tete7000:



Yes, there will always be in every human endeavour, one or two black sheep. One or two who allowed devil take hold of their minds but the question is: 'what percentage of whole practitioners do that?'. Of course they are in minority. It is not a story you hear everyday you will agree with me.

durasome:
Op though human differ,but I want to tell you that a lot of them are professionals who are so used to the female anatomy that they are not easily aroused by such sights.come to think of it, most times it is only females with illnesses that has to do with those areas that do need to be checked. What will attract a doctor in a woman that has vaginal bleedings,tumor.offensive odour and what have you. It is only the deased that seek their services.

Princedapace:


Well, I think women should take up the profession too.. What the OP is saying is that our body system doesn't work differently because of profession..

Yes, they are professionals.. But is risky because there av been reports of growing sexual misconduct by these professionals.. You can browse it online..

Women are more responsible to their callings than men.. I av some ladies who shared their experiences of how they were mishandled by these men at some points..

As for me, I will not allow my wife to be treated by a male but female professionals.. They are there, will locate one or two.. Is not hard..

He is not talking about relationship.. He is talking about seldom misbehavior..

Dfinex:


that's because u don't have any further answer .....and stop sounding like ob/gyns are super humans who don't have feelings/blood flowing through their veins such that they can't be aroused. ...let me help u.

apart from the fact that business/work ethics demand professionalism while with a patient, seeing women's unclothedness gradually becomes boring to them cos they have seen one too many (that is to say the probability of them getting excited about treating the females may have been there in the early days of their career).....

as time goes on all they become interested in is treating the patient and making their money......that been said need I reiterate that there are some selected few who still acts perverted even with all the professionalism and years of work experience.....

UltraLeslie:
you're not even happy I have deliberately gone soft on you since you announced were married!

Maybe you're just too slow to notice. And what's the complaint about my mentions? You keep quoting back and complaining you don't like it.

More like a girl saying no to sex but still have her legs spreadout waiting for the dick to divide her pussy lips!

dokyOloye:
Boobs examinations are mostly done in surgical clinics or other busy clinics where there are probably other doctors,nurses,etc in d same room and the only thing separating U and them is just that thin hospital screen.
Assuming U are a sicko and d devil hijacks U to misbehave, what if the woman then screams or shouts?
Is ur own not finished as per d profession?
There is just no way,and too many checks n balances,cos U are even supposed to have a chaperone of d same gender wt d patient if U are of d opposite gender during even abdominal examination, talk more of breast or vagina.
U are supposed to call even if it's a cleaner or even another patient of d same gender,though b/cos of d busy nature of our clinics here and cos Ur mind is free,most ppl don't bother wasting that time.

Babzilla:
This is a really stùpid thread
First when a woman goes to see a gynaecologist she goes because she is sick
Its not like she is on a date
At that point she is seeking a solution to a problem
As for the doctor he is rendering a service tue way a barber or a mechanic does.

Jammiiee:
It isn't abt what's there, how did u feel!n did u do that in the presence of a male eyes, and how did u feel letting ur melons out to the sight of some male professionals? I know it's inevitable but how dd u feel

ToriBlue:
Like I said, I was kinda shy.

frank950:


oga leave lawyers out of this o

Cmanforall:

When you reach the age, you will understand and regret this post. But for now, a paediatrician can handle your case.

Dfinex:
lol @topic. I used to feel same way before. ..those guys don't see u as a man/woman., they only see u as a human anatomy. ...lolsss

but truth is those guys don't have ur time....like going by the number of women they meet how many will they now have relationships with .....of all professions medical doctors are the less promiscuous (I stand to be corrected though )......cos the few I have made friends with always act like they are not even seeing u

except ofcourse for the highly perverted few.....

tete7000:
Every profession ought to be a calling, a kind of vocation. Those who are called into it have sufficient grace to overcome temptation. Of course except you are not called or you allowed yourself used by the devil.

By the way you need to ask how nurses too cope when dealing with unclad male patients. I have had to strip and have my public area shaved by a female nurse before with another performed enema on me in preparation for a surgery. How did I feel as a patient? Nothing, not when pain was almost killing me would I care who shaved or who poured water into my anus to prepare it..
Funny enough, I later became very close with one of the nurses. We remain friends till today and what happened then was not something either of us ever talked about.
I remember while on admission then a guy was brought in with his thing on permanent and perpetual attention with nurses and student nurses on duty feeding their eyes with film of the agony the poor guy was going through. Were they thinking anything immoral? I wouldnt know but it was a sight all were struggling to have a glimpse of.
Cc: jammiiee

GloriaNino:
Wtf? I won't even book an appointment with one for counselling talk less of going to him for medications

Modified: you guys should please stop quoting me, I only said my own opinion on the way I feel it gonna be for me..

dokyOloye:
They were all struggling to see cos that's a case of priapism,common in sicklers.
Such cases,U might never see one in d whole of Ur career,so when such cases present,everybody,esp those who have never seen struggle to see.

Princedapace:


Baba.. I will find and book before any problem comes.. As people have special lawyers before any case as comes, that is what I will be doing..

As for lesbianism I don't av problem with that.. Another man can not be touching my wife any how..

