YO i gt a man but i have never seen him b4,  i'm new on this niaraland thing,  i stay in the Uk nd he stays in nigeria,  i love him 2 bitzzz,  yo nd i set a standard,  he calls,  i dnt,  ok once in a while i call, but he does d callin more,  i did dat so he wudnt take d piss cuz i hate wen pple drop call(flash),  he travels dwn 2 d UK for only summer,  his family is well 2 do, he gt a ten year visa so imigration aint a problem,  but we'v been dating for a month+ nd he's talking marriage,  my friends think he's d one,  wt do u think, wud it work, i'm only 17 btw nd he's 19

Freelyfe:

YO i gt a man but i have never seen him b4,  i'm new on this niaraland thing,  i stay in the Uk nd he stays in nigeria,  i love him 2 bitzzz,  yo nd i set a standard,  he calls,  i dnt,  ok once in a while i call, but he does d callin more,  i did dat so he wudnt take d piss cuz i hate wen pple drop call(flash),  he travels dwn 2 d UK for only summer,  his family is well 2 do, he gt a ten year visa so imigration aint a problem,  but we'v been dating for a month+ nd he's talking marriage,  my friends think he's d one,  wt do u think, wud it work, i'm only 17 btw nd he's 19

Tread carefully

Meaning?

Be careful

@ topic

Una never reach 20. Slow down abeg.

Lool, i knw buh weneva i say suming like oi u just my BF, he just gets moody, like he's even tld his mum nd all sis nd bros bout me, only his father is in d blank, nd he's from d royal family of ijebu or something, my life is movin sooo fast man

Royal family ke?

Freelyfe:

Lool, i knw buh weneva i say suming like oi u just my BF, he just gets moody, like he's even tld his mum nd all sis nd bros bout me, only his father is in d blank, nd he's from d royal family of ijebu or something, my life is movin sooo fast man

How long have you been 'dating'?

Any proof that he is who and what he says he is?

Like I said, tread carefully, plus you're young, be careful.

17? Isn't a bit. . .a lot too young to start thinking marriage?

Lmao @ royal family!

What a brain!.

@Post Marriage?now or later?and wat happened 2 ur education?

Nah aint dem one's dat fuckin lie nd dat, loool, yall think i'm dumb init, buh on teh level, d dad is well known in nigeria, seen his pics up on Fb nd dat, he's kinda not a legit child, break up nd dat,,, he's mum is white nd his parents have been divorced 4 ages, mum nd all other kids r here nd i'm friends wiv his cousin(in uni wiv his sister) nd i proper talk wiv his sister, common word of mouth hardly convinses me, but bk 2 d main issue, do u think if i continue tellin him 2 think within d box, he's gna think i aint intrested?

Education, i am very much in UNI, first year studing law, in uni of birmingham, like ima let sum dickhead take me off my studies, aint no one gt into school so y d hell wud someone distract me, lmfao, never never, school is fine

Only 17? Too young to think about marriage. And to think you haven't met him makes it worse.

Freelyfe:

Nah aint dem one's dat fuckin lie nd dat, loool, yall think i'm dumb init, buh on teh level, d dad is well known in nigeria, seen his pics up on Fb nd dat, he's kinda not a legit child, break up nd dat,,, he's mum is white nd his parents have been divorced 4 ages, mum nd all other kids r here nd i'm friends wiv his cousin(in uni wiv his sister) nd i proper talk wiv his sister, common word of mouth hardly convinses me, but bk 2 d main issue, do u think if i continue tellin him 2 think within d box, he's gna think i aint intrested?

OK OK we get it you are in the UK but you are trying too hard geez stop writing the way you talk if thats how you talk anyway. No one is taking you serious with the oi oi oi bollocks and pip pip that you keep shooting at us.

oh ok sry my bad!!!so wt shud i say OMG!!, ok warning taken, i'd probably try next time, safe thou,

Freelyfe:

YO i gt a man but i have never seen him b4, i'm new on this niaraland thing, i stay in the Uk nd he stays in nigeria, i love him 2 bitzzz, yo nd i set a standard, he calls, i dnt, ok once in a while i call, but he does d callin more, i did dat so he wudnt take d piss cuz i hate wen pple drop call(flash), he travels dwn 2 d UK for only summer, his family is well 2 do, he gt a ten year visa so imigration aint a problem, but we'v been dating for a month+ nd he's talking marriage, my friends think he's d one, wt do u think, wud it work, i'm only 17 btw nd he's 19

At poster.

