Looke:
Bla bla bla....

Rape, just like every other social vice can't be stopped. Women will continue getting raped, today, tomorrow, and forever. Rapists will keep on existing. Typing error-ridden essays will not stop it. You either deal with it or you keep on wasting your time typing nonsense.

Anuoluwapo23:
So U feel u can talk?

Looke:


Yes I can. At least I have something useful to say, unlike you.

And its people like you that help increase the number of Rapists. Look at how indecently dressed you are, with your ugly makeup and filter draped face and exposed over-sagged boobs.

Just looking at you can drive someone to rape.

Muafrika2:

You need serious counselling

Anuoluwapo23:
Sexual violence is not just a woman's problem, it is something that affects us all.

Every day, people of all ages are raped and it does not only affect the victim, it also affects the family and friends. It often leaves its victims marred for life, both physically and emotionally.

Rape happens everywhere. In some cultures, the women are blamed for being raped and they are punished.

We have been done a massive disservice by keeping the reality of rape in the shadows and this has spurred the rapists to keep on carrying their wicked act.

It turns out a whole lot of people know less than nothing about rape. When it comes to what people think and understand about rape, some have a lot of misconceptions.

Below are some things you should know.

1. Most of the victims are assaulted by someone they know and trust: Most people are sexually assaulted by relatives, trusted friends or even spouse.

2. Rape is one of the most under-reported crimes: Most women who are raped tell no one about the assault for fear of being criticized and labeled. Victims who have survived rape ordeals have been reluctant to speak about it for reasons such as the stigma attached to having been raped.

3. Rape is an act of power and control and does not happen out of sexual desire: A lot of people out there have sexual desires but they don’t go around raping people. So you can’t blame it sexual desire. If you have the urge, there are people out there who are willing, why force someone unwilling.


4. Mere penetration is sufficient to constitute the offence of rape: Once you fail to prove penetration, the offence either becomes attempt to commit rape or indecent assault.

5. It’s not your fault: No one asks to be abused unless maybe you have problem. Therefore, the line of thought which blames the victim for what happened instead of holding the rapist accountable for his crime is wrong. Rape victims often times, blame themselves, believing it was because of something they did or did not do. What happened to you was a crime and you are not to blame for the assailant’s behavior.

6. Having carnal knowledge or sexual intercourse with a girl of less than 14-years even with her consent is rape because consent is immaterial here.

In the Northern part of Nigeria the definition of rape as contained under Section 282(1) of the Penal Code provides that: “A man is said to commit rape who … has sexual intercourse with a woman in any of the following circumstances:- (a) against her will; (b) without her consent; (c) with her consent, when her consent has been obtained by putting her in fear of death or of hurt; (d) with her consent, when the man knows that he is not her husband and that her consent is given because she believes that he is the man to whom she is or believes herself to be lawfully married; (e) with or without her consent when she is under fourteen years of age.

7. If you force your spouse, it is rape: Many countries including Nigeria consider sex in marriage an absolute right of the husband which can be taken with or without the consent of the wife. The very act of a woman refusing sex is unthinkable. Whether we agree or not, this is the truth.

Here is what the law says: Section 282, Cap 89 Penal Code Laws of the Federation says: “A man is said to commit rape who has sexual intercourse with a woman in any of the following circumstance: against her will; without her consent; with her consent, when the consent is obtained by putting her in fear of death or of hurt..."

In the South of Nigeria, the meaning of rape as enshrined in section 357 Cap C38 of Criminal Code states: “Any person who has unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman or girl, without her consent, or with her consent if the consent is obtained by force or by means of threat or intimidation of any kind, or by fear of harm, or by means of false or fraudulent representation as to the nature of the act or, in the case of married woman, by personating her husband, is guilty of an offence which is called rape.”

God Protect Us All

Looke:
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On what?

makydebbie:
Nice one op. I hardly read things about rape and sexual assault....it takes the grace of God to be raped and still overcome the trauma that comes with it. I really admire such people.

