.
I'm a guy, but OP sounds like the kind of in-law I wouldn't want around the house if I were a woman.

Tritri:



Are you for real? Didnt your brother sue his best friend to court ?

epobot:




Are you a man or a woman? secondly, how old are u? Also pple do crazy things for love esp guys,so dont be too shocked. Happy holidays..pray for ur brother and try 2 be friends with his woman

Tritri:



Are you for real? Didnt your brother sue his best friend to court ?

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

Pidgin2:
Everything will be solved if you all learn to mind your business

Freak101:
Op is a girl uncle and why shouldnt be buy me a phone before he gets his girl a phone??am I not his sibling?or was it not I and my sister our mother left for him before going??why's he my elder brother rif he cannot cater for my needs?

curvilicious:



I'm not kidding he died of shock
We couldn't Sue on his behalf

Tritri:



What a Wicked world...Why not explaine how it all started if we all might learn something from for future.

Pidgin2:
Everything will be solved if you all learn to mind your business

fkdmods:


Na you dem suppose to de fear pass. Why una be like this na? So, if someone come tell you say dem jazz am na so you go open your mouth de talk nonsense. Na people like you de go the so called babalawo house. Upon all the useless jazz wey una believe in, how that one take improve una lives? When it comes to bad thing na jazz, but when una de look for development una go run towards science. Can't you people think like normal people for God's sake?

Benita27:
Are you sure?.