i am into a relationship but distance has been the barrier and obstacle in it since am working and no time to travel again and the relationship flopped.
There is this guy i met on facebook, he is a muslim and since i have not have any privilege to date a muslim guys in my life and am a muslim, after chatting and long calls to and fro, promising heaven here on earth, i decided to visit him in lagos from ibadan at the stake of my job.
on getting there am pleased but to my surprise when checking his laptop i saw one small boy pic and i ask he told me that he is son that it was a mistake two year ago, when i need to go back to ibadan he started behaving funny after he has delayed me for almost 3 hour behind schedule on waiting for someone to bring money for him.but told him to let me go on our way to oshodi he did not say a single word to me claiming i force him to follow me cos his intention was to take me to near park to board oshodi but insisted that he should follow me to oshodi on getting there he just dissappear only to reappear on my facebook and yahoo messenger telling me sorry that it will not happen again that he is broke.and i should send him some money that he will visit me in ibadan. kindly enlighten me please am i not falling into wrong hand.

For starters, try paragraphing, and decent punctuation, just reading that little lot made me dizzy.

As per your query, I'm sure you don't need anyone to tell you to move on. There are plenty of other good Muslim guys in Nigeria, without the added complications this man clearly has.

@poster,

please dont collapse again. kindly move on with your life. As stated by sienna, there are 1001 muslim guys out there.

Wallahu allah.

U can reach me on adeyemirasheed@rocketmail.com

a 2 year old son, a zero account, and an attitude problem.

add it all up, it goes no where.

Its already in the air, the maufaucker is broke and stingy with baggage. Run without looking back.

He was not the one for you, keep on searching on facebook and NL still you meet the right one

ayomidej:

He was not the one for you, keep on searching on facebook and NL still you meet the right one

LOL

I had to struglle to understand this post. And now that I understand it, firstly, I wonder why people actually think they can find anything worthwhile on the net.Secondly, a guy asking you for money when you havent even started dating him You are in for it if you date that kind of person

Lol yes? pls date him!

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No she stay with it and use him as test trial

There is this guy i met on facebook, he is a muslim and since i have not have any privilege to date a muslim guys in my life and am a muslim

hmmmmm

is this facebook dude also a NLer?

If you're muslim, how come you've never dated a muslim guy in your life?

something's fishy in the state of New York.

abeg,try talk better word for ur mouth

he was not straight forward with you,but don't give him a dime for now untill u find out if he is for real.

i hope u didn't loose on 2 fronts

What do u expect after you hv discovered the secret of his little boy?He wuld use the excuse that he didnt hv or send him money to scare you away.Pls u hv not seen a date oooo.Continue to search and be prayerful,God will definately connect you to ur divine partner.
All the best.

We are shown red flags while dating for a reason - not to step over them, but to take heed.

Do it now - run. When you are in a hole already - STOP DIGGING!

I had somewhat of a same situation 3 yrs ago, I saw so many red flags, etc. But I kept on and on telling myself it would get better - well it didn't!

Take heed and run!

so poster u mean u ve fainted b4~

damn

what does muslim guyzz have 2 offer

NUFFIN~

dem too slack~

so how far?

Did you send him the money to visit you?

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ayomidej:
He was not the one for you, keep on searching on facebook and NL still you meet the right one

hahahahahah,very true sha...she should keep searching...desperation is bad.
@op you get mind o

My sister, run 4 ur dear life

ayomidej:
He was not the one for you, keep on searching on facebook and NL still you meet the right one

OP, him don chop you?