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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by engoldzee(f): 11:44pm On Feb 17, 2017
Nah wah o it's weird thou but,who am i to judge.As a married woman some things i hear beats me. I'm just grateful to God for my marriage. Anyway sha still on the matter anything that satisfies her I would advise you do it...........Weird thou really weird......
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by engoldzee(f): 11:48pm On Feb 17, 2017
Acidosis:
ahahaha

Oga, you don jam wetin pass you.


I bet when next you're coming to this world, you'll learn to abstain and seek after abstinence grin grin


On a serious note though; I still think you both deserve each other. You guys ever acted for por.n directors?




LOL Really funny
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Ajsmart(m): 11:48pm On Feb 17, 2017
Wow! You're in huge trouble if your wife can handle 8" anal. I hope y'all are tested periodically cos anal sex is one of the easiest ways to contact STDS and other infections. You mentioned she opened up more a year into the marriage. How long have you been married?

The fact that she leaves the intimacy gadget around carelessly multiple times shows she lacks respect for privacy even around the kids or possible guests. Sex is private especially with kids in the house.

In my opinion, these sexual issues will eventually cause major problems down the line in your marriage. Those who have tasted and love anal never go back normal (which is why she confessed her cravings a year into the marriage). I think she's reached a point that's difficult to reverse in terms of her sexual experiences and I doubt she can be ever satisfied with whatever you have to offer here on out. Her chances of eventually cheating is pretty high in my opinion.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by HarveySpecter1: 11:48pm On Feb 17, 2017
The girls here seem to support this half man. Op, you are less than a man. That is what they want. They want to feel happy even if you will belittle yourself for them.

So you chose to marry a woman with wide punan1 and so you are paying for her sins . Continue, just remember to buy a tuber of yam. You will need it soon.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by BiafranBushBoy: 11:49pm On Feb 17, 2017
Admin401:


I'm telling you. from they way Op was writing i could picture everything down to the last detail.

Even though this is someone's plight, i would gladly make a movie out of it. but Op, you are going to be alright, just hang in there lad.

I would love a role Aunty pls ooo...
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:49pm On Feb 17, 2017
ToriBlue:
I just can't imagine.
My dear, for an ass-hole to swallow 11' is WOW!

Today my eye see
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by moshino(m): 11:49pm On Feb 17, 2017
@OP

You and your wife have joined bad gang. The anus is an exit point, not an entrance, so do not enter from there, ever! If you don't believe me, ask your Priest/Pastor, or ask your family members. Report this same issue to them, they will collaborate what I said.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Truesapiosexual(f): 11:50pm On Feb 17, 2017
Dead of the night i cant laugh out loud. grin
thorpido:
All I can say is more grease to your elbow.
Remember to buy a pestle and keep.You might need it in the future.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by HarveySpecter1: 11:50pm On Feb 17, 2017
engoldzee:
Nah wah o it's weird thou but,who am i to judge.As a married woman some things i hear beats me. I'm just grateful to God for my marriage. Anyway sha still on the matter anything that satisfies her I would advise you do it...........Weird thou really weird......

Anything that satisfies her? Even if it means it makes the husband look like he isn't man enough?

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by engoldzee(f): 11:51pm On Feb 17, 2017
thorpido:
All I can say is more grease to your elbow.
Remember to buy a pestle and keep.You might need it in the future.

Special adviser.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Feb 17, 2017
BiafranBushBoy:


I would love a role Aunty pls ooo...

Okay, good. you would play OP's children, specifically the once playing with the used toy.

How's that?

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by BiafranBushBoy: 11:56pm On Feb 17, 2017
Admin401:


Okay, good. you would play OP's children, specifically the once playing with the used toy.

How's that?

Hahahahahaha....

I want to play Op jare....

Pls Ma...!!
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by engoldzee(f): 11:59pm On Feb 17, 2017
eyinjuege:
Very few men can bring their wives to orgasms, and very few women have true orgasms in their lifetime.
You and your wife have been blessed to have that with each other, cos I want to believe she meets your sexual
fantasies as you do hers.
Don't belittle what you have with your wife.

You still haven't said anything to raise your suspicions about her fidelity.

