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Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:11pm On Jan 02, 2017
Now, this is a brand new year and we all know the psychological feeling it comes with. We feel as though we've been given a fresh slate to write our fate on. But our mindset goes a long way in determining what we become and the results we get. So, for me, these are things I feel we should take cognizance of and effect changes in...

*. It's just about time girls stopped seeing guys as their money bag! Hustle! We have more successful men simply because they know from the get-go that they have to be successful otherwise no one would look after them. But most girls just seem to think there'd always be a man to take care of them till they wither and die. Don't date a man because he's an extra source of income. I'd rather you even date a man just because you want to f*ck him. But ideally, date a man only because you care about him, because you want a possible future with him!

* Quit Following the Crowd. This goes out to the girls, too. You know you're a broke ass, why you going to ridiculous means to keep up with trends and look all flashy? You're just a fool. Learn to live below your means (if you ever want to get rich and stay rich). Yes. Better that way. Otherwise, live according to your means ,but never above your means.

*Develop Virtues and Core Values. Is there any tinge of morality in you? Is there any commendable positive thing about you for which you can beat your chest? How are you different from the lot of girls we see around? By what principles do you live your daily life?

*. Everything in a relationship should be mutual and not one-sided.

*.Think about Making it in Life. Think about legitimate and decent hustles! You can be rich, too!

* Stop acting as though you competing with every fellow girl you see.

*.If you find a man who's ideal for you, hold him close and never let him go!

* Don't be in a hurry to screw any man. Honestly, I beg you. Abstain! But if you must, then give it time.

* Find your God!

Add yours...
Re: Mindset Modifications by Olami90: 10:12pm On Jan 02, 2017
I won't have said it better. You covered all.

I think there is a lil hope on nairaland girls now with what I have seen from you one other moniker 2days ago.

We need more of you, not the dull heads that argues blindly and always justify their gold-digging prowess.


God bless you quin.....
(Loving you already) wink
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 02, 2017
cheesy


Did you type this all on your own or all by yourself??


Wow.. I'm impressed..


It's not everyday you see a female who has this kind of rigging upstairs..

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Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:14pm On Jan 02, 2017
Well said smiley smiley
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jan 02, 2017
Hmmmmmm nice copy and paste tho. Keep it up !
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:18pm On Jan 02, 2017
truthsayer007:
Hmmmmmm nice copy and paste tho. Keep it up !

Did you mean OP is not the copyright owner of this well-written piece?
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:19pm On Jan 02, 2017
truthsayer007:
Hmmmmmm nice copy and paste tho. Keep it up !

You might as well show me the source It was copied from.

Mindset Modification... Learn to stop putting others down unnecessarily... And without facts.
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jan 02, 2017
Neyoor:


Did you mean OP is not the copyright owner of this well-written piece?

I didn't not say anything o, don't quote me ! lipsrsealed
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:20pm On Jan 02, 2017
Neyoor:


Did you mean OP is not the copyright owner of this well-written piece?

He doesn't know what he's saying.
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jan 02, 2017
truthsayer007:


I didn't not say anything o, don't quote me ! lipsrsealed


Oh! Somnambulists and their ways of life. tongue I understand your plight.

Ciao! tongue

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Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:23pm On Jan 02, 2017
Quintessential1:


He doesn't know what he's saying.


I thought as much cool cool
Re: Mindset Modifications by firstking01(m): 10:24pm On Jan 02, 2017
Hope you didn't write this just to gain traffic?... Anyway, i 'll just applaud you for this write up.
Re: Mindset Modifications by firstking01(m): 10:24pm On Jan 02, 2017
Hope you didn't write this just to gain traffic?... Anyway, i 'll just applaud you for this write up.
Re: Mindset Modifications by Olami90: 10:25pm On Jan 02, 2017
Quintessential1:


You might as well show me the source It was copied from.

Mindset Modification... Learn to stop putting others down unnecessarily... And without facts.


Op don't mind people like this. Bad belle won't allow some be able to defecate again when it get to a time.
No amount of cross over nights service can give some breakthrough.

Ignore and do your things, what is important is the message you want to pass
Re: Mindset Modifications by IamLEGEND1: 10:28pm On Jan 02, 2017
if only you practice what you preach.
but I've given up on that ish a long time ago.
the average naija girl wants you to feed her and her entire family while she fücks other guys on the side. All in the name of not putting all her eggs in a basket.

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Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:28pm On Jan 02, 2017
Olami90:



Op don't mind people like this. Bad belle won't allow some be able to defecate again when it get to a time.
No amount of cross over nights service can give some breakthrough.

