firstking01:
Ehenna, you seem not to thank me...i have people who needs it

Thank you

Quintessential1:


Thank you

Still not appreciated, you'd bid it high now with something else

Quintessential1:


And what will I do with the traffic? Do I own Nairaland? I'm simply putting across a heartfelt message in the hope that some people, even if it's just one person would imbibe the lessons.

notice me

jakandeola:
notice me

Whatever for? I'm not you.

firstking01:
Still not appreciated, you'd bid it high now with something else

Lol. Better accept it now that I'm still offering.

Quintessential1:


Yes. It would continue to be a man's position to cater. That's the status quo the world over and not just in Nigeria. But that doesn't mean the woman's got to be wholly dependent on him, so much so that without his provision, she'll be handicapped... Or that she's got nothing to bring to the table, from which her man can benefit.

First off, its not the status quo throughout the world. In most developed countries its 50/50.

Nigerian ladies aren't handicapped without provision, but they want you to do it, Its your role as a BF or Husband. (That's the claim).

She claims she already bringing her body to the table, so what else do you want ?

Quintessential1:
But wait a minute, would you rather have a woman cater for your needs?

Ofcourse not, problem is they see it as their right for you to cater for their needs. And Me i have accepted it, I'm not even complaining lol.

Quintessential1:


Lol. Better accept it now that I'm still offering.

Hehehe, it must be at my order

truthsayer007:


First off, its not the status quo throughout the world. In most developed countries its 50/50.

Nigerian ladies aren't handicapped without provision, but they want you to do it, Its your role as a BF or Husband. (That's the claim).

She claims she already bringing her body to the table, so what else do you want ?



Ofcourse not, problem is they see it as their right for you to cater for their needs. And Me i have accepted it, I'm not even complaining lol.

When you marry a woman, It becomes your responsibility to cater for her and the kids. It's a right, she can demand it, even if she's expected to also bring in her quota.

Quintessential1:


When you marry a woman, It becomes your responsibility to cater for her and the kids. It's a right, she can demand it, even if she's expected to also bring in her quota.

I like the way you just ignored the other points. Awesome

As per marriage, Sure. Its a Man's role. But believe me even as BF, that same thought follows. Ladies will always see guys as their money bags, whether marriage or no marriage. And Note that they don't bring any Quota financially. Na you be my BF so na your work to take care of me. Simple & Short !

truthsayer007:


I like the way you just ignored the other points. Awesome

As per marriage, Sure. Its a Man's role. But believe me even as BF, that same thought follows. Ladies will always see guys as their money bags, whether marriage or no marriage. And Note that they don't bring any Quota financially. Na you be my BF so na your work to take care of me. Simple & Short !

And that's the wrong mindset that needs to be changed...