Most Nigerians are judgemental, hence the reason you see couples not being truthful about their sexual pasts. Some will judge her because she enjoys anal, hence she'll rather take that secret to the grave, and possibly go back to the ex who gives anals. You her husband gives her the thing she likes, so why would she wanna go outside?

Enjoy yourselves with no apologies to anyone.

The only issue I find is that of her not been discreet with the strap ons around the house. Why don't you take charge of that, and be the one keeping it safe? Once used, clean it ,and throw it up the cupboard till its next use/ wrap it and put at the back of your underwear drawer?

True talk but intimacy gadgets thou Hmm the big O nah him dey cause all these wahala sha...... E reach to cause am cos that experience is out of this world I rest my case.
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by HarveySpecter1: 11:59pm On Feb 17, 2017
This story is made up. Even pornstars hardly take 8 inches of dlck in their ar$$. What kind of wife did you marry- an ex olosho with refurbished pu$$1?

Like most of the oloshos here have advised- keep it up.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by xynerise: 12:10am On Feb 18, 2017
O boy lipsrsealed
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Jamad1987(m): 12:10am On Feb 18, 2017
hmmmm i be pikin but all our prefect have talk sha.experience ur gal annal before marriage ooo
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by MummyIMadeIt: 12:11am On Feb 18, 2017
[s]SEX THIS.... SEX THAT.... SEX THERE.... SEX WHO.....SEX WHAT.....[/s]
I JUST TIRE WITH THE WAY OUR GENERATION CARRY THIS SEX ISSUE ON TOP THERE HEAD LIKE SWEET BANANA.


ABSTINENCE IS THE KEY TO GOOD LIVING...... VIRGINITY IS THE JOY OF THE HUMAN SOUL; SEX NEVER SATISFIES EITHER A MAN NOR A WOMAN THOUGH IT MAY LAST A TIME BUT WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THAT FEW MINUTES PLEASURE.

IMAGINE READING DAY IN AND DAY OUT ABOUT THE DEATH OF MEN WHO KILLED THEMSELVES ON THE VERGE OF SATISFYING THEIR MATE angry

WHO SEX EPP!! HAVE NEVA SEEN A PORN STAR CELEBRATED GLOBALLY, NEIDA BECOMING THE 100 RICHEST PERSONS ON EARTH undecided

OP I GAT FEW WORDS FOR YOU AND THAT IS "IF THE FOUNDATION BE FAULTY WHAT CAN THE RIGHTEOUS DO".

YOU NEED TO START ALL OVER FROM THE SCRATCH TO REFORMING YOUR MARRIAGE, ELSE YOU ARE IN FOR THE WORSE.

SEEK OUT A BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH FOR COUNSELLING ASAP...

ALSO YOU NEED CHRIST IN YOUR HOME MAN...

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 12:13am On Feb 18, 2017
How many miles extra
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by MrMcJay(m): 12:17am On Feb 18, 2017
All this one na campaign after election. Go and check the OP's previous thread, his wife is already cheating on him.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by danot1030: 12:17am On Feb 18, 2017
Op you better focus on building your life rather than troubling yourself with the worry whether your wife will cheat.

If you ask me, the probability of your wife still seeing the ex with the massive dick is high. Knowing women for who they are, once she has tasted that ex and she got heavenly with a natural dick, she knows that you are using an artificial support on her and anytime you are doing her with your artificial support she will be fantasizing the natural and the crave for it may make her be seeing the ex secretly. Though i cannot prove it but the probability is high, and am not in anyway insinuating that your wife is a cheat.

But you should have used what you have for her, that is what God has given you and that is who you are, not trying to be her ex. No man should impress a woman with what he does not have neither should a woman impress a man with what she does not have, likewise the parents should not impress the children with they don't have, marriage is at it's best when the couple accept themselves the way they are, that's what brings contentment.

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by 1metre: 12:18am On Feb 18, 2017
This is one of the importance of proper courtship .its obvious u are not sexually compatible,there is every tendency that she may cheat, if it's u, for how long will u continue to use artificial tin when u can easily canvas for a natural rough rider.
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 12:20am On Feb 18, 2017
darsool500:



Its a strap on, I wear it and tuck in my mandhood into it. Its not used for masturbation, am the one that uses it/ Sorry bro, there is nothing my manhood can change in getting her 3 times stronger orgasm. My manhood can only get her 1 time strong orgasm which is what we do most of the time.