You are suffering from something called delusion.

You cant be dating someone youve never met. Apperently, you know nothing about this dude aside the things his told you and the sound of his voice. Probably his picture through chat or something.

Girl you need to get your mind right and thread carefully like you have been advised by Ibkaye.
Ask for marriage, thats just a plain dumb idea

Freelyfe:

oh ok sry my bad!!!so wt shud i say OMG!!,  ok warning taken,  i'd probably try next time, safe thou,  

Like the previous person has said, you need to explain things more clearly.

A common sense question is. is your dad and mum aware of this. beware if 419

girl. The way i see things is like you are trying too hard and too early at your age

Sit down with yourself or friends, if they are true friend then they"ll tell you the truth

They are hiding something from you as not to receive criticism or take them as jelousy

Good luck anyway.

Err 2 b honest they not aware, yaaay, 419, swaer dwn dats theft code, nah nah not even, lets say its d otherway round, like errrm i'm kinda d smarter one, lets say i got my christmas gift already nd its just november, like my friends wud say, i fear yall edo girls, common, i'm bloody smart, esshhh dnt watch dat, still safe thou, x

its not bout the money , d boyz round me flippin depend on shotin weed nd bangin girls, common aint dwn 4 dat, i posted up cuz i kinda dnt wanna mess about wiv his emotions, want a smart advise,

here is a smart advise, go tel your mum exactly what your first post reads and hear what she has to say. period.

"here is a smart advise, go tel your mum exactly what your first post reads and hear what she has to say. period.", thank yoooo buh erm me nd mum, we kinda aint talkin, havent spoken for 5 weeks, nd dad business trip, due bk in christmas, i'd sort things out then cuz i'm closer 2 him, but still thanks, u'v made alot of sense, x x

interesting development . . .

some have heads no caps, some have caps but are HEADLESS

oh Lard God, uno wt i kinda have been avoidin comments like urs, it wudnt hurt if u come up here nd speak like an adult, idioms aint gna get u far sweetie, come out straight nd say wt u gta say, headless, lol, u proper describe it, but keep ur problems 4 ur Gp ite, x

Dr Kitaun:

interesting development . . .

some have heads no caps, some have caps but are HEADLESS

Dr kituan in the building. Roflmao

Hey poster,
I feel u.

Trust me marriage is something u dont wanna rush into. At 17 ure far too young to think bout marriage and the same goes for the dude @ 19.
its not uncommon to see peeps ur age wanting to hold on to every love they come across. But there's till a lot u need to learn bout relationships before u start thinkin bout marriage.

u probably d smartes of all d pple dat replied me 2day, u proper deserve a cuddle 4 dat, marraige errrr its a thing in my family, most girls get married by 21-22, so it aint like i hold 2 every love dat comes my way, lets say i only have this fear that good things never last,

@ Poster

Dont you have elder ones like a brother or sister, or a really close older cousin or something.
You are 17?! Thats like talking to my kid sister about romance. Babe you need a parent figure in your life now and I would suggest you meet your Mum or an elder wiser sister.

I am a guy and i will tell you something for a fact, girls your age are very gullible especially when it involves the opposite sex.

Please stop this at once. GOSH!

Uni? 17? 

yup the system allowed me 2 go in cuz my birthday date coressponds wiv d others, like i'm days b4 sep 1, so i kinda flowed in, august 31, lets say i gt lucky cud ave been told 2 saty another year, i put up 17 cus dat d age i strted datin him, kinda didnt wanna go into much detail, its a two year diiff so i wanted 2 clear dat out, so i.e im 18 nw, it flunctuates

@ OP, shouldn't you be focused on other things like your studies---- and playing hide and seek, geeeez, Enjoy ur youth.