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Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Nobody: 10:02am On Jan 11, 2017
Pheals:







Staying with them as been cool, I have to leave home & join them because they are in holiday to save myself from loneliness
I walk down the passage to his room to get my phone charger and it was dawn & the bulb was very bright, possibly this could be the first time I could move into his room without knocking the door because it was opened. I saw him clearly sitting on the bed weeping he quickly wiped away his tears but this can be hide from me any longer, I have seen him many times looking like someone who as just been beating & he could end up making me believe that nothing is wrong with him
"guy what is wrong with you? "
"nothing he said, I look at his bed I saw many books, sat on the bed and try to move closer to him as he moved back
I raised his head up and his eyes were red
"any time I ask u what is wrong u kept on saying nothing have noticed u have been in pain, can u just open up & free yourself maybe I can help ,problem share with the right person is problem solve"
Finally he do, he was addicted to porn!!!
"I felt bad after watching porn " he said, and I end up crying after watching it, it's affecting my life, my academic life anytime i want to read I remember it and I felt uncomfortable . " I should be brilliant than this, have prayed a lot and stop it sometimes and soon or later get back to it.

Please help a brother what can he do?
Have promised to help but still thinking of a way out

Please don't mind my English!
Mature people only



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Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Stone03: 11:58am On Jan 11, 2017
Ten12:


Is this what you have reduced matured people to? You typed this jargon with grammers so hard to understand and say is for matured people? kontinu

Mr man, stop being foolish. If you have nothing helpful to render, leave someone's post please. U belittle yourself so with your smart English

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Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Idamond: 12:18pm On Jan 11, 2017
Pheals:
that is tears of joy,visit him by 1am you will understand the joy well






Staying with them as been cool, I have to leave home & join them because they are in holiday to save myself from loneliness
I walk down the passage to his room to get my phone charger and it was dawn & the bulb was very bright, possibly this could be the first time I could move into his room without knocking the door because it was opened. I saw him clearly sitting on the bed weeping he quickly wiped away his tears but this can be hide from me any longer, I have seen him many times looking like someone who as just been beating & he could end up making me believe that nothing is wrong with him
"guy what is wrong with you? "
"nothing he said, I look at his bed I saw many books, sat on the bed and try to move closer to him as he moved back
I raised his head up and his eyes were red
"any time I ask u what is wrong u kept on saying nothing have noticed u have been in pain, can u just open up & free yourself maybe I can help ,problem share with the right person is problem solve"
Finally he do, he was addicted to porn!!!
"I felt bad after watching porn " he said, and I end up crying after watching it, it's affecting my life, my academic life anytime i want to read I remember it and I felt uncomfortable . " I should be brilliant than this, have prayed a lot and stop it sometimes and soon or later get back to it.

Please help a brother what can he do?
Have promised to help but still thinking of a way out

Please don't mind my English!
Mature people only



Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Stone03: 12:20pm On Jan 11, 2017
@OP, I really see this as a big problem with many, but thank God its not without solution. For the chap to be remorseful after porn watching shows that there is a clean spirit in him that abhores dirtiness. I used to have such problem. Mine would leave me so devastated to the point that my spirit was so frail to defend me in the face of serious issues. Business was crumbling, life had no joy and a lot of untold hardship. I have to fight it with all I have within me. First, by crying out to God for help. I applied fasting & prayers, I was truthful to myself by asking myself a question "what profit do I get in spending hours in a thing that reduces me to a piece of bread? Is such a friend or a foe? Why must i give my creative mind to d enemy called porn? I truthfully took away whatever that suggests porn. It remained my phone & I can't discard it. Is began to study more of God's word & books on discipline. I began to grow in the grace to achieve mind discipline. I will like to recommend for him "towards a mental exploit" written by Bishop Oyedepo. The great is getting baptized in the holy spirit. Sister, this helped me so much. After spending 30minutes to 1hour speaking in tongues, I come out detesting any thought of immorality. Jesus will help the guy because he has the Spirit of God in him & thats the reason for for those remorse.

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Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Stone03: 12:32pm On Jan 11, 2017
oseka101:
Super story....... So hard to find real stories this days..... Well if it was true i recommend psych evaluation......maybe shock or slap therapy...every kid must watch porn its part of the learning process to becoming an adult........ So him crying means something is off somewhere.....
I'm interested in d bolded line broadcast. U mean u can buy or recommend it for ur kids? I don see characters for this world.
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Kondomatic(m): 2:05pm On Jan 11, 2017
tosyne2much:
The same thing I'm experiencing.. I also burst into tears each time I watch porn cool
Watery tears from up or thick milky tears from below?
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by tosyne2much(m): 3:20pm On Jan 11, 2017
Kondomatic:
Watery tears from up or thick milky tears from below?
That kind thing baba
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Ten12(m): 8:42pm On Jan 11, 2017
Stone03:


Mr man, stop being foolish. If you have nothing helpful to render, leave someone's post please. U belittle yourself so with your smart English


Which 1 come be smart English again..bros every of ur fvck is a hit back2back
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 11, 2017
casttlebarbz:
...nairalanders, dey wont tel u its their own ordeal, always that of a friend



But if they open up and say it's their own ordeal. The same nairalnaders will. Mock them, store the post in their laptop archives to use as weapons of destruction and defamation grin after many years down the line. And the taunting with never end.