Ignore and do your things, what is important is the message you want to pass

Yea. Thanks. smiley
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:30pm On Jan 02, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
if only you practice what you preach.
but I've given up on that ish a long time ago.
the average naija girl wants you to feed her and her entire family while she fücks other guys on the side. All in the name of not putting all her eggs in a basket.

Everyone isn't average... At least not as far as mentality is concerned.

You say you've given up, but I'm pretty sure you intend to get married and to a woman that's worth the trouble. So, dear, Legend, revive the hope.
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:32pm On Jan 02, 2017
firstking01:
Hope you didn't write this just to gain traffic?...
Anyway, i 'll just applaud you for this write up.

And what will I do with the traffic? Do I own Nairaland? I'm simply putting across a heartfelt message in the hope that some people, even if it's just one person would imbibe the lessons.
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:34pm On Jan 02, 2017
Olami90:
I won't have said it better. You covered all.

I think there is a lil hope on nairaland girls now with what I have seen from you one other moniker 2days ago.

We need more of you, not the dull heads that argues blindly and always justify their gold-digging prowess.


God bless you quin.....
(Loving you already) wink

Thanks.
Re: Mindset Modifications by PETRUCE007: 10:36pm On Jan 02, 2017
She blew my mind .... grin grin grin grin

Nice1 OP

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Re: Mindset Modifications by firstking01(m): 10:37pm On Jan 02, 2017
Quintessential1:


And what will I do with the traffic? Do I own Nairaland? I'm simply putting across a heartfelt message in the hope that some people, even if it's just one person would imbibe the lessons.
I thought i applauded you??, well, draws my appreciation back.
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:38pm On Jan 02, 2017
firstking01:
I thought i applauded you??, well, draws my appreciation back.

Lol. Is that how you use to do? grin grin grin
Re: Mindset Modifications by IamLEGEND1: 10:44pm On Jan 02, 2017
Quintessential1:

Everyone isn't average... At least not as far as mentality is concerned.
You say you've given up, but I'm pretty sure you intend to get married and to a woman that's worth the trouble. So, dear, Legend, revive the hope.
Don't you worry about me,brah. I'm getting married for sho'.
just not to a Nigerian girl.
That ship sailed a while ago. we on some exotic shít now.

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Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 02, 2017
Olami90:



Op don't mind people like this. Bad belle won't allow some be able to defecate again when it get to a time.
No amount of cross over nights service can give some breakthrough.

Ignore and do your things, what is important is the message you want to pass

Errrm hollup bro ! I just left the rest room nau & I defecated pretty well. So no issues there smiley

As per the post, copied or not. As far as Nigeria is concerned, ladies always want a man who can and must cater for their needs financial. It is a Nigerian upbringing and societal way of thinking.

If you like talk from now till tomorrow, it doesn't change a thing biko !

Other points were Ok.
Re: Mindset Modifications by firstking01(m): 10:46pm On Jan 02, 2017
Quintessential1:


Lol. Is that how you use to do? grin grin grin
Ehenna, you seem not to thank me...i have people who needs ittongue
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jan 02, 2017
Haven't read a single word. grin
Re: Mindset Modifications by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:51pm On Jan 02, 2017
Let me CUM first wink
Re: Mindset Modifications by Nobody: 10:51pm On Jan 02, 2017
AngelSweetLips:
Haven't read a single word. grin


Lazy to do that or why? undecided
Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:51pm On Jan 02, 2017
IamLEGEND1:
Don't you worry about me,brah. I'm getting married for sho'.
just not to a Nigerian girl.
That ship sailed a while ago. we on some exotic shít now.

Goodluck...
Re: Mindset Modifications by BiafraBushBoy(m): 10:51pm On Jan 02, 2017
AngelSweetLips:
Haven't read a single word. grin

Who your reading epp? undecided
Re: Mindset Modifications by Defaramade(m): 10:52pm On Jan 02, 2017
Op well done

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Re: Mindset Modifications by Quintessential1(f): 10:55pm On Jan 02, 2017
truthsayer007:


Errrm hollup bro ! I just left the rest room nau & I defecated pretty well. So no issues there smiley

As per the post, copied or not. As far as Nigeria is concerned, ladies always want a man who can and must cater for their needs financial. It is a Nigerian upbringing and societal way of thinking.

If you like talk from now till tomorrow, it doesn't change a thing biko !

Other points were Ok.



Yes. It would continue to be a man's position to cater. That's the status quo the world over and not just in Nigeria. But that doesn't mean the woman's got to be wholly dependent on him, so much so that without his provision, she'll be handicapped... Or that she's got nothing to bring to the table, from which her man can benefit.

But wait a minute, would you rather have a woman cater for your needs?

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