So why can't you keep it away safely after use

I just don't understand how that is your wife's responsibility. Do you think you did her a favour by getting this tool? You said it yourself that you like the way her reaction makes you feel when you use it so there's something in it for you too. It just doesn't seem right that you think it's her 'duty' to keep it away.

As for cheating, I don't think all the intimacy gadgets in this world could keep a woman who wants to cheat from doing just that.
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 12:27am On Feb 18, 2017
Kolababe:


More grease to her Anu.s, u mean?

If this is a joke then it's in bad taste!

No need to mock the guy cos he decided to share his problem.
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by bizybrain1: 12:32am On Feb 18, 2017
there is no smoke without fire......beside a cheat will always be a cheat,small manhood or no manhood....Bro i think you need prayer
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by engoldzee(f): 12:35am On Feb 18, 2017
HarveySpecter1:


Anything that satisfies her? Even if it means it makes the husband look like he isn't man enough?

Mr Harvey wetin I wan talk nah?
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Nobody: 12:39am On Feb 18, 2017
JesuChristy. Wtf 11inch ?? oh lawd save me from such women #wehdon sir
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by toshmann(m): 12:41am On Feb 18, 2017
dayleke:
This one gidi gan o...
I hope the people with experience can help you sha...
Good luck bro...

grin grin grin
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by toshmann(m): 12:42am On Feb 18, 2017
Dyt:
Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?
shocked shocked shocked

And 11 deep down her punny?

shocked shocked shocked


grin grin grin
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by toshmann(m): 12:43am On Feb 18, 2017
adadike281:
lalasticlala, abeg come o, dis one pass me o. our parents in d house, oya over to u. I go dey follow

grin grin grin

Why no one de answer the guy na cheesy
Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by Pedagogue: 12:48am On Feb 18, 2017
@darsool500,

I feel compelled to write a reply.

You symbolise the 21st century husband. Very sexually aware of his wife's sexual needs, and ready to do anything to please his wife.

Although it is wonderful that you are ready to go out of your way to please your wife, you must however be aware of the 'risks' involved. In your case, you are psychologically (albeit you don't realise) in a stiff competition with your wife's ex. It also appears that you are constantly nursing the 'real fear' that your wife might cheat on you if you do not meet her sexual fantasies.

My first advice to you, my brother, is for you to STOP worrying yourself. You are doing your health and your children a great disservice by bothering too much about your wife's fidelity. Albeit you might think that you are not bothering 'too much', the medical fact is that you cannot know!

Second, please continue to do all you can to 'reasonably' meet her sexual needs. But do not discuss/probe further into her sexual history. It is not good for you. You will continue to feel inadequate. Again, the more she talks about her ex, the more will she be sexually interested in her ex.

Third, have you ever considered that a gadget can never feel like the real thing? Although I am not against the use of gadgets by married couples, it however appears that the main reason why you are using it is to try and act like her ex, and replicate how her ex used to make her feel. This is impossible. Even with the gadget, you can never be like her ex. Well, I understand that you have thrown the gadget away.

Fourth, resist the temptation to over- sexualise your marriage. Whilst sex is very crucial in marriage, it is not the ultimate. You need to stop the idea of having 'sex' with your wife. Rather, make love to each other. You cannot make love with intimacy gadgets. You cannot also determine the quality of your love-making by the number of time she cums.NO! Love-making is not mechanical. It is intensely emotional.

Let me stop here.

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My brother, please know this today that there's little you can do to stop your wife from cheating IF (God forbid) she falls into the category of some 21st century married women that place sexual satisfaction above anything else.

-For now (and hopefully for ever), your wife has not cheated on you to your knowledge. Ignore the comments that suggest otherwise.

-Continue to love your wife, and be involved in her daily activities.

-Your wife did not complain about the size of your tool neither did she ask you to buy the gadget. Don't complicate your marriage.

-Love yourself and don't give yourself any unnecessary stress.

-No man can be ultimately successful if he's constantly preoccupied with concerns over his wife's fidelity

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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by joshboo(m): 12:49am On Feb 18, 2017
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Re: Is There A Probability Of Cheating? by HazzanTazzan(m): 12:49am On Feb 18, 2017
undecided checking my size wink

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