But I disagree with your number seven. When your wife says no and you force her, its more like sexual harassment than rape.

YellowEyeBalls:
another great piece my dear... More grease to ur elbow.

Looke:


Yes I can. At least I have something useful to say, unlike you.

And its people like you that help increase the number of Rapists. Look at how indecently dressed you are, with your ugly makeup and filter draped face and exposed over-sagged boobs.

Just looking at you can drive someone to rape.

Anuoluwapo23:
No In the court of law it's Rape

Anuoluwapo23:
Weldon Great Piece

Looke:


Yes I can. At least I have something useful to say, unlike you.

And its people like you that help increase the number of Rapists. Look at how indecently dressed you are, with your ugly makeup and filter draped face and exposed over-sagged boobs.

Just looking at you can drive someone to rape.

Aderola15:


Nothing shows your level of stupidity better than justifying an irresponsible act

Looke:
Bla bla bla....

Rape, just like every other social vice can't be stopped. Women will continue getting raped, today, tomorrow, and forever. Rapists will keep on existing. Typing error-ridden essays will not stop it. You either deal with it or you keep on wasting your time typing nonsense.

Aderola15:


Nothing shows your level of stupidity better than justifying an irresponsible act

Looke:
Bla bla bla....

Rape, just like every other social vice can't be stopped. Women will continue getting raped, today, tomorrow, and forever. Rapists will keep on existing. Typing error-ridden essays will not stop it. You either deal with it or you keep on wasting your time typing nonsense.

makydebbie:
Nice one op. I hardly read things about rape and sexual assault....it takes the grace of God to be raped and still overcome the trauma that comes with it. I really admire such people.

But I disagree with your number seven. When your wife says no and you force her,it's more like sexual harassment than rape.

Anuoluwapo23:
So U feel u can talk?

Benita27:
Could a man harass his own wife again?.

Benita27:
Could a man harass his own wife again?.

TheSlyone2:

For sexual harassment- no actual sex occurs, however, one party makes an unwanted sexual advance towards another. This includes verbal language, lewd suggestions, or physical contact to any part of the body.

So I'll say it is possible a man sexually harass his wife




https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110725145222AAZfGHL



For rape- actual sex has to occur, this includes the penetration or violation of all bodily openings, including the anus, vagina and mouth. The sex must be unwelcome by one party OR performed upon someone not capable of giving consent

A man can forcefully perpetrate his wife. Such action is RAPE.


https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110725145222AAZfGHL

makydebbie:
That's his wife he's entitled to it. You can't call a stranger with a stranger "rape" and call husband and wife "rape" too.

makydebbie:
That's his wife he's entitled to it. You can't call a stranger with a stranger "rape" and call husband and wife "rape" too.

Gizele:

[s] Are you unable to read?

Any penetration without consent is rape. Simple. You mentality is so primitive. You lost soul.[/s]

TheSlyone2:

Ha.

Why insulting her? That's uncalled for.

Am sure makydebbie knows, but she always like to argue. And one beautiful thing about argument is the point you make.

Gizele:

Are you unable to read?

Any penetration without consent is rape. Simple. You mentality is so primitive. You lost soul.

TheSlyone2:

Dee, the bond between husband and wife ends the moment both of them are in discord with each other.

Sex has to be a mutual and consensual thing. So, if one party isn't in the mood, any Form of coercion or force will be counted as rape.

I get your point, Dee. They are both engaged, hence the man has every right to penetrate his wife anytime he deemed fit. Well, that's very wrong.

There are times wife or even man may not be in the mood for sex. There are times the woman might be in some sort of quarrel with the husband. So engaging her forcefully during those period is punishable by law. That's if the wife care to charge him to court.

Most ladies are dying in silence because of the fear of a possible end to their marriage

makydebbie:
Are you okay? What right have you to call me a lost soul?
Don't quote me next time if you can't talk like a reasonable and sensible person.