luminouz:

I was a virgin till I was 40...so no biggies bro!

YOU JUST STATED MY MIND. No big deal in staying a virgin up till 22. He still needs extra 10yrs to compare to some of us.

OP being a virgin up till 22 isn't much of a big deal.
There is nothing peculiar to make a topic out of it cos there are so many boys like you out there.
Additionally there is nothing to be ashamed of because it's common.
I would've congratulated you for being on a right track but unfortunately i don't see any track.
To be considered for being on the right track, i had hoped to see a DEFINITE REASON for staying a virgin.
Without strong sense of purpose, it appears you are just dangling and waiting for when you'll eventually have your first sex. It is only a matter of time if that is the case.
Definite purpose could range from a strong born again attitude that says "No" to fornication or Decision to keep away from premarital sex. For me it was both so even at moments when i felt down as a christian, decision against premarital sex kept me going.
If you haven't reasons for being a virgin, i suggest you think and reach a decision soon.
Being a male virgin doesn't work for everybody. It didn't work for me some how but i hope yours will be different.

Sincere4u:
OP being a virgin up till 22 isn't much of a big deal.
There is nothing peculiar to make a topic out of it cos there are so many boys like you out there.
Additionally there is nothing to be ashamed of because it's common.
I would've congratulated you for being on a right track but unfortunately i don't see any track.
To be considered for being on the right track, i had hoped to see a DEFINITE REASON for staying a virgin.
Without strong sense of purpose, it appears you are just dangling and waiting for when you'll eventually have your first sex. It is only a matter of time if that is the case.
Definite purpose could range from a strong born again attitude that says "No" to fornication or Decision to keep away from premarital sex. For me it was both so even at moments when i felt down as a christian, decision against premarital sex kept me going.
If you haven't reasons for being a virgin, i suggest you think and reach a decision soon.
Being a male virgin doesn't work for everybody. It didn't work for me some how but i hope yours will be different.

You've said it all. I like this. How didn't it work for you?.
Sorry i'm so inquisitive.

MissVirginLuna:

You ask funny question.
If you decide not to have sex until you are married, does it mean you are gay?

On point!!

oilyqueen:
YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK



THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH

Good encouragement though he doesn't seem to be on any track neither did he cite Godly tenets as his reason. At 22yrs it isn't much of an achievement.
Some of the most corrupt today were male virgins even beyond that age and without definite purpose for being virgins, they were just waiting for the triggar first time experience.

You are on the right track. Its better to remain a virgin till you get married.

karacta1:

Good encouragement though he doesn't seem to be on any track neither did he cite Godly tenets as his reason. At 22yrs it isn't much of an achievement.
Some of the most corrupt today were male virgins even beyond that age and without definite purpose for being virgins, they were just waiting for the triggar first time experience.

What you stated is a FACT!.
However, the Queen is on a track for Godly reasons that is why she was quick to give him a track.
People have tendencies to see themselves in others. For instance because i find it difficult to lie, i tend to believe anything someone tells me. Someone who lies will tend to disbelieve others.
Having her Godly reasons means she'll also see others as being like minded.

Tiny23:
Do not let any devil lead you astray,you on the right part...it's a thing of pride.Keep it up,do not lose it,pls.

You got it.God bless your soul

Keep it up.don't lose your v

Sincere4u:

What you stated is a FACT!.
However, the Queen is on a track for Godly reasons that is why she was quick to give him a track.
People have tendencies to see themselves in others. For instance because i find it difficult to lie, i tend to believe anything someone tells me. Someone who lies will tend to disbelieve others.
Having her Godly reasons means she'll also see others as being like minded.

Well stated.

karacta1:

Well stated.

