You like a girl, she likes you but you don't make a move (i dunno maybe because of fear) would you like it if the girl approached you or would you think of her as desperate? Guys I want to hear from you.

In other parts of the world, its no big deal if a girl asks a guy out.

But in Nigeria, it isn't advisable for a girl to approach a guy.

If you love a guy, show him the green light. If he doesn't make any move, then let go so that you won't be referred to as the desperate type.

Its no big deal, go for it.
A girl has approached me b4, its ok.

Happens all the time and its embarrassing
so babes should just give guys a signal (a look) to come over and talk to them.

It would blow my mind if we've known each for a while and with decency written all over her , else you are not different from those on the red-light street.

If a girl approaches me for a relationship there is no big deal in it, infact it will give me the impression that i am irrestible. You know what that means. peace.

If a girl approaches me for a relationship there is no big deal in it, infact it will give me the impression that i am irrestible. You know what that means. peace.

approaching a guy doesn't make you cheap. its the things you do after the meeting that defines you as cheap or otherwise.from my own experience, the few girls that approached me were bad news.not because they approached me, but because they were always after the money.

Nothing spoil if a girl approach me, infact some have. But some persons see d lady as cheap and maybe desperate. From ma own POV if a man can approach a lady if he is in love, a lady should be able to do the same without fear whatsoever. Keep it up ladies. Nervousness is for sure at first, just ignore it.

if she is handsome and rich plus lekpa; why not?

otokx:

if she is handsome and rich plus lekpa; why not?

Go sleep my friend you don't even stand a chance with that look. and beside who told you that Girls are handsome,
olodoo. johnbull like you. itibolibor.

scemchee:

Go sleep my friend you don't even stand a chance with that look. and beside who told you that Girls are handsome,
olodoo. johnbull like you. itibolibor.

lol, , your signature says '' what goes around, comes back around.''

a lady that aproach a man is counted cheap,but to me its not bad

Well it depends on the type of guy, because some can be prudish and quite conservative.
However, as for me its not a big deal at all.
Infact I was approached many years ago by a girl who later became my fiance, though we eventually broke up; I never for once held it or used it against her - not even when we quarrelled, because as I said, it wasn't a big deal and shouldn't be.

Na today?

e don tey wey nyash don get center pathing.

nofin new.

I hate making the first move. I'd rather stay single like forever than to make the first move. . .

Look at all of them, as if any girl would approach their ugly ass

Naija men. . . . what a display of comedy

^^^God 4bid bad tin. . .

Enough approaches

^^^ More than enough sef.

@Guys by any chance does it make u feel like a woman?or like u r d woman?

It doesn't change anything unless some guys want to make an ego out of nothing

FL Gators:

Look at all of them, as if any girl would approach their ugly ass

Naija men. . . . what a display of comedy

Dudu Yemi watch dat your mouth, before i put something in it yeye gal

sjeezy8:

Dudu Yemi watch dat your mouth, before i put something in it yeye gal

Truth hurts, sucka

Sure I likes!! but if I don't like her::: I'm sugbe!!!!!!!!!!!! I won't decline her thou, just make friends with her nothing more

What! Are you kidding me? Asking this question is like asking a cat if it would like a rat to be brought to its dinning table. Do you all think that chykin is easy. Chykin is labour intensive so if there is any thing that takes off the labour i'll really appreciate it. It beats my imagination how women want to compete wit men in every area. In politics they want to be the head, in business they want to be on the top, even In bed they want to stay on top. But when it comes to approaching a man they seem to shy away. Ladies remember, what a man can do a woman can do better. So go ahead and prove that to us. Afterall wat is good for the goose is good for the gander.

some girls approached me in the past , and it didnt work because i walked on them in the end. I expect the girl to do no more than give the green light; let me do the chasing, if I 'm interested. I 'll value her more that way.

Let no girl approach me, i won't appreciate it

naija girl: dont approach ( or pretend not to approach)

foreign girl: approach away

hypocrites

FL Gators:

Look at all of them, as if any girl would approach their ugly ass

Naija men. . . . what a display of comedy

are you high. Do you think every guy here is as U.G.L.Y. as you are. Better watch it.

Mutee:

are you high. Do you think every guy here is as U.G.L.Y. as you are. Better watch it.

Will you shut your trap.