So. My dear it's better to dissociate yourself from the story if u need sincere solutions about whats bothering one.
No be nairalanders again?? cheesy
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Pheals(f): 9:13pm On Jan 11, 2017
tosyne2much:
The same thing I'm experiencing.. I also burst into tears each time I watch porn cool
but u told me you don't watch it
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by JacksonD7: 11:57pm On Jan 11, 2017
Pheals:







Staying with them as been cool, I have to leave home & join them because they are in holiday to save myself from loneliness
I walk down the passage to his room to get my phone charger and it was dawn & the bulb was very bright, possibly this could be the first time I could move into his room without knocking the door because it was opened. I saw him clearly sitting on the bed weeping he quickly wiped away his tears but this can be hide from me any longer, I have seen him many times looking like someone who as just been beating & he could end up making me believe that nothing is wrong with him
"guy what is wrong with you? "
"nothing he said, I look at his bed I saw many books, sat on the bed and try to move closer to him as he moved back
I raised his head up and his eyes were red
"any time I ask u what is wrong u kept on saying nothing have noticed u have been in pain, can u just open up & free yourself maybe I can help ,problem share with the right person is problem solve"
Finally he do, he was addicted to porn!!!
"I felt bad after watching porn " he said, and I end up crying after watching it, it's affecting my life, my academic life anytime i want to read I remember it and I felt uncomfortable . " I should be brilliant than this, have prayed a lot and stop it sometimes and soon or later get back to it.

Please help a brother what can he do?
Have promised to help but still thinking of a way out

Please don't mind my English!
Mature people only




He needs to quit porn and reboot I can't go into detail but these links will give you info on how porn addiction works, the negative effects and how to break the addiction.

Brain Chemicals and Porn Addiction: Science Shows How Porn Harms Us
http://www.covenanteyes.com/2014/02/03/brain-chemicals-and-porn-addiction/

Your brain on porn
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/doing-what-you-evolved-to-do

No Fap Rebooting
https://www.nofap.com/rebooting/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C1392818130
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by tosyne2much(m): 11:02pm On Jan 12, 2017
Pheals:
but u told me you don't watch it

I recently started watching it.. Do you? cool
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Pheals(f): 11:20pm On Jan 12, 2017
tosyne2much:
I recently started watching it.. Do you? cool
Gawd !! I told you I hate it!
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by tosyne2much(m): 11:23pm On Jan 12, 2017
Pheals:
Gawd !! I told you I hate it!
Okay.. So why have you been running from me? See my future gf wey no even dey caring. SMH
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Pheals(f): 11:38pm On Jan 12, 2017
tosyne2much:
Okay.. So why have you been running from me? See my future gf wey no even dey caring. SMH
who told you am not caring? who told you am running from you ?
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Nobody: 11:45pm On Jan 12, 2017
oseka101:
Super story....... So hard to find real stories this days..... Well if it was true i recommend psych evaluation......maybe shock or slap therapy...every kid must watch porn its part of the learning process to becoming an adult........ So him crying means something is off somewhere.....
Moral guilt perhaps? The guy might b a deeperlifer
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by tosyne2much(m): 6:41am On Jan 13, 2017
Pheals:
who told you am not caring? who told you am running from you ?
Ehn ehn cheesy cheesy
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by walebizz(m): 7:07am On Jan 13, 2017
seize his fone and get him a smaller fone that won't be able to browse or visit porn sites
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by oseka101(m): 7:54am On Jan 13, 2017
Nma27:
Moral guilt perhaps? The guy might b a deeperlifer
. grin deeperlife folks have always give me the creeps ,weird folks extremely Weird infact and they commit more shameful acts than the average Or normal folks.... Weirdos grin
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Nobody: 7:55am On Jan 13, 2017
oseka101:
. grin deeperlife folks have always give me the creeps ,weird folks extremely Weird infact and they commit more shameful acts than the average Or normal folks.... Weirdos grin
Lolzz
Re: Help ::he Cries After Watching Porn by Analysiscorner: 3:35pm On Oct 01, 2017
Has a solution been found for this your friend?

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