Let me ask u a question, imagine I'm ur best friend and before u married ur wife, u used to tell me about her a lot... And becus I am a male gyn, will u allow me spread ur wife's legs and examine it and search her boobs for treatment because I'm a professional? Will u stand with me face to face in my office or at any other gathering and we talk about other things? How comfortable will u be knowing fully well I play with the place u use for eating

A man's pride is her woman's private parts.. Just that the world has gone gaga, these things arent meant to be..

Once again, women should take up more of these professions..

blackboy:
It takes discipline and they are trained to do their job for the good of their patient and that gets them paid.Yes, they are human , we all are human in every area of life we encounter situations that we have to make a decision and thoughts run in our mind from what we see, it might be wrong but its all about discipline and self control even if you have an evil thought to do evil the choice is yours to do it or not to do it.In the line of official work we all know its always best to act professional.
Some say the gynecologist are professionals they just do their job nothing to it but we should remember they are humans. It takes 2 to tango. Some patients encourage evil while some you know you don't even go there. Just like lecturers too . Not all female students do male lecturers sleep with or sexually harass. Would you say you wont send your wife or daughters to a school where there are male lecturers?
We can say judges are professionals or policemen are professionals but we should remember they are all human. Life is about decisions taken some professional some unprofessional which could have a huge repercussion. The Op has some point , the male gynecologist are human but they are professionals and though humans its their duty to do their job and not let their lust take better judgement of them. When pushing comes to shoving even if its a male doctor you will take what is available.
Just as there are cases of Judges, police who act unprofessional so also in cases of gynecologist but don't mean to rule them all out.
I'm a married man and I have been at the delivery room at the birth of my children. The second a male doctor handled the delivery to the cleaning of her vagina (where the baby came from) and stitching. He was doing his job whether he had thought or not that's in his mind but so long as he did nothing unprofessional and he did his job and we were all happy.
In the hospital in Abuja where my first child was born there are 3 gynecologist - 2 females and a male. This is Abuja. I always went with my wife for the regular gynecologist appointment during pregnancy. To my amazement most of the pregnant women usually preferred the male gynecologist. There was a case when the male gynecologist was not available and the patient said she will wait till the male gynecologist comes back.
He seemed very popular and once when my wife went to see him she commented he was professional.
When I hear of men assaulting male doctors because they say they touched their wife in an unislamic its sad. But its important for doctors to show the patient and those around he is professional. In most cases a female nurse is usually called in by the male gynecologist/doctor when he want to check sensitive areas of the female patient.
What is important is that a female patient who is being sexually touched by a doctor would know and there are the appropriate channels to seek justice.
No male doctor will really like to ruin their career over a patient when in real life I'm sure they can get any they want. Having a smear to their name because of an unprofessional act can cost them their fantastic career for life. They most likely will never get a job anywhere .
I believe male gynecologist are as professional in handling a female patient as any female gynecologist would. Not saying they are all saint or not human.
They are trained and they will get the job done. What runs through their mind na them sabi so long as they do their job professionally.

doyinbaby:
In Nigeria more than 90% of O&G men so women be objective when being attended to by O&G rather than being unnecessarily suspicious,,O&G is strainous very few female doctor specialize in O&G. ,,...if you need help medically you better let a man treat you rather let your case get complicated in the name of looking for a female O&G that may be non existent

Dfinex:
lol @topic. I used to feel same way before. ..those guys don't see u as a man/woman., they only see u as a human anatomy. ...lolsss

but truth is those guys don't have ur time....like going by the number of women they meet how many will they now have relationships with .........cos the few I have made friends with always act like they are not even seeing u

except ofcourse for the highly perverted few.....

doyinbaby:
In Nigeria more than 90% of O&G men so women be objective when being attended to by O&G rather than being unnecessarily suspicious,,O&G is strainous very few female doctor specialize in O&G. ,,...if you need help medically you better let a man treat you rather let your case get complicated in the name of looking for a female O&G that may be non existent

Jammiiee:
That was a mixed grill of sarcasm and expletives...

lepasharon:
You Nigerians act so morally upright and prudish but the statistics on Nigeria speak for itself.

See some women here saying they can't let a male gynecologist see them but over 10 guys have seen you naked b4. Just know the gynecologist doesn't find ur vagina attractive especially when there are health problem causing it to ooze and smell, no one wants to
see that, so stop acting so prestige

buffalowings:

Fixed that for you Highly promiscuous

Mcowubaba:


Oh lawd .....

Mehn see Metaphor

Nairalanders are Evil

On topic, I have examined female patients before (not the sexual organs though), this was back in school, I won't lie, I initially felt something going on in my pants... But I controlled my brain and mind, and focused on the examination and study.
This was some years ago, when I was still a bit Naive about sex and females, but now a Vulva, Vagina during physical examination is just like every other body part...

Anyways, I'm not a Gynecologist or obstetrician, but somehow Vaginas always finds itself on my work table

dokyOloye:

Who do U think has time to be admiring a diseased vagina that is probably discharging blood or pus or smelly fluid?
With Ur apparent education, U still wrote this?
Ooo,Africa,my Africa.