Yeah bro. By the time he decides and perhaps gets on a track, that track will define him and he'll be known for it. If for instance he decides to remain a virgin on a Godly track, that track will automatically define him and he will naturally desist from acts or words that marks him out to be a Pro.
Even his associations will be affected by the track.
What he's experiencing now is a mere Shy Syndrome. Everybody has similar experience till they eventually have their first sexual encounter.
From his narration he's already mentally prepared and waiting for the appointed day and girl.

ToriBlue:
You are on the right track. Its better to remain a virgin till you get married.

Yea, so that when he tries sex the first time. You will be the same girl to critize him for being too dull.

konjishild:

madam advicer HV u kept urs?

Pls epp me ask her ? People be giving advice's they can't even follow.

karacta1:

You've said it all. I like this. How didn't it work for you?.
Sorry i'm so inquisitive.

At the end of all the years of abstinence, the tendency became to seek out a girl just like oneself and that is where the problem is.
Male virginity doesn't hold as much meaning as we try to attach to it aside that sin is sin. Personally i don't see the sense in it and if given a second chance, i do take a different path.

ehix89:
what are we learning here my dear, who taught Adam how to gbansh Eve or did she ever complain in the bible she wasn't having a great sex-life eh

The bible never gave those details. I'm sure they must have had some difficulties starting. I'm sure you didn't just start walking as a baby. You had to crawl first. Same as education ... Same as everything in life.

Sincere4u:

At the end of all the years of abstinence, the tendency became to seek out a girl just like oneself and that is where the problem is.
Male virginity doesn't hold as much meaning as we try to attach to it aside that sin is sin. Personally i don't see the sense in it and if given a second chance, i do take a different path.

My boss different path = Sin + risk of STDs.

Sincere4u:

Yeah bro. By the time he decides and perhaps gets on a track, that track will define him and he'll be known for it. If for instance he decides to remain a virgin on a Godly track, that track will automatically define him and he will naturally desist from acts or words that marks him out to be a Pro.
Even his associations will be affected by the track.
What he's experiencing now is a mere Shy Syndrome. Everybody has similar experience till they eventually have their first sexual encounter.
From his narration he's already mentally prepared and waiting for the appointed day and girl.

You are spot on.

Sincere4u:

the Queen is on a track for Godly reasons.

By this you mean the Queen is a V?.
Age??.

karacta1:

By this you mean the Queen is a V?.
Age??.

1.Confirmed
2. Not your BUSINESS!!!!!!!.

karacta1:

My boss different path = Sin + risk of STDs.

Lesson teacher, who doesn't know?.

MissVirginLuna:
And there are also people older than you who haven't had sex!!! So you are not alone
Cheers..

True!!..nice pix by d way. Can I meet u?

Charleynmuo:

True!!..nice pix by d way. Can I meet u?

Thank you.
You just met me here, so you've met me already...

amnwa:
Now before you judge me.. Take time to get to know me..
I have been living in the word of pretence.. Strongly cos of what people see me as. 98% females who know me will call me a master when it comes to sex obviously because of the way I talk, act and the crazy chats in social media.. It is perhaps my greatest tool to hide this simple face that am still yet to have sex...
Now its not lack of opportunity. I have had many. When I say many I mean every word.
For some reasons I have always stopped at the last minute and it has led to many of my relationships ending immediately probably cos the felt am weak or they weren't good enough. In mind I have always wished the could understand me abit.
I could remember vividly the day a neighbor, who from some ways knew I hadn't had sex as I always shrugged off sexual advances from her. She offered to teach me sex. It was funny tho but it was really touched me deeply. Many would have rushed at that opportunity but then I declined...
Now I really have no reason of still not having sex. Fear has been a factor I must confess.. But I can't really describe what am afraid of..

Before many claim this is fabricated, note.. I don't need you to believe it. Am not too handsome, jus okay. You can rate me highly in romantic gestures and words.

People in the house.. Am I right in still being a Virgin or should I go ahead..

There are a million and one good reasons ( both physical and spiritual) to keep your virginity till marriage especially in this time and age.Don't be fooled to think otherwise.