Please help, a very close friend is having relationship issues but he doesnt have a nairaland account so i am helping him post this as ive generally gotten very helpful responses in this thread.
He wrote this and im posting for him - I had a gf for 2 years, who i loved dearly, while dating her, i always had good luck in everything i did. she had 2 abortions for me and still eventually broke my heart due to fears not to have another pregnancy of which some of her family members knew and pressurized her to leave me. i was heratbroken for about 6months until i met a girl who did everything my ex couldnt and even made me happier for a period of time. my family loved her even more than my ex and accepted her, she respected me even more and always gave me better advice. my ex found out, got jealous and asked that i leave her. but i still chose her over my ex who sacrificed 2 kids for me. Eventually, things started going bad for me due to some very bad decisions i made personally and right now i dont know if it was wrong to leave my ex for my present gf because its like my luck has turned down or what am i not doing right ? Are things going from bad to worse because i left me ex or am i blaming my failures on my present gf? i need your candid and polite advice as i appreciate in advance. PLEASE HELP WITH YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS

Emmy2009:
Please help, a very close friend is having relationship issues but he doesnt have a nairaland account so i am helping him post this as ive generally gotten very helpful responses in this thread.
He wrote this and im posting for him - I had a gf for 2 years, who i loved dearly, while dating her, i always had good luck in everything i did. she had 2 abortions for me and still eventually broke my heart due to fears not to have another pregnancy of which some of her family members knew and pressurized her to leave me. i was heratbroken for about 6months until i met a girl who did everything my ex couldnt and even made me happier for a period of time. my family loved her even more than my ex and accepted her, she respected me even more and always gave me better advice. my ex found out, got jealous and asked that i leave her. but i still chose her over my ex who sacrificed 2 kids for me. Eventually, things started going bad for me due to some very bad decisions i made personally and right now i dont know if it was wrong to leave my ex for my present gf because its like my luck has turned down or what am i not doing right ? Are things going from bad to worse because i left me ex or am i blaming my failures on my present gf? i need your candid and polite advice as i appreciate in advance. PLEASE HELP WITH YOUR VALUABLE COMMENTS

you "don't deserve" a girlfriend!

Hmmm

Stop trying 2 Blane an innocent girl dat knows nothing about wat is wrong wit u. Try 2 improve on ur condition by working out things 4 urself..............and pls,I beg u in f name of God, work on ur mentality too,it needs serious working on