I see most ladies do this and sometimes it puzzles me.They start living with a man who is not married to them and they claim is their fiance or whatever. As for me i dont think this is right until the man pays her bride price then she is free to leave with the man.Pls i need your contributions,i maybe wrong or right about my perspective towards this issue, thank you

I think is not right, but can we resist it?

Oh pls . . not cohabitation again! *yaaaaaaaaawns*

wrong!!!!!!!

@ Poster, what if it goes wrong and they do not marry in the end, a dangerous road to walk.

poster, its until u come out of the 20th century n move to the 21st century, u will understand

No, of what value is a woman leaving with a man that has not paid her bride price, in some cases the man will end up not getting married to the woman.

So ladies do the needful.

@ poster
wait o, na topic be this?

who knws whether the poster is even typing frm her boyfriend's house sef
make una no come here come dey form abegi

before my bf and I became couples, we were best buddies and housemate. Now that we are couples, we got so use to it living in the same house with each other. We still have our own seperate rooms though

i don't think its good either

I think its ok, it makes both of u to really know each other weel b4 the d day comes.

but it blocks the guys runs since the only babe is at home most of the time.

65% support sha

they should know the canoe they are paddling.

it is very wrong

it is wrong and i dont support it

@ post

it is wrong.

however, the lady can spend the night occassionally, stay all weekend and also spend short vacations with the guy

It happens! All over the world lovers live together. You can never really know someone well enough until you both live together. That way if you don't like the new things you learn about him, you can back out of the wedding.

funkybaby:

@ post

it is wrong.

however, the lady can spend the night occassionally, stay all weekend and also spend short vacations with the guy

that does'nt make any sense, if you spend the night with him, or stay with him during vacations, then what difference does it make why not just move in together?

fornication is fornication

@ poster
if you are religious and is following the verse in the bible/koran or whatever book your religion uses, that says no sex till marriage then you know yah answer

it is wrong,really wrong.because if u start living with d guy,he might not marry u again,because he as seen everything about u,and he will want someone else